How to bypass her logical mind, and touch all you want!
Wed, 05/15/2013 - 02:14
I was sitting at home watching some tv, and I started watching that new "brain games" show. They were focusing on selective attention ( i don't know the scientific term)...anyways they had some footage of street performers in Vegas, the kinda guys that can steal your watch and wallet without the slightest notice. This whole concept of selective attention really clicked with me, as it can be applied to pickup.
Selective attention is important because it allows you to break the touching barrier, without her even noticing at first. This is where the whole concept of "being with the girl" as MW calls it comes into play. If your holding strong eye contact, this will occupy almost all of her attention. Just like the street perfomer stealing someone's watch, your hand could be on her ass and she won't even logically register it. The same goes for casual touching during your verbals, if you can get her invested in the convo, her body is free to touch. If your "with the girl" constantly, she doesn't have the mental power to really worry about any sort of touching, or she won't think about it as much which is great. She almost becomes a puppet you can simply grab by the hand and lead around.
Selective attention is important because it allows you to break the touching barrier, without her even noticing at first. This is where the whole concept of "being with the girl" as MW calls it comes into play. If your holding strong eye contact, this will occupy almost all of her attention. Just like the street perfomer stealing someone's watch, your hand could be on her ass and she won't even logically register it. The same goes for casual touching during your verbals, if you can get her invested in the convo, her body is free to touch. If your "with the girl" constantly, she doesn't have the mental power to really worry about any sort of touching, or she won't think about it as much which is great. She almost becomes a puppet you can simply grab by the hand and lead around.