I am trying to hold a constant state of exuberance but i'm getting worn out
So I just got to college and everything is gucci, but i'm having a tough time holding a constant state of mr. social. My masculine flamboyance has always been lacking to some degree, but I often had times to recharge and present myself with a high energy level. Recently, I feel so overwhelmed with all the people that I tend to crash into low energy and become chodey for a short period of time. It is exhausting me!
I'm guessing this is something I will have to push through and I will have to train my body not to crash on me. I am so much happier when I am being expressive as fuck but at times my body wants to be regressive and introverted.
I feel so chodey when I catch myself being all quiet and shit.
Are you getting good amounts of sleep and nutrition?
Work with your bodies natural energy flow man. If you're present it won't matter anyways. It will almost give you a "2nd energy tank" if you will, that never runs out. You can still be highly expressive when your body is on low energy. You'll have a boss-like frame 24/7 like this.
Meditation/Tolle is key. Some alone time is as well. Maybe find a hour to listen to relaxing music while reading a nice book.
I find that I need my alone time to recharge myself.
this happens to me, but much more often. i need mw drills to whip me up into a good state and sometimes not even that helps, i'm just offline/burnt out, period. regular meditation has definatley been helping it though.
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Marcus Aurelius - "The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.”
Angelina Jolie -- "She asked if I wanted to play a Bond girl. I said, ‘No, I’m not comfortable with that… but I would like to play Bond’.”
Why is that when a man sleeps with a women, he's called a player. But, when a woman does it, she's called a lesbian?!
This might sound weird to some but what you really want to focus on, what did it for me and continues to do it for me even though I'm sure a lot of you think I'm an asshole, is to see everyone as your friend. See the good in them, see them as someone you care about, someone you empathize with. Be out for their wellbeing, make them feel good, included, give them crazy fun times and crazy fun emotions.
When you're holding back, trying to maintain an image or a rep, you will start to slowly poison yourself. You will create lines and divisions where none have to be. When you walk up to new people you will be trying to fit an image and you'll be worried about your status compared to theirs, or you'll be judging your freeflow of expressiveness in the moment. Instead just be open and free and treat every nigga the same.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
You beautiful asshole, Great post.
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Sun Tzu — 'Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win'
Marcus Aurelius - "The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.”
Angelina Jolie -- "She asked if I wanted to play a Bond girl. I said, ‘No, I’m not comfortable with that… but I would like to play Bond’.”
Why is that when a man sleeps with a women, he's called a player. But, when a woman does it, she's called a lesbian?!
Thanks everyone
Meow will still find a way to fuck it up, overcompensating and putting on a show because he's still trying to get a reaction/validation from people.
You beautiful asshole, Great post.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Meow will still find a way to fuck it up, overcompensating and putting on a show because he's still trying to get a reaction/validation from people.
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You beautiful asshole, Great post.
lol I hope not :(
Things went really great today trying to enforce this mindset. Had a few girls jump into conversations and introduce themselves to me just cuz they overheard me being awesome.