Horrible Texters - Still Meet
Have you guys ever had girls where they are god awful texters but they will make plans with you and still meet up?
I fucking hate this lol
Not very responsive or give much to the convo, but if you set a meet up or something they are always down. I can't tell if these types of girls are just shitty texters or don't have enough investment in me yet.
Maybe call them?
Or are they even worse on the phone.
I might have to resort to that, even though these girls still agree to meet up and stuff with their shit-ass texting.
What do you think? You can evaluate that on your own you're industry. Step to it
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nah man if a girl wants to meet up with you then she will text u nonstop and ask u out
if she doesnt do that then shes not into u
-misc
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I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
LOL shutup, Max
I think if she's still down to meet up and we do meet up and chill.. it doesn't really matter that she isn't always texting me and stuff. Especially if she's got a lot going on. That or I need to build more investment.. via fucking her brains out.
Maybe she is desperate for the D and doesn't know what to say like a lot of dudes trying to learn game lmfao
Hahaha I notice in person this happens a lot lately where the girl will literally freak out and it'll show on her face. Visually nervous, anxious, etc.
Not enough investment. A lot of the girls I'm texting off of tinder/online are super aloof and delay the responses until either A) I hit on some thread that piques their interest or spikes their emotions setting me aside from the 20 others guys who are good-looking but texting "hey" "hey what's up" or B) after we meet up and they get to experience me. One girl was lazy af and took about 24 hrs to respond to texts and it took me a week or so to get her out. Meetup went well, and afterwards she would text every 5-7hrs. Met up a second time and really connected, and after that she was replying within 15mins unless she was at work.
There's something else I wanted to add to this discussion. Lots of girls I've hung out with from tinder/online have been complaining that many guys seem to want to be "texting buddies" but never actually make plans to meet up (I think that some of these guys have girlfriends). So if you make it clear that you want to meet up and handle it properly then they will put you in their schedules. In the mean time they are both busy (or have to appear like they are) or just not that into you yet because they don't know how awesome you are and are afraid you'll be lame like the last 5 guys.
Not enough investment. A lot of the girls I'm texting off of tinder/online are super aloof and delay the responses until either A) I hit on some thread that piques their interest or spikes their emotions setting me aside from the 20 others guys who are good-looking but texting "hey" "hey what's up" or B) after we meet up and they get to experience me. One girl was lazy af and took about 24 hrs to respond to texts and it took me a week or so to get her out. Meetup went well, and afterwards she would text every 5-7hrs. Met up a second time and really connected, and after that she was replying within 15mins unless she was at work.
I agree with this. I have a girl who is absolute dog shit at texting but is down to hang, generally. She is VERY aloof and entitled. Tbh I blame myself for not giving her dong when the opportunity present itself. Like I had to go through acrobatic maneuvers to get her to spend the night then literally she clammed up in the moment so we just chilled, talked and napped for a coupe hours. Twilight hours hit and I probably could've smashed; instead I settled for a hand job. Cherished a little too much and rationalized in my head that I should wait to bone 1 day since I wanted to see her again. I don't think that's a deal breaker but truthfully I probably let her down a little 'cuz she probably envisioned me to be a man about it and step up when the opportunity presented itself. That being said she's text me to hangout but fucking finals/projects are looming so it's been poor timing to link up, although we hung out once and that was good but she just refuses to spend the night when there's class the followng morning. Pretty sure had I just handled things accordingly she'd be texting me all the time though. Thing is, I think these situations are fixable since they're down for the meetup. I'd probably just do this during meetup: Be chill + build a connection + step up and give her dong and things should fall in line. Nothing ground breaking and I'm somewhat simplifying things there. Also I haven't converted these situations before and your situation may be different, so take what I say with a grain of salt, but that's more or less what I plan on doing next time I hang out w/her.
Yeah I kind of agree here. They have a strong sense of entitlement and they are very aloof. I just sort of play it cool and I notice from the meet up it gets better and better (the texting).
I've lately been noticing how good interactions and sets lead to easier text game. You get a feel for the girl, set a good vibe and you sort of know how to play it for the most part especially if you have experience with that type of girl. I guess it all comes back to reference experience. This is noticeably making shit tests easier for me to pass and making setting up day 2's a breeze.