High School game vs. adulthood
Wed, 03/27/2013 - 22:29
Whats good guys!? This is my first post on the forum, being in high school I wanted to start a discussion thats close to heart for me.
What is your opinion on high school game vs. adult game? What doesn't work as well, and what needs to be stressed?
In my opinion I feel like the #1 key to high school game is simply social proof and developing yourself as a high value guy. High school girls are shallow, and fall into social pressure easily. On the topic of social tension, I feel like it can really fuck with you when it comes to approaching chicks. There are just so many kids around you, it is really tough to stay centered....and keep her centered. Another point I try push is simply being non-reactive, because you seem to run into a lot more girls having "bad days" ( well every high school kid is usually having a bad day).
On a personal note, In my earlier years of high school I had a shit load of social proof and a ton of opportunities to hookup with chicks. At one point my buddies where saying that I could get any girl in the school, but my problem was I always choked. I'm great at initial attraction, but I don't close. I'm notorious for not acting quick enough. It seems like I am fantastic at every part of my game, and her attraction slowly slips away because i dont escalate.While I still am a pretty high value guy, girls don't value me sexually anymore. I'm really all about asshole game, It just feels natural. Not that i'm a real dick, but I like to tease girls. It was funny how Manwhore discussed in one of his 21c speeches about girls saying shit like "girls like me aren't into guys like you", because i encounter this all the time. Except I always let it sensitize me, and i react but becoming a little bitch.
Sorry for writing so much, I just wanted to get all my thoughts out there! Discuss
What is your opinion on high school game vs. adult game? What doesn't work as well, and what needs to be stressed?
In my opinion I feel like the #1 key to high school game is simply social proof and developing yourself as a high value guy. High school girls are shallow, and fall into social pressure easily. On the topic of social tension, I feel like it can really fuck with you when it comes to approaching chicks. There are just so many kids around you, it is really tough to stay centered....and keep her centered. Another point I try push is simply being non-reactive, because you seem to run into a lot more girls having "bad days" ( well every high school kid is usually having a bad day).
On a personal note, In my earlier years of high school I had a shit load of social proof and a ton of opportunities to hookup with chicks. At one point my buddies where saying that I could get any girl in the school, but my problem was I always choked. I'm great at initial attraction, but I don't close. I'm notorious for not acting quick enough. It seems like I am fantastic at every part of my game, and her attraction slowly slips away because i dont escalate.While I still am a pretty high value guy, girls don't value me sexually anymore. I'm really all about asshole game, It just feels natural. Not that i'm a real dick, but I like to tease girls. It was funny how Manwhore discussed in one of his 21c speeches about girls saying shit like "girls like me aren't into guys like you", because i encounter this all the time. Except I always let it sensitize me, and i react but becoming a little bitch.
Sorry for writing so much, I just wanted to get all my thoughts out there! Discuss
Thu, 03/28/2013 - 03:39
#1
So what are some
So what are some opportunities you had where you failed to pull the trigger.
Thu, 03/28/2013 - 19:45
#2
Alright dude your gonna kill
Alright dude your gonna kill me for this one.... Party at my house and this chick starts making out with me, I really wanna just escalate, but i was talkin to some other chick at the time ( who was never worth it in the first place...another one of my problems goin all soft and lovey dovey before hooking up) so I backed off. This chick gets pissed, and her other hot friend comes in they start taking off their shirts and stuff and all i remember them saying is " do something...I dare you". At the moment I pussy out thinking that they're playing with me, scared to escalate. Now looking back at it, they were virgins, but some sort of three way hookup was totally on. These were arguably both 9.5's the kinda girls the guys at my school dream about.
multiple times I've been pushed into a room with a girl..and done nothing
most recently, I lean into kiss some chick and she kinda moves her head. I get reactive and think she doesn't want it
I have no problem with attracting high quality chicks, all my buddies say im pretty much gameless potential
multiple times I've been pushed into a room with a girl..and done nothing
most recently, I lean into kiss some chick and she kinda moves her head. I get reactive and think she doesn't want it
I have no problem with attracting high quality chicks, all my buddies say im pretty much gameless potential
Thu, 03/28/2013 - 19:57
#3
haha you remind me a little
haha you remind me a little bit of myself back in hs
Manwhore def. knows how to handle this, I got nothin just to say I was in a super similar situation as you back in the day.
Except you don't need social proof- lol I had a lot of girls who would hook up with me and then tell me not to tell anyone because they didn't want people knowing they hooked up with "BuddhaGames"- was a very fucked up situation lol
Manwhore def. knows how to handle this, I got nothin just to say I was in a super similar situation as you back in the day.
Except you don't need social proof- lol I had a lot of girls who would hook up with me and then tell me not to tell anyone because they didn't want people knowing they hooked up with "BuddhaGames"- was a very fucked up situation lol
Fri, 03/29/2013 - 01:46
#4
The choking problem will
The choking problem will become more and more of an issue as time goes on. Especially once you get past 23 or so, you must become a "closer". This is a life skill, not a seduction skill.
Fri, 03/29/2013 - 04:13
#5
exactly, im great at
exactly, im great at seduction I attract 90% chick I want...i just don't close, and they lose interest
Well I guess the only way to overcome this...is to close
Well I guess the only way to overcome this...is to close