hot girls in clubs
tl;dr version - when a hot girl rejects you, and you remain calm and keep talking to her without being hurt, you get some extra time.
so i was in some club on friday, and i usually do just daygame. i consumed decent amount alcohol which was perfect for that fearless state in which you're still sharp enough. so i went to talk to a couple of hot girls that night, and they really didn't give a fuck about me. but the fact that i kept talking like nothing happened when they were like "i don't want to meet new people right now" seemed powerful. i just went to them, and said hi, waited for them to look at me, extend my hand, and said i am alphapro. they are like "no socializing today soz" and i start guessing her name. i say she looks like typical jane (or whatever), and try a couple of different names when she said no. so i tell her that she must be new at this because this is the time when she tells me her name. so she actually did (this happened with more girls that night), and i start guessing her job at which point i quickly lose her interest, and she just ejects.
so i wonder what do you guys do in situations like this. yeah i know the general answer is to be present, and something will come to you blah blah.. but i think that this works only when you've experienced it certain amount of times. i wasn't afraid but in each case she didn't want to talk to me so i didn't have much to work with. and i think that the approach alone was ok, after all the sober daygaming opener seemed like a piece of cake.
So right there you are explicitly revealing your sticking point. You're "plowing" which is fine, but the actual real source of the issue is clearly visible.
i think that i need to impress?
no that isn't it. that certainly wasn't true in that situation. so is it that i wasn't "socially aware" and kept on it anyway? but i thought that the game is about being able to seduce girls that otherwise wouldn't give a fuck. :)
No screening, no standards, no teasing, no challenge, no game.
They come down to a club and drop you "no socializing today soz". At this point in your mind if you come from the right place it should trigger your shotgun, while staying relax and not caring.
"no socializing today soz." "me too I just come to the club on Friday to reflect on my own life narrative."
Call them out.
^ Lol. Yeah that's a good point as well.
Basically your mouthpiece was stuck in fag mode. BRING IT
Also, "she didn't want to talk to me" ... stop placing your awareness on them. it's YOUR movie
You think they come to the club to play guessing games? You were boring dude
What's plowing and what's the better alternative?