How pushy is it ok to be?
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 01:53
This girl I run into and talk to like every other day, used to be pretty chill, she and her friends defs love me in person, fun fun haha blah.
When I've texted her however to set something up she kind of replied teh first time and blatantly ignored the second time AFTER she approached me between the two. I really do like this girl and her roommate, if not for 'getting some' just to chill and go partying with.
In this situation do you just wait till the next time you see her and be like "stop beeing a fag, come chill naow", do you text something along those lines, do you call and say something or just decide.
I would usually just next and 'find moar girls' but whereas I see this girl around campus and she blatantly walks up to me and talks for like 30 minutes, I don't see any reason NOT to at least take a freebie fun date with two girls at once.
When I've texted her however to set something up she kind of replied teh first time and blatantly ignored the second time AFTER she approached me between the two. I really do like this girl and her roommate, if not for 'getting some' just to chill and go partying with.
In this situation do you just wait till the next time you see her and be like "stop beeing a fag, come chill naow", do you text something along those lines, do you call and say something or just decide.
I would usually just next and 'find moar girls' but whereas I see this girl around campus and she blatantly walks up to me and talks for like 30 minutes, I don't see any reason NOT to at least take a freebie fun date with two girls at once.
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 03:01
#1
Interesting situation. I'm
Interesting situation. I'm going to withhold advice until I see the past text convo
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 03:13
#2
Lol it is shitty but as I'm
Lol it is shitty but as I'm an lazy entitled bitch my head just expects it to be ok. Past text conversations as a whole with this girl were forever ago and that phone was lost, but as it stands the last few days (keep in mind real life interaction is interspersed here) here it is:
Me: Oi go to coffee pod with me. The other hooligan can come. Idgaf i just want coffee.
Her: Who is this
Me: lol Nerdsaver
Her: Haha oh i'm at work
Me: No fun. Go with me deez week.
-nothing-
Me: (girls name)...
Me: Seriously stop being a fucking phaggot. You know you love me. At least humor me with an angry "What!?!"
Her: WHAT!?
Also keep in mind the foul language isn't a big deal here at all because thats how we talk in person.
Me: Oi go to coffee pod with me. The other hooligan can come. Idgaf i just want coffee.
Her: Who is this
Me: lol Nerdsaver
Her: Haha oh i'm at work
Me: No fun. Go with me deez week.
-nothing-
Me: (girls name)...
Me: Seriously stop being a fucking phaggot. You know you love me. At least humor me with an angry "What!?!"
Her: WHAT!?
Also keep in mind the foul language isn't a big deal here at all because thats how we talk in person.
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 03:17
#3
Seems like you guys are
Seems like you guys are friends.
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 03:30
#4
Sorta Not Really. Literally
Sorta Not Really. Literally talked to these girls maybe 5 times in the past year. 3 of those times being this week. The other two at parties beginning of the year. Super touchy, oddly sexual friends maybe. I'd think of it more as that girl you make eyes with, chatted up a few times, but never really took it anywhere.
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 03:43
#5
Ok yep I was hoping for the
Ok yep I was hoping for the friendly cussing text thread. Nice
You're mixing and matching wrong. Keep the attitude on par but don't make it about coffee that's so fucking incongruent. I'd be like, "Yo biscuit, you and that fat little donut need to come get drinks this week we are celebrating. Something"
Don't say fat little donut but oh gawd I'd love to text that to some girl. Shit's hilarious. Too bad "fat" is such a touchy word
Actually it's too late for an invite anyways just proceed with casual texting about inane nonsense and then in a few days tell them to go get drinks with you.
You're mixing and matching wrong. Keep the attitude on par but don't make it about coffee that's so fucking incongruent. I'd be like, "Yo biscuit, you and that fat little donut need to come get drinks this week we are celebrating. Something"
Don't say fat little donut but oh gawd I'd love to text that to some girl. Shit's hilarious. Too bad "fat" is such a touchy word
Actually it's too late for an invite anyways just proceed with casual texting about inane nonsense and then in a few days tell them to go get drinks with you.
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 03:54
#6
Hahah if I get annoyed/bored
Hahah if I get annoyed/bored along the line I'll send that text and tell you what happens.
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 04:54
#7
jk, nevermind, NEXT. I'm
jk, nevermind, NEXT. I'm being a fucking fag and shes reflecting it.
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 07:17
#8
No dude. Just friendzone it
No dude. Just friendzone it for awhile then when things happen you can be like.. OOPS I HAVE A DICK!
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 15:23
#9
haha oh yo ucan pull taht
haha oh you can pull that line off
If she gets pissed you be like, "Yeah, girl- you know I can't meet up with you unless you bring that cute little puppy you always talk about"
if she doens't have a dog- just make it about something else
But in any event that's a ridiculously funny text. I may have to try and tweak it up and make it super usable.
If she gets pissed you be like, "Yeah, girl- you know I can't meet up with you unless you bring that cute little puppy you always talk about"
if she doens't have a dog- just make it about something else
But in any event that's a ridiculously funny text. I may have to try and tweak it up and make it super usable.