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How to approach texting this girl (based on interaction)

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Awkward story.

Met girl and number closed her after 5 minutes or so. 

Later saw her and turns out she lives at the same Building as me, and we started talking and vibing for a few minutes.

Turns out she was waiting for her roommate who came by.

And who I had hit on 45 minutes ago.

It made it rather awkward but I still talked with both of them for maybe 8 or so more minutes about various topics. I mentioned how I'm an "open" person etc..

And then at the end the girl I liked said, "you have my number"..

How's the best way to approach this? 

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"It made it rather awkward" I

"It made it rather awkward" I think there would've been a little voice in my head going "alright, I like where this is going" :) Good luck you'll be ok, at least if you're in the same building it should be easy to arrange a quick meet up - I wish I had any girl above a 6 in my building. Or even in the entire bloody site tbh.

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Text or call the one you

Text or call the one you like. Continue to be verbally flirty with the other if you happen to run into her. It is slightly awkward. I did this same thing in the mall the other day. Just go for it anyway and see what happens lol.

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I dunno mang. You can play

I dunno mang. You can play this off SUPER easily.. just act like you know they're both into you. Your texting will follow that emotional wavelength and you'll text accordingly. DONE

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Note we both have the same

Note we both have the same name.

So here's the text convo:

"Hey (her name) it's me Ricky Martin. Flying to Miami tomorrow, get your salsa ready." (note: she's a dancer)

"Hey who is this"

"(my name) 2x."

"What?" 

"(my name) from yesterday. This feels like Who's on first..."

and she "read it" but didn't respond. ugh.

Probably should have been more witty on the last text. maybe.:

This is the charming (my name) you met yesterday. Unless you meet a lot of (my name)'s on a daily basis."

How to re-engage this? Tomorrow or wait till Wednesday or Thursday? 

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Holmes read my "19 Rules of

Holmes read my "19 Rules of Text Game" article. Some blatant ass clown mistakes there mang

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Manwhore wrote:Holmes read

Manwhore wrote:
Holmes read my "19 Rules of Text Game" article. Some blatant ass clown mistakes there mang

 Ughhhh. Literally looked up , "How to respond to "Who's This"?" on google and didn't even find that article. This line would have been PERFECT. :(  (although I did already start with "This is Ricky Martin" 

9. "Who's this?" - Never give a straight answer to this. It's so boring, and to be boring at the start of a text relationship usually means instant death. Make up something spectacular. "This is Kevin Federline's backup dancer. Don't you remember? You offered me a job last night! j/k what's up girl it's mr. [insert_username] from last night. How are ya gorgeous?"

What would be a good text to re-engage then?

I see you said in the article, " "I think I'm pregnant with your child." but do you have any others? Maybe one's that incorporate "dance' in them like that? (although I did open with a dance line) 

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There's a thousand different

There's a thousand different ways of responding to this.. come up with a couple possibilities and I'll help you out.

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I think one of the main

I think one of the main things with game and esp text game is getting out of the mindset of  'its a bunch of segued one liners'. It's got to be about truth, albeit sometimes heavily exaggerated truth...and this is what I'm working on atm.

It's interesting with the written game stuff because the approach is just like how I wrote at Uni doing Creative Writing e.g truth exaggeration for uplifting effect

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Saw this from Simple Pickup..

Saw this from Simple Pickup.. what do you think of this? 

:

"Tonight. Fancy, romantic date. I'm cooking Campbell's."

then after she responds

"Oh I wasn't inviting you"

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Or 

"Yo Texas, have you ever watched the greatness that is Friday Night lights??"    (she's from Texas) 

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Sure, that first one is

Sure, that first one is pretty damn funny. But what you going to do with it? She says something, you send that, then...?

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Manwhore wrote: Sure, that

Manwhore wrote:
Sure, that first one is pretty damn funny. But what you going to do with it? She says something, you send that, then...?

If she says "haha' or anything responsive to that, go for the meet up? 

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Yep that could work. She's

Yep that could work. She's already grown unresponsive so it may not work out so smoothly honestly. 

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Manwhore wrote:Yep that

Manwhore wrote:
Yep that could work. She's already grown unresponsive so it may not work out so smoothly honestly. 

I know my 2nd text is a bit chodey, ""Yo Texas, have you ever watched the greatness that is Friday Night lights??"    (she's from Texas) "

but I'm fairly certain based on social media that she's a fan of the show. Would it be better  to go with that text then the "Campbell's text" for now? I could always re-engage with the Campbell's line in a few days I get a response off the 2nd text. 

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Ok mang looks like you're

Ok mang looks like you're just starting out, and there's nothing wrong with that, but understand I've already written a HUGE body of work on text game. It's all there for you to read. Go to the "Best of" thread stickied at the top of the forum and read my articles listed in it as well as those from Buddhagames and Patrick.Bateman. From there you will develop a very solid and detailed understanding. 

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Dude this one interaction and

Dude this one interaction and this one text is not gonna make you or break you. You need to look at your game from a broader standpoint. Your way too attached to this one text. Just send the Campbell's soup text, tell her about your day being humorous then go for the meetup. Then display your convo on here and we'll help you out. This game is about action so just fucking pull the trigger. Then go get more numbers.

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I forgot to mention once you

I forgot to mention once you go through that and start texting then I'm definitely here to help. 

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