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Ya so I was just on a day 2 I met through social circle, and the whole time she said stuff like "you're only gonna use me" every time I suggested going to her place to watch a movie. I usually just respond to shit like this by saying whatever amuses me, but it never got her to drop the barrier of resistance towards us going to hers. This is something I've noticed a lot recently, just wondering if there's a way you guys brush this off if it keeps coming up without sounding gay and shit
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Oh shit. That lay report is sick.
Also, just so you don't feel isolated, this is a VERY VERY common problem amongst guys who are just starting to ACTUALLY come across high-value. The issue is that you're not used to having to qualify. So, to use old community jargon, you're basically demonstrating a shitton of value, and the girls like okay cool this guys awesome... but..... you never give her any indication that you're really into her, so she just assumes you want some ass (Which is true... to be fair lol)
Once you reach a point where you begin to, on some level, actually recognize your own value, as opposed to just coming across high-value.... I've found that you begin to sorta let the girl game you a bit more. So, yes, you can qualify the girl, in sorta the standard way, which I actually do a lot (maybe too much) but this "letting the girl game you" is this weird thing that goes beyond qualification.... honestly, it goes beyond any "outter game" tactic, really, it's like this aura of just chiln, but all of a sudden the girl is grabbin your arm and working for your attention.
Anyway- those are two things that came to mind for your question (In addition, obviously to Manwhore's lay report which should be your go-to).
To recap:
1. Qualification - give the girl a quick heads up as to why you're taking the time to chill with her, as opposed to any of the other hotties in the bar (Hint: It's not becuase she's the only one willing to talk to you lol)
2. Let the girl game you - this one is a little more esoteric - but, without putting words in manwhore's mouth, I think he might say it involves a certain level of "Aloofness".... I'd say this 2nd part is one of the more advanced aspects of game....
Both of these concepts though are pretty advanced, but it looks like your absolutely ready to start focusing a little on qualification and, at the very least, keeping this second concept in the back of your mind.
Wow yeah that LR was great, picked up a ton reading it.
That 'letting the girl game you' concept as I take it is basically how I've played it on that day 2, just letting her talk and teasing her about random non related shit. I've kinda come to realise as I've talked more with this girl that it isn't really a serious objection, she's just creating her own little narrative to make the 'dangerous player' encounter a lil sexier. I'll just leave her to it and sprinkle in some qualification like you said.
That was a good reply though, can tell you have some experience with this
Wow yeah that LR was great, picked up a ton reading it.
That 'letting the girl game you' concept as I take it is basically how I've played it on that day 2, just letting her talk and teasing her about random non related shit. I've kinda come to realise as I've talked more with this girl that it isn't really a serious objection, she's just creating her own little narrative to make the 'dangerous player' encounter a lil sexier. I'll just leave her to it and sprinkle in some qualification like you said.
That was a good reply though, can tell you have some experience with this
Triple post lol
Wow yeah that LR was great, picked up a ton reading it. That 'letting the girl game you' concept as I take it is basically how I've played it on that day 2, just letting her talk and teasing her about random non related shit. I've kinda come to realise as I've talked more with this girl that it isn't really a serious objection, she's just creating her own little narrative to make the 'dangerous player' encounter a lil sexier. I'll just leave her to it and sprinkle in some qualification like you said. That was a good reply though, can tell you have some experience with this
I thought what you said about the "it's not really a serious objection" is fucking awesome. Seriously awesome.
Honestly - That's the answer right there.
I like this. don't convince her you're not a player but convince her that she's been chosen among many. nice.
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Wow yeah that LR was great, picked up a ton reading it. That 'letting the girl game you' concept as I take it is basically how I've played it on that day 2, just letting her talk and teasing her about random non related shit. I've kinda come to realise as I've talked more with this girl that it isn't really a serious objection, she's just creating her own little narrative to make the 'dangerous player' encounter a lil sexier. I'll just leave her to it and sprinkle in some qualification like you said. That was a good reply though, can tell you have some experience with thisI thought what you said about the "it's not really a serious objection" is fucking awesome. Seriously awesome.
Honestly - That's the answer right there.