How the fuck do I do this multiple girls thing...if they all know each other

Just hang out, escalate, don't get into discussions about their "expectations". They will ALWAYS try to hang those around your neck. Ignore 

Thats what I was thinking. They all mention it, I normally just give em an "idk", and switch subjects

You got to make it about some kind of joking "screening" you do. Be like, "I always pick the girl that makes the best sandwiches". That sort of thing 

I've been making headway on some very similar issues. I had a distinct moment where things began to click for me and I started closing several girls in a social circle. For a long time, I carried a very subtle notion in my head that could maybe be described as: "this is a bit weird, how am I going to get them to go for this?" I got poor results. When I was able to re-wire my thinking and fall into congruence with: "this is completely normal, natural, not weird whatsoever" I started closing. These girls feel that I'm calm, at ease and present when I'm with them.  I'm not carrying around much of a 'story', not trying to pull something off, lie, cheat, sneak, just basically calm, present, aroused. That state seems to transfer onto them. Not sure if this applies to you or not, it was a biggie for me.

Another way to sum up this and several of my former sticking points would be to say: the problem was that I thought there was a problem

hmm I defintely don't find it to be "normal" yet hahaha... I feel as if I need to be sly and sneaky, which is obviously not the route I should take.

I had something set up for tonight, but due to some logisticals (she didn't flake), we couldn't hangout. I ended up chilling with one of the other girls, her friend and a friend of mine. One of my pussy-chode-faggot friends thought he could earn some validation by telling my girl that I had another date planned for tonight. Let me include that this same dude went shopping with her and her friend today hahaha. So the one girl starts calling me out, I didn't argue and I did not deny a thing. Things went a bit rough but by the end of the night things were back on track. Made her go for a little ride with me, while I talked about how awesome road dome would be. She got pretty invested and started talking about sucking dick, but she tried to use it against me saying how she only does stuff with boyfriends. LAME,  I think I need to just whip it out ASAP. This is the same chick that gave me LMR last week.

last week I would think this sort of shit would blatantly fuck me over, but I'm starting to get it. 

Dude, IMO the 'sneaking' puts you at the mercy of your "chode, faggot friend". what if you come out and be honest about the fact that yeah, you're seeing and fucking these other girls,its fine(owning it)? You eclipse the friend, first of all, he has nothing left to rat you out about. All he can do is observe while you have your way. The girls will either fall in line or not, you may as well know now. I can tell you, for sure, that there are girls that will. I'd Keep that in mind.

Oh yeah, another benefit of the honest approach; maybe threesomes.

Thank you. Very on point my friend. Quite honestly I don't need my friends to cooperate and help me pull this off, they can rat on me all they want because realistically my value triumphs theirs at the end of the night. Not to be an ass, but this kid in particular isn't exactly "standard".

Really weird night.

Chilled with girl #2 with a buddy and his girl. Did a lot of one on one though, my weakness. Honestly I felt like shit from work, was so outta whack. My game was so shitty, the chick actually gamed me hahaha. Ended up grabbing some ass and fingering her, not bad for a first date. Wasn't really into it though, not at all actually, and she was smoking hot. Something was just off.  So yeah time for some rest, hopefully I feel myself again when I see her again.

How does ending up "grabbing some ass and fingering her" actually go down. That shit sounds pretty hilarious 

Did you sing the oompa loompa song while you did it? 

Meditate bruh bruh

Yeah brotha, I couldn't even control my fucking breathing all night I felt like some sort of bitch gettin nervous and shit

Of course I did. She's defintely ready for something sweet in her mouth next week

Of course I did. She's defintely ready for something sweet in her mouth next week

Of course I did. She's defintely ready for something sweet in her mouth next week

kiss closed girl # 3. Really into this one. There was some drama between girl #2 and girl #3, because their close friends. When I was out tonight with girl #3 she told me to read some texts from girl #2. I I scimmed through them and noticed girl #3 friendzoned me and told #2 to have me. I told her that I don't give a fuck about the texts and I didn't bother reading them. Defintely was a response she had to just accept, nothing to latch onto. Cool stuff, i'm proud of myself. Escalation wasn't on point, but the pimp mindset is showing up.

update: Also told girl #2 that she can't expect me to commit at all, great response and should be chillin soon

What the fuck. Cock block city lately

Somebody texted girl #3, said they heard we hooked up from me. How needy are all these chodes? Girl #3 feels slutty BECAUSE I FUCKIN KISS CLOSED HER. She claims her friend (girl #2 who I got with last week) really likes me, and that she doesn't want her friend hating her over a rumor. Should I just not tell anyone what happens between me and my girls from now on?

last thing I said to girl #3 is to "Not worry about other people, and act on your own intentions"

Surprised that wasn't covered already in this thread. Not telling anyone is fucking HUGE. I rarely, and I mean rarely aware my homies on girls I'm banging and they're my fraternity brothers for the most part. Guys who think are some of your best friends will slink into chode mode when they see ou banging multiple girls, or even worse they'll compliment you but then look down on you for being a scumbag and develop this deep resent thats probably rooted in jealousy because of your success. I try not to tell anyone if I hook up with a girl. This accomplishes several things:

1. The girl trusts you and knows you're not judgemental. 

2. There's no way of word getting back around to her.

3. It also reinforces that your behavior is no big deal and doesn't validate your ego. 

Often times, I'll have some crazy story or occurrence that I must tell someone. In that case, I either tell my best friends and have a laugh over it or post on the forums about it. 

fuck. I wish I knew this earlier! The situation is recoverable tho

It was a friend that choded out too! fuck!

thanks brotha 

Meow that was the gayest shit ever. You do not tell your queer friends about the girls you're hooking up with. 

Cockpunch him next time you see him and stop telling people your business for the ego kick. 

Why do you call it kiss close? Is it 'cuz her lips were closed and you didn't get any tongue?

Precisely. I prefer to not be throat fucked by a tongue