A Hot Girl & Her Fat Friend Walk Into a Bar...

Been trying to reconcile this topic of "dealing with the friends", "cockblocks", "motherhens" etc. etc.

This stuff has been beaten to death I know and I already understand how to deal with each scenario its just making the right decision in the moment that is holding me back.

So I see a an absolute bombshell of a girl and her fat friend standing around with drinks in their hands. I'm feeling good and all is well in the hood so I approach both of them at the same time but direct myself towards the fat friend first with a simple "Yo! What's up!" and stick my hand out....she's a bit hesitant (obviously) but I just stand there expecting her to stick it back. She does and I go into conversation with both of them only asking questions like "Whats your name, where are you from, what school you go to". I make funny comments about certain things and call them both gorgeous just cause I'm in that fun mood. 

Both of them are really digging me and ESPECIALLY the hot one because I didn't go straight in on her...my attention has been shifting between them both with it leaning towards the fat one. Its amazing how simple it is to create attraction this way when you don't gun for the actual girl you want directly...she knows she's hot and is almost shocked that you don't care. In this situation, I actually didn't care, I was just having fun...which I believe, almost to a fault.

Out of nowhere, two huge black guys come in and one of them starts having fun dancing and screaming. That one was drunk af and grabs me and starts shaking me like "Whats up dude!". This didn't effect me in any shape or form and as he grabbed me I still had the same shit-eating grin on my face, smiling back at him, making eye contact the entire time. The other guy was just a bystander watching shit. 

I quickly find out that they're all co-workers so these guys aren't randoms. Last night was kind of a blur because I approached so fucking much that they all start blending in together lol. No drugs or alcohol gents. Anyways, I forget why, but they all leave to go sit somewhere and I leave to go game more.

I come back later and the girls are again by themselves so I start telling them and edging them on to come sit with me. They follow me but once I sit down, the fat one says "We're gonna go dance...by ourselves". 

She wasn't rude about it at all and was nothing but nice to me throughout the night but this was your typical scenario where the fattie calls the shots and the hottie is the lost puppy on a leash following its master around. So there was no place to start dropping fire on her.

After that, towards the end of the night, I'm standing there with some new girls and their whole co-worker crew of two black dudes, a hottie and a fatty are leaving, and as the hot one passes me by she gives me a little shoulder hand rub with her fingers. Basically, the one telling me that she's leaving and it was nice meeting you without saying anything. I take this opportunity to quickly turn and grab her, but the belligerent fat dude stops me and goes "Sorry mane she's goin home with me HAHAAHA!"

At the end end of the night, where people are all on the street, I see the hot girl with the fat girl again and they both get into their car and drive away leaving the black guys on the street. 

My questions here are;

-Did i give the fat girl too much validation by engaging her, and calling her gorgeous? Enough to where she could take over and call the shots?

-For future reference: Should I of scrapped the fat girl completely in the beginning and just focused on the hot one? OR should I of cut it short with the fat one after messing with both of them and started gunning towards the hot one?

I know this is clearly an issue of not setting the proper frame from the onset of authority and leadership to where nobody can really compete with you but I've been struggling with this:

I never know when to just go for the hot one, or to engage the group, etc. etc.

Guys generally aren't my problem, befriending them is my go-to and I can out game and energize them anyday of the week. 

For reference:

This girl was beyond stunning. Think of it where every guy in the venue stares as she walks by and their jaws drop..but no one has the balls to approach. So when you do, you stand out like no other and she's so fixated on you. 

I think it might of been a simple issue of being dominant to where the fat one has no choice but to let the hot one go with me.