hot half egyptian. reengagement help
Mon, 09/17/2012 - 14:47
so this girl i saw a couple of times last year. had her in bed but got lmr. felt cocky that she liked me and let it go cold. then started chasing her away and she went and got a boyfriend.
she's recently split up and we've had a bit of banter. she talked about coming to one of my gigs but it got cancelled and i'd rather just meet up. i've hinted at meeting but she's a bit flaky. she likes my pictures and crap on facebook but i'm so hot or cold i've been resistant to pushing the interaction. i always seem to go into chaser mode.
here's the most recent exchange after a couple of weeks no contact:
me "i'm heading out to rob an ice cream van, need a partner to play look out, you in?" (thanks guys)
her "i'm at xyz festival babe x"
me "don't get into too much trouble gorgeous"
her "too late! :) x"
then i left it. that was a week ago.
there's some interest there, just need to play around and get her excited about meeting again.
advice most welcome. thanks
she's recently split up and we've had a bit of banter. she talked about coming to one of my gigs but it got cancelled and i'd rather just meet up. i've hinted at meeting but she's a bit flaky. she likes my pictures and crap on facebook but i'm so hot or cold i've been resistant to pushing the interaction. i always seem to go into chaser mode.
here's the most recent exchange after a couple of weeks no contact:
me "i'm heading out to rob an ice cream van, need a partner to play look out, you in?" (thanks guys)
her "i'm at xyz festival babe x"
me "don't get into too much trouble gorgeous"
her "too late! :) x"
then i left it. that was a week ago.
there's some interest there, just need to play around and get her excited about meeting again.
advice most welcome. thanks
Mon, 09/17/2012 - 21:23
#1
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@macfuque:
Dude, your texts were pretty playful so just throw a standard re-engagement text:
"You just popped into my head so Hi...now please stay out of there"
Dude, your texts were pretty playful so just throw a standard re-engagement text:
"You just popped into my head so Hi...now please stay out of there"
Tue, 09/18/2012 - 10:21
#2
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@CyberShot:
Thanks mate, That's good but feel like that's all I've been doing with this girl.
Funny text, funny reply. Dry dick.
If no one else has anything I'll happily use it though as my mind is blank.
Cheers
Thanks mate, That's good but feel like that's all I've been doing with this girl.
Funny text, funny reply. Dry dick.
If no one else has anything I'll happily use it though as my mind is blank.
Cheers
Tue, 09/18/2012 - 11:46
#3
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
Hey man this is really fucking strange to read.
This is that really high value guy afraid to hit up a girl straight up or put more on the line because somehow he's out of touch with the fact he's much MUCH more high-value than her.
That same factor played into why you got lmr the first time. This is so bizarre I like reading it :)
This is that really high value guy afraid to hit up a girl straight up or put more on the line because somehow he's out of touch with the fact he's much MUCH more high-value than her.
That same factor played into why you got lmr the first time. This is so bizarre I like reading it :)
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Tue, 09/18/2012 - 11:55
#4
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@macfuque:
Interesting Macfuque I just reread through your emails..
Interesting Macfuque I just reread through your emails..
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Tue, 09/18/2012 - 12:07
#5
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
Can anyone else see this. There are subtle clues as to what's going on that I'm getting at.
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Tue, 09/18/2012 - 18:37
#6
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@Manwhore:
this unfortunately is the pattern for a lot of my interactions.
they're keen. me not so much.
then they're less keen so i become TOO keen.
or sometimes i just skip to the second bit.
once i've fucked them i find it really tough to see why i was chasing (that girl) so hard.
a FB i had a few months ago told me "your texts are really strange. it's like you're trying to get me to do the asking"
didn't really think about it at the time but speaks volumes.
this unfortunately is the pattern for a lot of my interactions.
they're keen. me not so much.
then they're less keen so i become TOO keen.
or sometimes i just skip to the second bit.
once i've fucked them i find it really tough to see why i was chasing (that girl) so hard.
a FB i had a few months ago told me "your texts are really strange. it's like you're trying to get me to do the asking"
didn't really think about it at the time but speaks volumes.
