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How do I keep girls on the "back burner" while I have a girlfriend

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I really don't know how to handle this. I don't really think I want to/could manage the whole multiple girlfriends thing, ts just out of my reality at this moment. This just sucks, cuz some hot chicks are engaging me and I want to still have them as options in the future.

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You got a girlfriend? You

You got a girlfriend? You banging her? 

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Manwhore wrote: You got a

Manwhore wrote:
You got a girlfriend? You banging her? 

yes and yes

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ughh is it very chodey to

ughh is it very chodey to tell a girl I'd love to chil but I got a girlfriend...ughh fuck fuck 

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So why is this girl your

So why is this girl your girlfriend if you got other girls wanting to "chill" on your cock? Doesn't make sense 

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So you lost your v and you

So you lost your v and you didn't tell me? You fucking dick I'm your coach. You're a butthole 

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Manwhore wrote: So why is

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So why is this girl your girlfriend if you got other girls wanting to "chill" on your cock? Doesn't make sense 

I really do like this chick, and it's a new experience having a girlfriend. It just so happens i'm gettin attenton from some other girls right now too

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Manwhore wrote: So you lost

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So you lost your v and you didn't tell me? You fucking dick I'm your coach. You're a butthole 

lol I was gonna hit ya up soon homes slice, maybe some round 2 coaching in our future

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So how'd the "standard" for

So how'd the "standard" for this relationship get defined? And who is this chick. Pic me 

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/> Pretty sweet that you've
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But to answer your question

But to answer your question directly, the multiple girlfriends thing isn't a big deal. Just keep doing what you're doing and things will arrange themselves

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Shartrain you should wife

Shartrain you should wife them both. Introduce them to reach other. I'll write up on how in a sec, it's straight from Neil Strauss. He is legit

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darkrain wrote:

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Pretty sweet that you've found a cool girl dude, what made you wanna make it serious if you don't mind me asking?

I'm feeling relationship vibes with these two girls I'm seeing, I keep nearly making things serious with one of them but then I see the other and I can't decide lol. Two things I've noticed though:

1. Both girls seemed infinitely more into me since I started sexing both of them regularly. I feel super confident

2. This past week I've been approached by A LOT of girls, kinda spooky how they can almost sense I don't need them

I think relationships are good for your soul though. Enjoy it 

She's just cool, I have a good deal of healthy leadership over her, and quite honestly its somethin new for me.

The coolest part of the experience so far is that i've gained a bit more on the "nurturing" side of my game, I've never had an official girlfriend before kinda just tried to talk to a lot of different girls, and the chicks seem to be a bit jealous that I actually have a girl now. 

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LOL this is kinda funny.

LOL this is kinda funny. SUPER BABE texted me and I had no idea what to do with the girlfriend thing. I think it actually went ok. FYI this is the "hottest chick in my school" that bailed on me in the other post

Her: Do a zumba class with me soon at the gym..          <<< stolen directly from me a few months ago

Me: I'll consider it. I don't wanna pull a msucle in my butt

Her: You won't I promise!

Me: Well your icing it for me if anything goes wrong

Her: Oh you got it (name)!

Me: :)        <<<< not knowing what to do

Her :) :)

Me: (monkey emoji)

Her: (2 monkey emojis)

Me: Two monkeys! no way how original

Her: Wow ruuudee :/

Me: I just expected a unique emoji

Her: (squid emoji) he's my favorite

Me: Is that a squid

Me: I make squids ink    <<<< LOL I loved this for some reason

Her: Oh yeah (name) do ya?

Me: Normally yes

Her: wanna come and do my homework?   <<<< FUCK FUK FUK FUK FUCK FUK

Me: Depends on the homework and how im compensated

Her: Physics :)

Me: ahhhh I don't kno bout that               <<<< self sabotage chode behavior

Her: It's funnn

Me: Can;t handle your own work ya tard :)

Her: No its too hard for me :(

Me: Oh no too hard! what will you do now!

Her: just give up cuz you wont come and do it for me

Me: you baby

Her: Im kidding I did it!

Me: Thank god loser I thought you were serious

Her: No I was just kidding hehe

Me: Did you know women invented the chocolate chip cookie

Me: mind fuckin blown

Her: did you know I make the best chocolate chip cookies every? like no lie   <<<< I want your cock

Me: lol every girl says that

Me: My girlfriend made me cookies yesterday   <<<< TRUUUUU

Her: were they good?

