How do i reframe how i see a see girl i'm after
So, i'm after a girl. i already know her, this is social game. how do i reframe the way i think of to put me back in a confident state? if i think of her as "just another lay" it helps. how do i stop emotional investment and the fear of ruining it, from stopping me from taking action?
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Sun Tzu — 'Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win'
Marcus Aurelius - "The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.”
Angelina Jolie -- "She asked if I wanted to play a Bond girl. I said, ‘No, I’m not comfortable with that… but I would like to play Bond’.”
Why is that when a man sleeps with a women, he's called a player. But, when a woman does it, she's called a lesbian?!
You're "waiting to feel good" before executing on something. It's a problem 98% of the western world has. You will never feel good about something, you must simply form some logistical plans that even make it possible in the first place, e.g. "go out" or plan parties/festivities/get togethers, and then just smoothly go after it when it's right in front of you. The other thing you have to realize is you aren't even close, you have to start executing just to see what the actual obstacles are lol. A lot of guys when they're out.. they're waiting for the perfect "magical" opportunity to pull a girl. Dude that's SO WRONG. It doesn't work that way. You try to pull her and it.. doesn't work. So you try it again another way, maybe that works, or maybe it doesn't, so you try again until it does work. You're not putting anything at stake by just going for it because when it's "meant to be" it's because you fucking tried it five fucking times already. Get it?
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God, I make this mistake so often... derp.