House party game + Late night text game- let's break it down

I met this girl at school a few months ago while getting food at 1 AM. She was SUPER drunk and kept inviting me to have a foursome with her as a joke, whatever she was saying didn't make much sense but it was obvious she wanted to be alone with me. Her friend ended up taking her home because she was blackout drunk. I texted her immediately the next day. I was seeding dates left and right and she started to show some interest. I try to schedule the date and she hits me with something like, "I don't think I can actually handle robbing an ice cream truck with you." This similar situation has happened several times with her over the past few months.

I see her around campus and everytime we chat it's always a super solid interaction. I've had to deal with cockblocks and all that jazz and I've always came across high value. Wednesday night I show up to this drunk bingo event. I sit down next to her with my group of friends and introduce everyone. We vibe really well that night and she's very lovey dovey with me. Her friend starts asking my friends If I ever talk about her because she's into me. I try to move her around the venue but its tough because it's a sit down event, we walk over to watch some dance battle that is going down but that's the only movement that occurs. We kick it for 10 minutes and I try to invite all of her friends to play beer pong but they are all in their sweats and explain they weren't planning on partying. This is not a problem I remain calm and bounce with my friends.

We have Greek week going down so I casually text her some invites she sounds very interested but never swings by. I will post the texts below. Finally, I see her saturday at noon on my way to a day party. She is all over me and is trying to hold my hand while we talk. I felt like we had some momentum going and she was excited because she was falling for me. I invite her to party with me but they are getting food to sober up before the concert and I wanted to make an appearance at the party so I tell her that I will find her at the concert.

She ends up being right next to me at the concert and we hit it off really well again. We dance I bit with each other, I spin her around and we just have fun. It wasn't grinding music so nothing very sexual. I leave every few minutes and go talk to other people. I was gaming another girl nearby that was with my social circel, she wasn't super interested but I consistently tried to push that interaction as well. I head back to my girl and we talk some more. I noticed some white knight faggot comes in and starts hogging my girl and her friends for himself. He was cockblocking several guys going after the girls. He was saying some gay friend shit and holding their hands. Im like ,"HA! why are you holding his hand thats soo creepy." She's like ,"ohh hehe (name) keeps me safe." I now start talking to white knight and befriend him. I'm charasmatic as fuck and we get along really well, turns out we have met before but he claims I was drunk and that's why I don't remember him. I actually did have an idea of who he was but wasn't really interested in letting him know that cuz I think he's a faggot. Maybe I should have been nicer. He was a tad condescending about it  but overall he was friendly. He then gives me some more space with my girl. I try to move her to get a water but she says her friends already have one and she doesn't wanna lose her spot. She leaves with her friends. Not a big deal because I know I will see her again at the after party (it's a big backyard party). 

I leave the concert with my friensd and we end bumping into her and her friends again. I invite them to come party with us and get some food before the after party starts. She gives me a condescending answer like "Nahhh we are actually going (place)." It was clearly a joke and she was being cute about it. My chode friend says ,"ohhh damn how's that cold shoulder feel." I ignore him and tell my girl and her friends we will catch em later! I then scold my friend for saying that shit. Not the first time he has said some faggot shit like that, he obviously has some jealousy towards me and/or he's just a negative guy. He tries to be nice to me and smooth it over cuz' he realizes how lame that was to say. 

I make it to the backyard party and I can't find my girl, so I shoot her a text. I game around and get a snapchat but nothing great goes down. I make it to a house party and on the way there I find a friend and her younger sister. I always make jokes about having her sister cut my hair when she visits the school (she works at a salon). I'm not super into her sister but I've definitely seeded the idea that I'd bang her. She just passes her sister my way and we dance at the party. A buddy and I are dancing with little sis and her little friend (they are a few years younger than me). They are excellent dancers, some crazy twerk skills. I try not to get too heavy into it but we have fun and I get some wood. I try to move her somewhere but the party is elbow to elbow with no room to move (typical house party here). I end up getting everyone to leave. We walk the streets home and I just talk, talk, talk to my girl. Some tall motherfucker she knows from middle school picks her up for a piggy back ride. He walks away and I make jokes about how he looks like an avatar. I try to get everyone  to go straight to my dorm but they insist on peeing at the student center. We all use the bathroom and the girls take forever. All the girls storm out and try to not even acknoweldge us. At this point it's me and my buddy, and some random guy we don't know but we are talking and he's cool. Random dude follows big sister that I know and I track down the little sis and her friend. I make a remark about partying at my dorm and how I have the "coolest lights." they pause and are on the fance about it all. They then say that they don't even have their ID's (the school requires guests to be signed in, I would have had to fill out an online form...it's a big mess)I tell them we will walk back to big sisters dorm to get them. They get there and once they are at the door they nicely say I think we are going to stay here. We can't get into the dorm so we say good night and leave.

I get home around 1 AM and my girl from earlier texts me back. I'm going to post the whole convo below from this week and i'll indicate when last nights texts begin.

Me: Swing by sometime next week

Her: thats dangerous im too good at beer pong

Me: Pshhhh girl i'm unstoppable when I drink knock off jack daniels

Me: Yo! shots of Evan Williams n' beer pong tn in (dorm)

Me: swing by so I can destroy you in a dance off :)

Her: we're going to the bar!

