Hottie doesn't ask me ANYTHING about myself
Just finished up on a date with a super hot blondie. I pulled her and had her tits out but got LMR that I wasn't able to break through. So hopefully i'll get her next time.
BUT, during the date, and when I met her at the club I began to notice that most of the time we were talking about her. And that she had barely asked me anything about myself. I handled it by forcing her to learn about me. I did this by asking her questions, she'd then answer it and i'd make comments about it then tell MY side of the story and act as though she had asked me the same question. Kinda similar to how we practice the authoritative questions drill for those of you who have done the program. This also allowed me to shape the conversation and lead it in a direction I wanted.
Anyone else experienced girls like this? How would you/have you others handled situations like this? I feel like what I did was decent, and forced her to learn and invest in me where as otherwise I would be just that fun guy who can spike her emotions but who she knows nothing about.
Ok so your prerogative here was to share? Or to get her panties off..? Just asking. 'Cuz I know what my answer would be. Lmao. Sure I like to share with a girl but that's a distant second to seeing her naked.
Lol of course that's what I was trying to do primarily. But I'm talking about beforehand, like when we were chilling and drinking on the date. She was making it tough for me to express myself and talk about my passions with conviction etc. So I made her listen to them lol
Hmm, sure of course. So what's the big picture here. How'd all that lead to the lukewarm tadpole ending
You're gonna kill me lol. I've been thinking it over and reading through my notes from your coaching, and this is somethign that popped up during the 3 months.
We were going at it, and I flip her over so that I can pull more of her clothes off and she gets a moment to think logically. And she stops. I then relise she standing on my freaking laptop with her heels. So anyway, I tell her to jump off it and she does then she says she needs to go home and pops her tits back in. She starts tallking about how she has to get up early etc. I acknowledge it and start talking about other shit. And I KNOW that I should have gone for it again. But I performed some weak ass faggotry and didn't, and the window closed and then she started booking an uber and left.
I remember now during the coaching that you said girls will do this so that they can voice something to make them not feel slutty, that it's like their last bit of resistance and if you handle it properly then thats it. And I fucked it up. I'm sooo pissed at myself. Unforgivable shit right there, probs the hottest girl I've pulled and I don't think I'm getting a second chance :(
Wait.. you didn't go for it again??
Give her my number.
lmao. I've just signed her up for your coaching program
Aww maaaaan. Now I can't sell her on my facial salves