How do you "force the attraction" so she sees you as a cool guy
Sat, 09/15/2012 - 23:29
last night i had this set, where she was standing around me, still talking. She is obviously comfortable enough with me to chat with me for like 15 mins. but when i goto escalate i get a stiff response to my physical moves like - getting in closer. or trying to do a frontal hug etc . when i lead her to the tables, she doesn't follow me . Yet, she continues to chat with me and stays around me and my wing. ( I notice she gives the same amount of physicality and verbal-ness to my wing as she does me - I realize not any attraction there )
At this point, she wants to leave. I tell her "one drink before you leave, lets goto this other bar". She says " no, no", i say "2 mins" and she stops her objections. I made the mistake of not leading her at this point. i dropped my frame in a sense. I tried to be persistent but didn't "make the move" of taking her out/leading. So she ends up leaving on on her own. She is more of a "boss" in charge kinda girl.
Shes in front of you chatting, but shes not not giving you the romantic compliance you need in order to close.
so my question is, how do you"force the attraction" on her so she sees that your actually a cool guy. that your not a chode -- Is it through just being more persistent, more enforcing your frame, or just more leading ?
At this point, she wants to leave. I tell her "one drink before you leave, lets goto this other bar". She says " no, no", i say "2 mins" and she stops her objections. I made the mistake of not leading her at this point. i dropped my frame in a sense. I tried to be persistent but didn't "make the move" of taking her out/leading. So she ends up leaving on on her own. She is more of a "boss" in charge kinda girl.
Shes in front of you chatting, but shes not not giving you the romantic compliance you need in order to close.
so my question is, how do you"force the attraction" on her so she sees that your actually a cool guy. that your not a chode -- Is it through just being more persistent, more enforcing your frame, or just more leading ?
Mon, 09/17/2012 - 05:18
#1
Chatting is chatting, there's
Chatting is chatting, there's no harm there. Get physical early on like within the first 10 seconds. If she's obviously resisting every single time in a non-flirty way, move on, spend your time elsewhere. Time is valuable son. Force attraction? Eh, I'm sure it can be done but is it worth the time? Up to you
Sun, 09/23/2012 - 12:02
#2
Re: How do
Holmes you need to practice your verbal drills again. This is the 2nd or 3rd time I've noticed their absence in your interactions. You have SO MUCH you could do here. It forces attraction. We'll go over this your next sesh.
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