How do I get better at this...
Mon, 12/03/2012 - 01:08
I'm a really funny guy and can make chicks laugh at almost every single encounter. At school I'm known to be the funny guy and the guy who can tell the funniest stories around . I'm also not bad at talking to girls. I have the basic features of an alpha male..I hold eye contact, smile, be touchy(at times),show confidence, and usually can hold a consistent convo. But I NEVER have gotten past just that..talking maybe texting.I dont usually ask chicks to go out to dates or anything much, which also screws me over.
One of my biggest problems from the start is I dont make any sexual refrences. I'm not really thaat flirty. Which is why I probably get friendzoned and chicks dont think I'm interested in them. Another is, I need to improve my confidence. In front of people I'm confident as fuk, but inside I hate my looks and game.
The reason I joined these forums is to change my ovrall lifestyle and become much better at this.
One of my biggest problems from the start is I dont make any sexual refrences. I'm not really thaat flirty. Which is why I probably get friendzoned and chicks dont think I'm interested in them. Another is, I need to improve my confidence. In front of people I'm confident as fuk, but inside I hate my looks and game.
The reason I joined these forums is to change my ovrall lifestyle and become much better at this.
Mon, 12/03/2012 - 01:29
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Re: How do I get better at this...
@cali4nialove:
manwhore training son. I remember when I was your age I bought this horrendous book called The System by Doc Love. What a piece of shit. It costs me 104 bucks so you're kind of ahead the curve.
But to be real you're kinda young relax. Just remember your looks dont matter - girls don't really care about that they just care about how you make them feel. You should ask a couple of girls out that you like. Be like "you're really really cute - you wanna grab lunch with me sometime" (to girls you've already sort of flirted with - it looks like you know what to do right before sealing the deal) or whatever social activity you would most prefer. You do this enough in an INTELLIGENT manner. You'll stop giving a fuck and be mad confident. I would just tell you to be confident. When you're 16 most guys don't even know they have a penis (I didn't till I was 21 :) so just learn how to be honest about shit.
I also used to be a class clown type. So i would say be funny with a grain of salt if you know what I mean. Be funny when you have to but don't be a dancing monkey so girls know that you have a penis and you like them.
manwhore training son. I remember when I was your age I bought this horrendous book called The System by Doc Love. What a piece of shit. It costs me 104 bucks so you're kind of ahead the curve.
But to be real you're kinda young relax. Just remember your looks dont matter - girls don't really care about that they just care about how you make them feel. You should ask a couple of girls out that you like. Be like "you're really really cute - you wanna grab lunch with me sometime" (to girls you've already sort of flirted with - it looks like you know what to do right before sealing the deal) or whatever social activity you would most prefer. You do this enough in an INTELLIGENT manner. You'll stop giving a fuck and be mad confident. I would just tell you to be confident. When you're 16 most guys don't even know they have a penis (I didn't till I was 21 :) so just learn how to be honest about shit.
I also used to be a class clown type. So i would say be funny with a grain of salt if you know what I mean. Be funny when you have to but don't be a dancing monkey so girls know that you have a penis and you like them.
Mon, 12/03/2012 - 01:33
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Re: How do I get better at this...
@Katalyst: Haha I'm also a class clown type. I thikn one of my problems is I dont try as much. I dont flirt that much. I just dont know what to say of how to say it (sexual of course). I think I've been a little too funny and I gotta be serious at times too. Are there an sources I could read up on to improve myself a bit ? (:
Mon, 12/03/2012 - 07:22
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Re: How do I get better at this...
bump
Mon, 12/03/2012 - 08:04
#4
Re: How do I get better at this...
Start telling girls to meet you up for ice cream, scary movies, rape, bowling, then take them back to your house.
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