How the fuck would you play this???!!!!!!!
So went out with this girl from tinder last week. Had an awesome time with her, she was super into me. She is very slow moving and not that kinda girl. I'm pretty sure she's only been with 2 guys in her life lol.
Anyways I make plans to chill with her on wednesday and she agress then eventually she hits me up with this
her: Honestly, I don't think you're a good guy for me. Just being honest
me: Hmm because you're worried to lose to me at N64 or because you don't think I'm bf material
her: Lol at the first part because that would never happen. And no, its just I don't want to like someone who I think is probably a player
I'm pretty sure this is because I posted a picture of me with this hott rusian girl on facebook today. So she must have seen it and assumed i'm a player or something. She probably got the suspicion I'm a player because of how comfortable she felt around me last week and the fact that I got her kissing on the first date which is rare for her.
maybe play off the mario kart bit? I'm sort of new but maybe something like 'Look just because I'm better than you at video games doesn't mean I have a harem of women ; P'
Yeah in this case you just keep it casual, don't go frontal assault. Something along the lines of "well we can just hang out and be friends no reason not to that's childish"
You can go with scaredy cat too. Send her a meowcat scaredy cat meme
Ah, nice yea. Knowing when to tone down the humor and get real for a bit is a sticking point for me.
There's been a couple situations like this in the past week where I've just been like fuck texting and gone straight to phone calls, it's worked out pretty good so far but I'm gonna experiment with it more in the future. For some reason the girls respect the fact that you "took the time" to call them.
^ Yes very true phone calls work wonders
Yea I'd like to learn about the phone calls, how to effectively do them, I have a fear I'll sound like a boring chode lol
I know this option isn't always available but I like to call girls after something really funny or exciting happens to me because then I'm in a good mood, have good energy and a story to tell. Even if the event has absolutely nothing to do with the girl they can get wrapped up in your energy and that can lead to them wanting to meet up with you.
I know this option isn't always available but I like to call girls after something really funny or exciting happens to me because then I'm in a good mood, have good energy and a story to tell. Even if the event has absolutely nothing to do with the girl they can get wrapped up in your energy and that can lead to them wanting to meet up with you.
Yes very good little tactic to follow when it's available.