Help Me Not Screw This Up
Met this hawttie last night at the club. She pretty much had attraction from the get-go. We had our face close to each other the entire time, and she would try to make out with me, which I would dodge and just resume eye contact from the close distance. I test for dtf by putting on hands on my crotch, which she was receptive to. Got her turned-on enough to get her to ditch her friends and leave the club with me.
Anyways, got to my car and turned on the heat, which freak her out I guess, and I knew I had to build more comfort. Walk her to her car, since I thought it'll make her feel more 'safe', She drove me back to my car, but I convinced her to get some food. Pretty much held her captive in her car, cause she was too nice to kick me out lol. Get back to my car, and I kept trying to push for her to take me back to her place or fucking in the car. After about an hour and a half of this nonsense I decided to throw in the towel, and left visibly upset with her. I think I said "K. I give up, cya." without even a glance at her.
Texting ensues:
Girl: nice to meet you - kt
Girl - 1 hr 12 mins later: i am home, and i hope you make it home safe. sweet dreams.
Me - 4 mins later: :)
Girl - 8 hrs 58 mins later: want to go to barton springs?
Me - 9 mins later: You know I can't swim beb
Girl - 2 mins later: oh yeah i forgot. there is a shallow end... ;)
Me - 9 mins later: Maybe.. only if you can be Pam from Baywatch, incase I sink
Girl - 1 min later: ha, i was a lifeguard for 4 years...
Me - 1 min later: What time?
Girl - 9 mins later: right meow
Me - 8 mins later: Teacher is holding me captive til 140!
Me: Can meet you after, beb
Girl - 6 mins later: i have work at 3
Girl - 3 mins later: what if i let you take me to lunch and we can do the springs another time when i have a float for you
Me - 4 mins later: deal.. only if you in a rubber duckie :D
Me: When are you free for lunch?
Girl - 14 mins later: i can be ready in 20 mins just wrapping up some work at home
Girl - 2 mins later: where are you?
Me - 3 mins later: Let's do a diff. day, girl. Forgot I need to talk to the counselor :/
Girl: ok
Should I try to set up the meet up right now? something like "Tmrw works? Free after 2p, when I'm done manhandling my exam"
or just wait it out? She already tried to meet up twice, and I had to decline.. not sure if this hinder our rapport together
She is actively trying for the meet up and you're denying her. Start leading the interaction and say you wanna meet up same day. Make sure you have no obligations ya derp.
You didnt save me, the counselor molested me so you no!