How do you guys think i handled this text convo?
I recently met another Japanese girl I was vibing with at work and number closed her.
I wasted little to no time and went for the meet-up. This girl is funny: I offered to give her a ride, but she said she wasn't comfortable getting in somebody's car she didn't know... That she didn't want to be murdered or sent to Mexico, etc.It was understandable as we talked for less than 5mins before i got her contact info. Anyways she showed up, we walked over to two local bars where i kicked her cocky ass at pool. I escalated quite aggressively actually, going from kissing, butt spanking to getting her to feel my hard dick. I could tell she defintely enjoyed it ;) On the way back to my studio (I share with a roommate but he's in a separate room) she was very touchy and holding on to my arm. I found out she's a dancer so i fired my bluetooth speaker, Trey Songz and put her dancing skills to work. I eventually threw her on the bed where i got on top of her and let her feel me up down there. Fast forward LMR hit and I ended up dropping her off home :P
Two days went by and this she hit me with this objection:
ME (3:56PM): Soooo what trouble has my second favorite body guard been getting herself into today? ;)
HER (5:06PM) Haha it's been busy at advanced ballet class and work! What about you?
HER (5:10PM) Hey, I just wanted to know but i'm not looking for hookups. :P Sorry if that's what you want then i'm not her. Just broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and i had been trying to socialize more, but i figured that i prefer friendly hangout. Some people think that's boring, but that's the way i am. Didn't want to get awkward or anything but i hope you understand! because i felt you were a last person last time and i want to be honest.
ME (6:37PM) Nice! it's been fairly busy on my end too since finals are coming up in a few weeks!
Yup I hear you, i'm not looking for anything in particular right now. Just going along with the flow and when we hung out last i got caught up in our fun moment haha ;) I do want to see you again though
She has yet to respond but I'm going to hit her up tomorrow to see what her plans are later during the week. I plan on hitting up the night scene with friends and raging, it would be cool to have her around
PFFF. Fucking awful
Lmao yeah i see where i went wrong, say no more. I don't even think this is salvageable right now
What could he have done differently? I've dealt with a similar issue before.
Awful handling of the initial interaction. So close yet so far away. Getting hung up on intermediate level lmr DURR. The texts were just icing on the cake of unfulfilled destiny