Me: ahhh I told evan you were coming

Her: Whose evan

Me: my homie :) jack daniels lil bro

Her: Darn Ill have to meet him another day :)

Me: lol ok buhbs

Me: Sup dork

Me: I just saw fast and furious

Me: got my yearly dose of vin diesel

Her: Really? how was it I've never seen any of them

Me: Ha! no fuckin way beb

Me: Not sure if that's normal :)

Me: are you a crazy person

Her: idkkk do I look crazy

Her: I dont want movies a lot

Me: lol ok ms. bookworm

Me: damn I need to get my cowboy shit ready for tomorrows show

Me: what're you up to tn lil pony

Her: I dont think we are doing anything hby

Me: netflix night?

Me: heading over to see the homies at (dorm)

Me: i'll send all the drunkies your (her dorm) :)

Her: hahahah i'll make sure my door is locked

Me: lol actually staying at (my dorm) cuz we have beer pong table here

Her: I'll come and crash your party

Me: dare you ill destroy yah at beer pong AND dance off

Me: lemme know if you wanna stop by at some point ill sign you in :)

Her: ughh it's kinda long walk but maybe

Her: I ould beat you in both tho

Me: lol you wouldn't tho

Me: bet you have middle school dance skills

Her: stop doubting my skills

Me: lol we can salsa together these hips don't lie

Her: wow you're good at eveyrthing aren't you

Me: lol when i'm partying I def think my dancing is fanastic

Me: im prob quite medicore

Me: lol (my dorm) is the party rn I guess everyone said fuck the (apartment parties)

Me: what're you doin

Her: dang I wish I was as lit as you

Her: we are just having a wine night

Her: I hate wine

Me: lol wine makes me frisky

Her: gotta keep the wine away from you then :)

Me: (patrick bateman meme smug smile)

Saturday:

Me: lol I feel ressurected I made it back to (party)

Me: where you at?

Her: Sorry i'm just seeing this (1:19 AM)

Me: lol all good I hear (name)'s tend to dyslexic

Her: you're wrong

Me: lol forgot you're a librarian

Me: wassup reading a book rn?

Her: nah im sleepy

Me: well then go to sleep stupid

Her: im pulling an all nighter

Me: lol wut did you do some addy or something

Her: no i wish its greek week I shouldn't be in bed right now

Me: yah I just got back from party on (street) we killed the dance floor then it got shut down

Me: even on your addy ill steal beat you in a dance off

Her: I WAS THERE WTF   <---zero chance she saw me dancing with other girl these parties are so tightly packed and dark

Me: didn't see you there chickiepoo I was kinda in the zone

Me: bet you pooped your pants when coppers showed up

Her: No I do what i want

Me: lol isn't it past your bedtime

Me: or am I gonna have to tuck you in

Me: I have milk n' cookies

Me: oh shit wait winner of this next pong game gets the girly scout cookies never mind

Her: cookies are the key to my heart  <---she totally stole this from me

Me: ill go ninja and steal some for us

Me: just dont tell anyone

Me: gawd these thin mints are so delish

Her: im actually really hungry stop

Me: yah I could go for dominos rn

Me: but if you put pinapple on pizza im not coming

Her: bring me a slice of pizza and a chocolate chip cookie and i'll be so happy

Me: Coming over to destroy you in a cook off

Me: are you in (dorm)

Her: yes

Me: yeah im close ill walk over in 5

Me: can i bring beer or nah

Her: im not reall serious im going to bed <----exactly what she does everytime something is about to go down

Me: lol you're so gay

Her: shut up

Me: granny panties typa night

I think the texting is good overall. It is a bit repetiitive but honestly I was partying all week and didn't realize that I needed to switch it up. Last night I should have been softer with her. It would have been better If I had given her a hard time for night partying since it was spring concert night and kept it friendly and cool. I was too gamey. Also, Aequitas pointed out to me that I probably shouldn't have put her on my snap story earlier in the day she may have taken it too seriously.

I need to work on my cold approach party game. I have been saying this for a long time but i'm commitng myself to it now. Honestly, I let Tinder become a crutch for me. Parties aren't plentiful around here especially when it's cold out. I got good at tinder and decent at small social circle game so I stopped pushing for big party type game. It's always a party at the bars but i'm underage and they are strict.

When we do party hard at my school I end up drinking too much and miscalculate my game as seen above. It really frustrates me. I can bang girls on the first date off of Tinder and have one night stands at small social circle parties but i'm just not that great in wild enviroments. I find it hard to make emotional connections and I feel SUPER ungrounded. I just can't fuckin relax, and I sometimes feel isolated from everyone around me like i'm not enjoying the party. I can't visualize pulling a girl from a huge house party, that's a problem. My approaches go well but It usually is a few minutes of talking and number close or they just leave. I need to establish a much stronger presence in wild enviroments because i'm not some super star sports player like some of these dudes (all of the parties are dictated by the sports team). I just don't feel like I come across as anything special in these enviroments! I talk about interesting stuff but only people I already know seem interested in what I have to say lol. I definitely get a stage fright type of feeling when i'm out in big crowds too, that needs to end because i'm not acting like myself when this happens.

I'm going to push hard and nail down this skill set.