How to reply to 'your sense of humor irritates me' text?
I got this girl number from okcupid and have called her a couple times. we were supposed to hang out this weekend but she had to travel
me: 'and that was the racist joke of the day'
this is translated from portuguese so some nuances might be lost. how to reply to this? my inclination is not to reply to this crap at all and reengage later using less goofy stuff
Less goofy stuff huh lol.
that was literally the most offensive thing I've ever read on these forums.
I understand. If I had said that in a phone call (most of the time I call) it would have been fine, I say worse stuff all the time. anyway, what is a good reply here?
I didn't want to take forever to reply so I said 'yeah, sometimes I go over the line'
I would have wrote:
That is Gay.
Yeah never apologize like you did. Retake the frame. The "gay" text did that pretty decently
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I'm irritated that you're irritated.. but at least I got your attention now. I owe you two thai massages and bag of chips
Thats what I would have said before your last answer
After your last message about going over the line I would probably say something like..Yeah I get it... They threw me in the oven a few times as a child, but hey I'm a survivor and I make a mean baked potatoe
LOL that concentration camp text was heavy
Yeah never apologize like you did. Retake the frame. The "gay" text did that pretty decently
Wish I had waited for your reply. She said
"I think thats it right? kisses, goodbye"
ignored that and said 'just came back from the park, was enjoying some exercise and fresh air' 'you won't believe what I saw there'
she said
"?" 19:59
"say it?" 20:44
"pfff" 20:44
"blocked. bye" 21:01
I was pretty tired and couldn't think of anything so I just wanted to leave her curious. I still think I can turn it around because she has thrown some stupid tests on me before, I'm not even sure she really blocked me since her picture and profile still show up in my WhatsApp (doesn't show last active time though)
I think I will wait 2-3 days and call her. Some girls I just can't connect over txt
any thoughts?
You've beefed this multiple times in multiple ways. This would be a convo I would have to manage the entire way through because you're fucking it up so bad lol. Social P.N. gave you some good advice tho
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I would write:
I saw [whatever you saw]. It was cool, it made my day.
If she responds call her
or
Just call her like you said
Honestly, dude when I talk with girls I I treat them, for the most part, like guys. If you texted your buddy and he texted you back all the shit she did, how would you respond? I know I would either clown him or completely ignore the shit and finish my point. Nothing flashy or cool or whatever superflous effort most guys put into texting girls when they feel they are coming from a place of lower value. This is the mindset you need to carry over when you are on the phone with her too instead of trying to have the perfect response that you think she'll like. Say it cause you like it and it reinforces your frame and the type of interactions you enjoy having, it is your life. Stop gving a shit whether or not she likes you and this shall happen naturally.
This girl you're talking with seems really emotionally unhealthy, she is reacting fucking weird as shit just cause you did not immediately text her back,
Gross.
Do not play into that at all and just maintain your chill frame and keep the frame how you want it.
You've beefed this multiple times in multiple ways. This would be a convo I would have to manage the entire way through because you're fucking it up so bad lol. Social P.N. gave you some good advice tho
+1
Social Ninja, I appreciate your posts. It is always cool to have a savvy female's input on the forums too.
Welcome to the forums.
update:
I tried calling her today, twice. both times she didn't take it, but she unblocked me after that and said hi, I texted 'I just had a glorious day', she immediatly called me and we spoke for like 20 mins. It was just another bs test from her. guess no one gives a fuck about antisemitism in my country as I suspected