Tue, 09/18/2012 - 18:37
#7
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@Manwhore:
double post
double post
Tue, 10/02/2012 - 14:55
#8
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
So I went with:
"you just popped into my head so Hi... Now please stay out of there" (thanks Cybershot)
She replied immediately with:
"macfuque!! Nice to hear from you. How are you?! X"
I'm leaning towards
"making music instead of at work so pretty awesome. How's you?"
I'm trying to be less try hard
Or maybe go direct:
"I'm awesome babe. What's your schedule like this week?"
"you just popped into my head so Hi... Now please stay out of there" (thanks Cybershot)
She replied immediately with:
"macfuque!! Nice to hear from you. How are you?! X"
I'm leaning towards
"making music instead of at work so pretty awesome. How's you?"
I'm trying to be less try hard
Or maybe go direct:
"I'm awesome babe. What's your schedule like this week?"
Tue, 10/02/2012 - 15:50
#9
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@macfuque:
guys, i know this seems super basic but my texting has sucked and lost me many chicks who were into me in person.
i know there are tons of you guys who know what they're doing.
i'd rather learn before i send than after, so any advice much appreciated.
thanks fellas
guys, i know this seems super basic but my texting has sucked and lost me many chicks who were into me in person.
i know there are tons of you guys who know what they're doing.
i'd rather learn before i send than after, so any advice much appreciated.
thanks fellas
Wed, 10/03/2012 - 06:03
#10
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@macfuque:
Alright lads. Unless someone jumps in with something better I'm sendin this
"Apart from this damn phone I'm all good thanks babe. What's your schedule like this week?"
It's the next day already over here
Alright lads. Unless someone jumps in with something better I'm sendin this
"Apart from this damn phone I'm all good thanks babe. What's your schedule like this week?"
It's the next day already over here
Wed, 10/03/2012 - 06:10
#11
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@macfuque:
man your problem is being afraid to fuck up..which is the best way 2 learn
since you got nothing to lose with her, send away
man your problem is being afraid to fuck up..which is the best way 2 learn
since you got nothing to lose with her, send away
Wed, 10/03/2012 - 06:18
#12
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@CyberShot:
You're dead right man.
Thing is I've fucked up a lot and didn't learn shit, which is why I'm here:
I figure guys with experience at not fucking up can spot the fuck up before it fucks up ;)
Thanks though man. It is coming from a different place, more direct than I usually go.
Fuck it. I'll send it.
You're dead right man.
Thing is I've fucked up a lot and didn't learn shit, which is why I'm here:
I figure guys with experience at not fucking up can spot the fuck up before it fucks up ;)
Thanks though man. It is coming from a different place, more direct than I usually go.
Fuck it. I'll send it.
Wed, 10/03/2012 - 20:20
#13
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@macfuque:
Ha! So no response.. Another one bites the dust.
Now that I've ballsed up again, would anyone like to weigh in?
I'm thinking waiting 18 hours to send a 0 rapport message may have been it but I'm open to suggestions.
Ha! So no response.. Another one bites the dust.
Now that I've ballsed up again, would anyone like to weigh in?
I'm thinking waiting 18 hours to send a 0 rapport message may have been it but I'm open to suggestions.
Fri, 10/05/2012 - 01:56
#14
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@macfuque:
Why do you keep sending this weird, awkward "what's your schedule like this week?" It's like being asked out by Mr. Rogers
Why do you keep sending this weird, awkward "what's your schedule like this week?" It's like being asked out by Mr. Rogers
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I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
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- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Fri, 10/05/2012 - 18:43
#15
Re: hot half egyptian. reengagement help
@Manwhore:
haha. saw a bunch of guys using it on this forum and never tried it myself.
i know better now ;)
i'll give her a few days to let her vagina moisten after that super dry message then re-engage.
haha. saw a bunch of guys using it on this forum and never tried it myself.
i know better now ;)
i'll give her a few days to let her vagina moisten after that super dry message then re-engage.