How Manwhore does Friends with Benefits
Tue, 07/03/2012 - 20:11
Hi Manwhore! Been reading your blog for over the year now. Yours is probably the most educational "pickup" blog I've ever come across. It's what got me into RSD and the whole unreactivity and being "centered" philosophy. You're stories and podcasts have inspired me to up my physicality with women and to assert a more dominant masculine frame. I cannot thank you enough for how much you've transformed my game when it comes to women and life in general. I would be very grateful if you were to shed a light on the following issues I've been having with girls, especially inside my social circle. How do you establish Friends with Benefits/Fuckbuddy dynamics with a girl? What guidelines would you suggest implementing and should the first lay be calibrated for this particular dynamic to work? Lastly, how long did your lengthiest friends with benefits relationship last and were you able to keep your friendship with the girl? I await your wisdom. Haha
Thanks,
Pidgeoto
Thanks,
Pidgeoto
Wed, 07/04/2012 - 03:05
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Re: How Manwhore does Friends with Benefits
@pidgeoto:
Hey man glad you like the site and have gotten a lot out of it.
I've had "fuck buddy" type relationships last years, and even go through periods of time where the girl had a boyfriend and then broke up and then started hanging out with me again. The key here is to not introduce any kind of negativity or drama, and to never be judgmental.
As far as social circle lays is concerned, it's a more casual dynamic that "just happens" rather than a storming the beaches type seduction. I don't have any specifics from you, but generally if I'm isolated with a girl at my house or something and we start drinking or wrestling around it's just going to turn into consequence free sex. It's pretty simple there's not much to it. Most of the time these types of questions stem from a lack of experience or know-how when it comes to sexual escalation, not really that there's some missing "hidden" piece to make "social circle" game work.
Hey man glad you like the site and have gotten a lot out of it.
I've had "fuck buddy" type relationships last years, and even go through periods of time where the girl had a boyfriend and then broke up and then started hanging out with me again. The key here is to not introduce any kind of negativity or drama, and to never be judgmental.
As far as social circle lays is concerned, it's a more casual dynamic that "just happens" rather than a storming the beaches type seduction. I don't have any specifics from you, but generally if I'm isolated with a girl at my house or something and we start drinking or wrestling around it's just going to turn into consequence free sex. It's pretty simple there's not much to it. Most of the time these types of questions stem from a lack of experience or know-how when it comes to sexual escalation, not really that there's some missing "hidden" piece to make "social circle" game work.
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Wed, 07/04/2012 - 23:30
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Re: How Manwhore does Friends with Benefits
@Manwhore:
Its funny you mix up physicality and playfulness like that. Before i got into all this puaaah stuff my standard move was to get hands on with the girl tickling her then boom makeout haha, seems faggy now but was super tight when i was eu de natural!
Its funny you mix up physicality and playfulness like that. Before i got into all this puaaah stuff my standard move was to get hands on with the girl tickling her then boom makeout haha, seems faggy now but was super tight when i was eu de natural!