How many days a week are you going out?
Pretty basic topic, but certainly an important one. In general, how many days a week are you going out (on average). I know for some of you at this point you have built up a pretty large rotation an / or are pretty consistently pulling every night, so you may have scaled things back. So, for the sake of making this applicable, before you were spreading you seed around nightly (lol), what was your average time out each week?
Overall, just finding that the weekends is simply not enough. Learning curve is way slower, less reference experiences, etc. I have committed to going as full gangster as i possibly can and from here on out going no less than 5 nights a week (only exception would obviously be if one of those nights was used as a date instead, but that shit still counts).
Thoughts? What worked for you all during training / after training to really ensure you continued to progress and hit your full stride?
Keep drilling, read more forum posts and ones from the past. Read MW's articles on the main site. Take notes, and journaling field reports and the like, keep going out. Don't make going out strictly at night, get social with your friends, girls you meet in school, or at work or wherever. Let it become you and your life.
Tinder? Lol I love tinder.
I think it comes down to your personal preference, how important it is compared to other things. How good do you want to get. Also, what can you afford (time and money wise) without sacrificing other important aspects of your life (mostly making money and being healthy).
And this balance doesn't have to be there necessarily on a weekly basis (although that's ideal) but it's a must long term. Also, you can't neglect one part too much. I had periods where I didn't go out at all and just hustled and also where I was out pretty much every day and work life went down. Neither of them were optimal haha.
But I do think there are advantages of having a single focus for a time period. Especially, if there is a different ROI on them, so you can go at these strategically. So yeah, push more during/after the training to get the most progress. I'm aiming for 5 as well now btw.
Would love to hear Buddhagames' take on this as I know he had long time period going out every day + hitting hard careerwise.
I game as much as I can day to day online and in person as a by product of just going thru my life, but like going out just to get girls? Twice a week. I wish I could go out 7 nights a week.
I’ve always wanted to get really good. I’m finally in a place where I can afford to focus on game a lot. I’ve been hitting it hard in Vegas 2-4 nights a week since August 2017 every weekend, with the exception of about 3 weekends due to being sick.
Basically planning on ramping up even more and I’m going to do a 30 day challenge this summer at some point. That’s going to be rly difficult but has to happen for me.
The goal is to see just how high I can climb that mountain.
Keep drilling, read more forum posts and ones from the past. Read MW's articles on the main site. Take notes, and journaling field reports and the like, keep going out. Don't make going out strictly at night, get social with your friends, girls you meet in school, or at work or wherever. Let it become you and your life.Tinder? Lol I love tinder.
lol, thanks man. Yeah, your tinder openers are gold. Bad timing yesterday though, dropped the peanut butter line and a girl went crazy for it, she was already at the airport leaving though. Between that and the sexting drill I had this girl walking into the airport bathroom to send me al kind of dirty little pics lol.
ever since MW tweaked my profile wording it’s gotten a little better match wise, but I still think my pictures suck and are probably hurting results. I get a lot of really below average matches
Jihad made a good point to me the other day too since I’ve had a focus on getting better exclusively in club settings as of late. Draw from all sources. They’re all interrelated. 2-3 nights per week, plus a date or two a week. If you’re texting a lot via dating apps to get some of these dates that’s an incredible amount of experience you’re getting. Plus, your texting will help your in person and vice versa.
I basically dropped dating apps altogether lately but I’m gonna re-add them back in. Get some reps in myself.