how do you correctly avoid cuddling
Fri, 10/12/2012 - 18:14
This question is for when the girl wants to cuddle. Obviously when they dont want to its easy - you just dont. Ever since foreign i find myself annoyed with cuddling and all that cutesy shit. Kinda over that noise for a while. Now ive managed to piss off every girl who ive spent the night with when they try to cuddle and im like " i dont want to cuddle ". Some have straight up left, some have just rolled over pissed. To be fair the girl who left i was a complete asshole from beginning to end, so i dont blame her for leaving. Last night i managed to piss off another girl. Like how do you guys handle not cuddling when leaving isnt an option? Like i wanna keep these bridges unburned but i also dont want to cuddle lol
Fri, 10/12/2012 - 19:51
#1
Re: how do you correctly avoid cuddling
@Aequitas:
Hit X, for truckstick
Hit X, for truckstick
Fri, 10/12/2012 - 22:16
#2
Re: how do you correctly avoid cuddling
Mang you're making opposite progress in your game. Durr
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Sat, 10/13/2012 - 00:12
#3
Re: how do you correctly avoid cuddling
I do hit x, they get angry after. :( ... You think so? Whats so wrong with not wanting to cuddle? I mean I get it as far as the long run how unhealthy that is, but I'm saying for the time being - whats so wrong with it?
Sat, 10/13/2012 - 02:34
#4
Re: how do you correctly avoid cuddling
@Aequitas: regardless if it is, ill eventually bounce back. The pendulum just seems to shifted too far into asshole / butthurt / bitterland. Would love to hear your thoughts tho. Im sure this shit happens to guys more often than is admitted.
Mon, 11/12/2012 - 20:43
#5
Re: how do you correctly avoid cuddling
@Aequitas:
Yep was bittterness / paranoia of doing anything involving affection. Was operating from a negative, cold mindset that was just bleh, not ideally who i am nor wamt to be. Ironically still was pulling. I honestly felt like these girls wanted to fix me. Constantly trying to break down my walls. Broken man game lol. Then once i wouldnt budge theyd just think i was a huge dbag. Now a lot more positive and chill, but much colder compared to me a couple mpnths ago.
Yep was bittterness / paranoia of doing anything involving affection. Was operating from a negative, cold mindset that was just bleh, not ideally who i am nor wamt to be. Ironically still was pulling. I honestly felt like these girls wanted to fix me. Constantly trying to break down my walls. Broken man game lol. Then once i wouldnt budge theyd just think i was a huge dbag. Now a lot more positive and chill, but much colder compared to me a couple mpnths ago.