How Do I Keep This Going?
Sun, 05/05/2013 - 19:22
Hey all.
I met this 18 year old girl on friday. Basically, a friend and I approach these two girls. Within minutes, we were making out. I was fingering her, she was giving me a handjob. I kept trying to separate her from her friend, but she was giving me tons of last minute resistance. We hung out for probably around 30 minutes. I finally started making headway (she was telling me to convince her), but then my friend said something stupid. He talks a lot and, sometimes, he just has these string of consciousness moments. Basically, he told the girl that she had no morals for doing what she was doing. Obviously, this is one of the worst things you can say to a girl and she flipped out on him. I tried to calm things down, but she wasn't having it and told us both to f off and left.
I texted her the next day, basically apoligizing for what my friend said (not something I would normally do....but even I was a bit offended by his remarks lol). I wasn't expecting her to answer, but she did. We texted a few times back and forth. I invited her out for the night, but she said she was staying in to study (which is consistent with what she told me the night before before that whole situation happened). Still, her text responses were lukewarm and spaced out.
I'm thinking about texting her tomorrow with something playful about her test. My text game is pretty bad though and I believe that I've lost many girls with it. So I'm definitely open to other opinions. Should I text her on monday with something like I said? Make it more sexual? Wait til the weekend to text her and invite her out again? (Unfortunately, hanging out during the week isn't an option. I live far away from the party scene and have a very demanding job that keeps me very busy during the week.)
I met this 18 year old girl on friday. Basically, a friend and I approach these two girls. Within minutes, we were making out. I was fingering her, she was giving me a handjob. I kept trying to separate her from her friend, but she was giving me tons of last minute resistance. We hung out for probably around 30 minutes. I finally started making headway (she was telling me to convince her), but then my friend said something stupid. He talks a lot and, sometimes, he just has these string of consciousness moments. Basically, he told the girl that she had no morals for doing what she was doing. Obviously, this is one of the worst things you can say to a girl and she flipped out on him. I tried to calm things down, but she wasn't having it and told us both to f off and left.
I texted her the next day, basically apoligizing for what my friend said (not something I would normally do....but even I was a bit offended by his remarks lol). I wasn't expecting her to answer, but she did. We texted a few times back and forth. I invited her out for the night, but she said she was staying in to study (which is consistent with what she told me the night before before that whole situation happened). Still, her text responses were lukewarm and spaced out.
I'm thinking about texting her tomorrow with something playful about her test. My text game is pretty bad though and I believe that I've lost many girls with it. So I'm definitely open to other opinions. Should I text her on monday with something like I said? Make it more sexual? Wait til the weekend to text her and invite her out again? (Unfortunately, hanging out during the week isn't an option. I live far away from the party scene and have a very demanding job that keeps me very busy during the week.)
Sun, 05/05/2013 - 20:59
#1
Post up the convo we'll take
Post up the convo we'll take a look. Why would your buddy do that? What an idiot
Sun, 05/05/2013 - 21:00
#2
The Anti-Wingman
I lol'd
The Anti-Wingman
I lol'd
I lol'd
Sun, 05/05/2013 - 21:07
#3
Manwhore wrote:Post up the
Manwhore wrote:
Post up the convo we'll take a look. Why would your buddy do that? What an idiot
Thanks for the reply! Yeah, I was pretty pissed lol. He's a natural and doesn't really think before he talks.
Anyway,
Me (1 PM): Hey sorry for what my friend said last night....I think ur pretty cool tho...just fyi
Her (5 PM): its chill haha dont worry about it
Me (8:30 PM): Hahaha word. Were gonna start drinking soon....come thru
Her: (10 PM): Aww im not going out but my roommate is!
By that time, I was already drinking and chatting up other girls so I didn't respond.
Sun, 05/05/2013 - 21:09
#4
quick fyi - your buddy is not
quick fyi - your buddy is not a natural
Sun, 05/05/2013 - 21:38
#5
I think you misunderstood
I think you misunderstood Buddha. What maverick was trying to say is that his buddy is a natural dumbass.
I think you should ask this girl when she's done studying or whatever and invite her out to somewhere. I don't know where her head's at here. You're not exactly helping with your generic texting either
I think you should ask this girl when she's done studying or whatever and invite her out to somewhere. I don't know where her head's at here. You're not exactly helping with your generic texting either
Mon, 05/06/2013 - 04:48
#6
Her social standing has been
Her social standing has been compromised thanks to your retarded friend. I would be sure and tell him not to ever come between you and a woman in anyway ever again.
With the girl I would make her comfortable again without rushing into a meet up, unless she drops hints that she is interested in you again. Your still on the rape boat for sure tho.
With the girl I would make her comfortable again without rushing into a meet up, unless she drops hints that she is interested in you again. Your still on the rape boat for sure tho.
Mon, 05/06/2013 - 07:31
#7
batehs wrote:Her social
batehs wrote:
Her social standing has been compromised thanks to your retarded friend. I would be sure and tell him not to ever come between you and a woman in anyway ever again.
With the girl I would make her comfortable again without rushing into a meet up, unless she drops hints that she is interested in you again. Your still on the rape boat for sure tho.
Yeah true. It's probably fucked. I definitely learned that I have to be in control of the interaction at all times. I'm a bit too laid back at times and I have to fix that for sure.
Ah well, plenty more girls out there.
Mon, 05/06/2013 - 22:24
#8
Post up the text convo. You
Post up the text convo. You can salvage this for sure.
Tue, 05/07/2013 - 03:34
#9
hahaha don't fret too much
hahaha don't fret too much bro..it was your friend's actions that were fucked. not yours. Sounds like your friend is pretty confident and lacks a filter, if you teach him some outter game he could be a descent wing.
Wed, 05/08/2013 - 02:19
#10
batehs wrote:Post up the text
batehs wrote:
Post up the text convo. You can salvage this for sure.
Well, there's really not much to post. She's taking a while to respond and when she does, it's iffy.
Based on Manwhore's comment about me being too generic, I looked up some text game and sent her this:
Me: Hey ms smarty pants....what kinda trouble r u causing today?
Her (4 hrs later): Haha I heard your friend tried to talk to my roommate on saturday night....:P (which didn't happen because he was with us lol)
I didn't respond.
Since we're in a college environment, I figure I'll just try to invite her out on the weekend. If she comes, awesome. If not, fuck it. Plenty more girls out there.
Let me know what you guys think about this strategy.