Me: Yeah they were good. i really prefer those peanut butter ones more tho I forget their name

Her: Idddkkk them either  hahahahaha

Me: uggghh snicker doodle? is that peanut butter

Her: hahahah oh yeah those are good! you should have her make you those next!   <<<<STFU

Me: yes indeed

Me: sexist or not women are good at baking. never met a dude that can bake   <<<< gay gay gay gay fag

Her: hahaha yes true! but i legit make the best choclate chip cookies not  just sayin it   << still want your cock

Me: lol then make soon soon!

Her: I will!

Me: lemme know when. Ill dream about your cookies tonight

Me: Dont dissapoint :)

Her: I never do :)     <<<< I give good head

Me: later  (name) :)

Her: night!

Her: wait do you actually have a girlfriend or did you just say that? haha

Me: lol why would I just say that

Her: idkkk why did you wanna go get ice cream then? hahah

Me: cuz I wanted ice cream

Her: oh alight haha

Me: Ive been dating her for like a week    <<<<< SO FUCKING GAY, NO NEED TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF CHODE

Her: okay!

Me: jeeezz callin my girl imaginary

Her: noo not at all! I didnt know haha

Me: shes gonna fght you!

Her: haha stop :) I really didnt know! who is she

me: (name)

Her is she in our escuela?

Me: si

Me: sophmore

Her: well good for you!   <<< no more lady boners

Me: yeah thanks homie

Me: now when will i get my cookies

Her: never hahahaha I feel bad! she can make you cookies!

Me: lol its cookies dont be a faggot

Her: No!

Me: ok.fag

Me: lemme know when your not feelin gay

Her: byeeee (name)

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Dafuq.

Dafuq.

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Man I really hope you fuck

Man I really hope you fuck this girl some day. I would have killed to smash the hottie of my year when I was in highschool.

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LOL That was definitely one

LOL

That was definitely one of the funniest text convos I've read on here. For all the wrong reasons Meow. 

Wtf were here you trying to accomplish dewd? Everything was good up until you got all weird on her out of nowhere. She definitely would have hooked up with you or you could have had her on the back burner just in case. Now she's drier than the Sahara desert my nigglet.

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G-Money wrote: LOL That was

G-Money wrote:
LOL

That was definitely one of the funniest text convos I've read on here. For all the wrong reasons Meow. 

Wtf were here you trying to accomplish dewd? Everything was good up until you got all weird on her out of nowhere. She definitely would have hooked up with you or you could have had her on the back burner just in case. Now she's drier than the Sahara desert my nigglet.

lol dude I didn't know know what I was tryin to accomplish thats the problem.  

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haha i agree with G-Money but

haha i agree with G-Money but why are you going gf so early in your development? You lose your v card and immediately chian yourself?

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Yea, you were doing bawws

Yea, you were doing bawws Meow.

You cocked it up as soon as you explained yourself about having the GF.

Im no expert, but thats what cocked it up from my POV.

Same thing has happened to me in the past homie. I've been off the forums for a bit due to some personal shit, but from memory your texting was pretty good before i left.

Maybe the extra 'pressure' due to kinda pedestal-ing her being the hottest chick made you cock it up?

Maybe MW can help you out on the whole 'how to deal with chicks when you have a GF and they ask the GF question'..?

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Her: wait do you actually

Her: wait do you actually have a girlfriend or did you just say that? haha

I would not have even responded to that.

Before you had her floating around and were all mysterious etc.... By explaining (maybe in just the WAY you did??) you basically tied a lead brick to her legs and sent her plummeting towards earth only for her to discover you are just a dude who likes flirting with other chicks while they have a GF. Never really a good look.
Maybe the problem was with explaining yourself to start.. Like a dude thats solid does not NEED to explain himself to chicks.

Uhh... I believe it CAN be done though, just don't ask me how, yet lol.

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P.S. Your side notes were

P.S. Your side notes were fucking hilarious Meow yes

Her: did you know I make the best chocolate chip cookies every? like no lie   <<<< I want your cock

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Everything ok?

Everything ok?

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Hainz wrote: Her: wait do you

Hainz wrote:
Her: wait do you actually have a girlfriend or did you just say that? haha

I would not have even responded to that.

Before you had her floating around and were all mysterious etc.... By explaining (maybe in just the WAY you did??) you basically tied a lead brick to her legs and sent her plummeting towards earth only for her to discover you are just a dude who likes flirting with other chicks while they have a GF. Never really a good look.

Maybe the problem was with explaining yourself to start.. Like a dude thats solid does not NEED to explain himself to chicks.

Uhh... I believe it CAN be done though, just don't ask me how, yet lol.

Your totally right about the mysterious part, she didn't even ask about the girlfriend when I first mentioned her, but I got shit tested big time at the end.

This chick actually isn't weirded out tho, I talked to her a few days ago at the gym, told her to keep on doing her vagina exercises and everything was gucci