How to suggest a hook up over text ?
I'm kind of new to the game and don't know what to do next.
I got this girl's number at a bar. She's Russian and only here for a week. She told me she's single and she wouldn't mind me calling her. So I thought she's down to a one night stand.
The next day I tried to call her. She didn't pick up. I texted her on whatsapp, asking her out for a drink. She has read my msg (can see the blue tick) but didn't reply. I pushed further and suggested a movie night at her place. Still no reply. What should I say next ? I feel like she is down to fuck (she said she's single and she came alone to the bar) so I want to push it as far as I can until she's gone.
so you can't always take everything a chick says at face value, or anyone for that matter. I think you are learning that lesson as we speak ;)
RSD talks a lot about them living in the emotion of the moment and it's a good concept to explore.
Even though she said one thing, it doesn't always means it's gonna happen like that. You will still have to proper text game the following day.
I'd start here:
The article is the perfect introduction and his texting is world class. If there is anyone you want to learn from it's him. A lot of other talent circulates around here as well.
But you gotta give us details bro, the more you tell us the more we can help you. How was the interaction? Did you escalate? Were you even charming or did you just snag her number from a bathroom stall?
there is no way for us to know.
Thanks for replying. To be honest I was in a rush (my friend wanted to go to a different place) so I just talked to her for about 5 min. Did not really escalate at all,but at one point we were talking about our age, and I'm being the younger guy asked her whether young guys are not her type. She said ' no they're my type' so I went ahead and asked for the number.
I said I had to go and does she mind if I call her the next day. She said no she doesn't mind.
I did text her properly the next day. It was something like this :"Hey I'm xxx, it was nice meeting you.... I'd like to ask you out for a drink... when you are free this weekend ? ". Got no reply so I got a bit bolder and suggested "how about movies at your place ?" in case she just can't be bothered to go out and just wants the D. Still no reply.
She's leaving in about 1 week.... so I really want to F*** her before she does. Please help :D
You're a complete newb, dude. No offense but that's just where you're at. You say you "texted her properly" but that was an awful text to send. You asked her if you could call her, that was an awful move. You're not sexy in the slightest, you come off like a newb in your behaviors. Guys like you don't have hookups with girls. You're way out of your league asking questions like this. Sure I can and have crafted some magical texts that made girls drop what they were doing and immediately come over, but we all know you'd fuck it up once she got there. ;)
lol that's helpful
Well you weren't helping yourself in the slightest, buhbs. You were off the map. Now you've got a clear picture of where you're at, you've gotten links to articles on texting to read. But yes you've got a long way to go. Read all the "Best of" threads and take a look at my coaching programs.
Good cop, bad cop.
Now you know and now you can move forward. Buckle up, get ready, and consider coaching
I know you can do this but you've got to put in the work. It's so fucking worth it no matter which route you take