How picky are you guys with chicks?
Just wondering how picky are you guys with chicks?
I know Julien says do it for the reference experience but if a girl is below 8 i would just feel like she is leeching from me. I talk to everybody but if a girl is a 6 or 7 im not sexually interested (unless im drunk and she is sucking my dick lol).
Thats why i love festivals because there are so many 9s and 8s. Maybe its an ego thing idk...
Way too much. Rationalisations there.
Way too much. Rationalisations there.
Huh?
i lose natural motivation if she's <7. but i see value in jusst getting her for practise. doesn't mean i'll always do it, though.
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Way too much. Rationalisations there.
i find it easier to approach super hot girls because i cant think of a reason why not to do it.
Thing is real Rocket are rare, so you got to give love to the rest. Fattie is disqualify of course.
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Way too much. Rationalisations there.i find it easier to approach super hot girls because i cant think of a reason why not to do it.
Yeah if shes hot i approach on autopilot.
Idk i have quite many experiences from some year back where chicks get really needy and clingy and it was just annoying lol
I recently banged this little 18 year old mexican girl who I see every now and again. Would've given a 6 or a 7 on the looks scale. Not pretty but not ugly. The thing was she was just so damn fun. She was playing into my "daddy's little girl" frame wonderfully and it is SUCH a pleasure to be around her.
The crazy thing is... after we had sex she started getting much, much sexier. She started slimming up (she's very short lol), wearing makeup, went to a stylist and got her hair done really nice. I saw her and almost didn't recognize her. I'd give her an 8 now.
There's a story in the back of Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss, where he talks about how he fucked this old lady who was all run down and haggard, because of her autistic son, but she had a strange attractiveness to her, and then afterward he saw her completely change. Neil Strauss wrote, "...and that's when I realized that I was 'The Angel of Fuck.'" Now I totally know what he was talking about, but I didn't understand it even a little bit when I just barely started off.
I absolutely agree with Julien on that. A year or two ago, I wouldn't have given this girl a second glance. I would've seen her as "subpar." It's a massive inner shift from being an "ego-based high quality person" to a TRULY "high-quality person." If you've ever approached any TURBO-hotties, you know they're actually much cooler and approachable than you would expect, because a lot of the time, they're also high-quality on the inside... and that's where you guys need to get.
Being "high-value" or "high quality" has nothing to do with being "too good" to associate with someone. I USED TO DO THIS. Then I realized what a shitty, low-value, low quality thing it was I was doing. If you're thinking in those terms, you're cutting yourself off at the knees and denying yourself the massive amounts of experience you could be getting. This little 18 year old latina was a massive reference experience for me. Does that mean you have to bang every UG that comes along? Or put up with shitty, negative behavior? NOPE. Not at all. But you're not making that decision out of some "false, mind-made perception" (IE ego) of yourself as "higher value" when in actuality it's a low-value characteristic.
"Way too much. Rationalisations there." I was talking about my experience btw Cholo.
I recently banged this little 18 year old mexican girl who I see every now and again. Would've given a 6 or a 7 on the looks scale. Not pretty but not ugly. The thing was she was just so damn fun. She was playing into my "daddy's little girl" frame wonderfully and it is SUCH a pleasure to be around her.The crazy thing is... after we had sex she started getting much, much sexier. She started slimming up (she's very short lol), wearing makeup, went to a stylist and got her hair done really nice. I saw her and almost didn't recognize her. I'd give her an 8 now.
There's a story in the back of Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss, where he talks about how he fucked this old lady who was all run down and haggard, because of her autistic son, but she had a strange attractiveness to her, and then afterward he saw her completely change. Neil Strauss wrote, "...and that's when I realized that I was 'The Angel of Fuck.'" Now I totally know what he was talking about, but I didn't understand it even a little bit when I just barely started off.
I absolutely agree with Julien on that. A year or two ago, I wouldn't have given this girl a second glance. I would've seen her as "subpar." It's a massive inner shift from being an "ego-based high quality person" to a TRULY "high-quality person." If you've ever approached any TURBO-hotties, you know they're actually much cooler and approachable than you would expect, because a lot of the time, they're also high-quality on the inside... and that's where you guys need to get.
Being "high-value" or "high quality" has nothing to do with being "too good" to associate with someone. I USED TO DO THIS. Then I realized what a shitty, low-value, low quality thing it was I was doing. If you're thinking in those terms, you're cutting yourself off at the knees and denying yourself the massive amounts of experience you could be getting. This little 18 year old latina was a massive reference experience for me. Does that mean you have to bang every UG that comes along? Or put up with shitty, negative behavior? NOPE. Not at all. But you're not making that decision out of some "false, mind-made perception" (IE ego) of yourself as "higher value" when in actuality it's a low-value characteristic.
Exactly.
Awesome story!
I banged a latina that was a 6 or so and then deleted her of facebook like 2 years ago lol. But then i met her again and shes super fun so were just really good friends.
I hang arround 6s all the time and watch movies, cook food together but i dont really get turned on. Although last week i brought like a 5 and a 6 back to my apartment to chill but the 6 had a character that turned me on Android i played with her boobs but i think my ego held me back from banging to be honest. But whatever ill see her arround so i wont hold back the next time :P
Other than that... i feel like i get much better chemistry with hotter chicks but maybe it's also ego based?
Not picky at all, starting to approach more hot girls. Tired of picking up girls that I'm not really attracted.
Cool discussion.
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I have friends who are naturals and some of them will fuck anything. Literally. I'm mean... like hatefucking the rolls of fat
... you're not making that decision out of some "false, mind-made perception" (IE ego) of yourself as "higher value" when in actuality it's a low-value characteristic.
That's an interesting point of view. But I don't really think: "I am too cool for this girl". It's more like the attraction is not there. What I started doing recently is that if I see a girl that's not a top pick I ask myself - would I like to fuck that? Because some girls might be 7 and have no sexual appeal at all, and others you can imagine being really cool in bed.
I'm not suggesting anyone has to have no standards at all and fuck ugly girls. I love sexy girls. But personally, my criteria don't automatically accept a 10, nor do they automatically disqualify a 6.
I'm just speculating, but It seems like that's how guys like Julien for example get really really good. They're not necessarily playing on that "superficial value scale." Maybe everyone thinks they are, because one of the side-effects is getting hot girls. They end up building an all-around attractive personality, to the point where interacting with a 10 is NO different than a 6.
I'm not suggesting anyone has to have no standards at all and fuck ugly girls. I love sexy girls. But personally, my criteria don't automatically accept a 10, nor do they automatically disqualify a 6.I'm just speculating, but It seems like that's how guys like Julien for example get really really good. They're not necessarily playing on that "superficial value scale." Maybe everyone thinks they are, because one of the side-effects is getting hot girls. They end up building an all-around attractive personality, to the point where interacting with a 10 is NO different than a 6.
the exact scene I reference, in the exact same context I use it in. Did I bring this up already before?
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- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
LOL. I don't know, did you?
If you did, I'll take it as a massive compliment haha
I treat a 6 like a 10, but i think im more engaged and charming with 10's though...