How do you guys treat your friends that are girls
I've been making an effort to make some more female friends, cuz chicks lead to more chicks. These are girls that I logistically just can't and don't wanna hook up with, but are fun to be around. Even though i'm friends with these chicks I still wanna maintain a sexual vibe, I casually slap some ass or grab some boobs but i'm not sure if this is the right route. I do want these girls to be options on in the future. How do you boys handle this?
Its weird. I was just with my buddy and two girls that are just friends. I was sorta gaming one of the chicks and started touching her a lil bit and we are having fun, cuz I just felt like touching her lol. Stupid fucking me posted a picture of us all chillen, and one of my actual chicks I hookup with saw it and started to freak and texted me. I handled it, and we all continued to chill. When they left the girl I touching a lil bit leaned in as if we were gonna kiss, and I denied her. She is close friends with the chick that was freakin out too. Fuck, I know I need to just accept this shit and make it my reality, but I just can't see it it working out.
Yeah you might want to make a gay friend and hang out with some gay dudes. It might help you with this. I'm (mostly) not mocking you LOL.
Well Meow you're the puss that didn't keep kissing up on that girl. Why'd you stop.
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WHAT THE FUCK. Yeah that was stupid. What a rationalization, I really don't want to be "Friends" with any chick that I can't hook up with. I pulled away because I hook up with her close friend, but i'm fuckin stupid and shoulda kissed her cuz I was cool enough to get away with it. Even if it woulda caused trouble I shoulda done it for the experience.
You can delete this, its worthless.
I really don't want to be "Friends" with any chick that I can't hook up with.
easy bud lol, girls are awesome. I have a lot of girls as really good friends that I've thus far failed to hook up with. I don't spend any time pining after them, nor do try to game them, get blue balls over them or supply them with validation. Lots of them have boyfriends, some don't. Not every girl has to want to fuck me, and its certainly no reason to not be friends. I live in a small town and I've made a pass at all of them lol (jk, kind of). Girls will ask around about me, often times to other girls that are friends of mine and almost all of them will have good things to say about me despite the fact that I'm a bit of a playboy. "He was nice to me until I didn't want to fuck him" or a guy with no female friends is not the reputation you want.
I get away with a lot of shit that I probably wouldn't if it weren't for having a lot of female friends.. Lol, you know what's one of them? Escalating on multiple girls, my female friends have seen it so often it doesn't phase them anymore, just start manhandling a couple of girls at a party and not one girl in the room reacts negatively or thinks its weird.. Awesome lol
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I really don't want to be "Friends" with any chick that I can't hook up with.easy bud lol, girls are awesome. I have a lot of girls as really good friends that I've thus far failed to hook up with. I don't spend any time pining after them, nor do try to game them, get blue balls over them or supply them with validation. Lots of them have boyfriends, some don't. Not every girl has to want to fuck me, and its certainly no reason to not be friends. I live in a small town and I've made a pass at all of them lol (jk, kind of). Girls will ask around about me, often times to other girls that are friends of mine and almost all of them will have good things to say about me despite the fact that I'm a bit of a playboy. "He was nice to me until I didn't want to fuck him" or a guy with no female friends is not the reputation you want.
I get away with a lot of shit that I probably wouldn't if it weren't for having a lot of female friends.. Lol, you know what's one of them? Escalating on multiple girls, my female friends have seen it so often it doesn't phase them anymore, just start manhandling a couple of girls at a party and not one girl in the room reacts negatively or thinks its weird.. Awesome lol
Okay. Thanks for getting me back on track here. In the case of the chick I posted about last night, I should of escalated on her, because she obviously did want it. Your definitely right about being strictly friends with some girls. And I defintely lack this aspect of my game, and everytime I try to find some female friends my ego gets in the way lol and it turns into me gaming.
Can you be more specific how you treat these chicks that are just friends. I understand no gaming, no validation, no blue balls...but under what circumstances? Do you find yourself chillen with these girls one on one? or do you just casually see them around once and a while?
Go to lunch, take a hike with the dogs, hang out at parties, go for drinks one on one or with a group, normal friend stuff. I just went into business with a girl who is very hot, I never pulled, has a boyfriend now and is just a funny, well educated badass chick
Dude I was so bad about this too until just recently. You need to have female friends just to be around that feminine energy, it's really good for you man.
My my ego would always try to game every girl too and I would often just ignore or berate girls I didn't find sexually attractive. This is not behavior that a valuable man possesses. You need to provide value for everyone at all times if possible because of reputation purposes as Jack mentioned. I would recommend inviting girls to your social events and just hanging out. You don't have to treat her like "one of the bros" or anything like that. Just enjoy her company and bust on her a bit here and there.
Yes these are all true but in this case he bowed to the expectations of a girl throwing a fit over text. No way. She shouldn't even feel entitled to do this. Are you dating her? What's the deal with this other girl.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Yes these are all true but in this case he bowed to the expectations of a girl throwing a fit over text. No way. She shouldn't even feel entitled to do this. Are you dating her? What's the deal with this other girl.
No i'm not. and she was throwing a fit around some of my friends, and they texted me letting me know. When I texted her, she was too timid to acknowledge anything was wrong. Then she felt is necessary to say "I want you to know I really really like you" as some sort of guilt trip. I ignored it pretty much and just set something up with her for today,
Dude I was so bad about this too until just recently. You need to have female friends just to be around that feminine energy, it's really good for you man.My my ego would always try to game every girl too and I would often just ignore or berate girls I didn't find sexually attractive. This is not behavior that a valuable man possesses. You need to provide value for everyone at all times if possible because of reputation purposes as Jack mentioned. I would recommend inviting girls to your social events and just hanging out. You don't have to treat her like "one of the bros" or anything like that. Just enjoy her company and bust on her a bit here and there.
Thank you for this. I have berated girls I don't find attractive too, and looking back it, thats really fucked up.
Lol I was hella guilty of this back in the day. I think a lot of us go through this. Just be boss and make friends. A lot of times a girl will think you're a douchebag ( basically, down. ) and then your friends will vouch for you and plant the seed that you're actually a chill guy. Ultimately, it just boils down to being a person who gives value without expecting things in return. Obviously not a scrub who gets punked for their resources, but someone who just genuinely enjoys giving value while maintaining the integrity of their boundaries. This will help contribute to you being able to dance with the line of friend/hookup by being this way. The line is much more blurry than people realize in my opinion.