i dont know what to do i will die alone
i dont know what to do i want to have women in my life but i always end up in the damn friendzone
i dont know what to do to get a woman attracted to me
please help
i just want someone to point me in the right direction
i just want someone to point me in the right direction
Give us some more details man. Tell us about yourself and how you found game and this website
We can help
You came to the right place. No, you def won’t die alone lol.
Nah fuck this guy he's dyin alone for sure lol
i was a fat kid that got bullied in school and still have some social anxiety
i found the game through david d and then learn about other schools
i had sex with 6 women
all after learning game
i cannot maintain a relationship as the fizzle out and they leave me
mostly i want to learn how to be myself and girls like it i want to be naturally attractive
i mean i understand technique but i just feel somethings wrong with me
Nah fuck this guy he's dyin alone for sure lol
hahahaaha
i was a fat kid that got bullied in school and still have some social anxietyi found the game through david d and then learn about other schools
i had sex with 6 women
all after learning game
i cannot maintain a relationship as the fizzle out and they leave me
mostly i want to learn how to be myself and girls like it i want to be naturally attractive
i mean i understand technique but i just feel somethings wrong with me
so, strangely enough I found out about this stuff through David D as well. His stuff is wayyyyy old and outdated though. Some good biological and evolutionary info that obviously does not change, but techniques wise that stuff even predated RSD, lol. It’s also a lot of gimmicky stuff, versus actually being a fucking boss. (Aside from cocky+funny though, he coined that shit in like 01 and it still holds true, the rest is shit though lol)
My my best advice is go read some of the front page articles and some of the reviews. Take the training, own shit
thats why theres an entire industry out there for guys with these problems
H8Reality you want to sorta see what I do as being a mental mechanic. But I'm not just fixing broken things, like what you're describing, e.g. "an entire industry out there for guys with these problems", because actually it's very possible to make all guys WAY better. And it's supposed to happen.
I'm going to clarify a few points for you so you can understand things better:
1) Patriarchy sucked. Turned generations of men into emotional/mental automatons, by enslaving women and thus lowering the bar. Maybe it was the harshness of reality for most of human history, or a century of conflict- two World Wars and the bloody escalating conflict between political ideologies and religious zealotry that turned men into hollowed out shells, but now that women are on a more egalitarian footing with us, they're quickly turning around and telling us that.. this whole time we sucked. We didn't know how to talk to them, didn't know how to make them feel good, didn't know how to lead them to closer and closer intimacy with us. We only figured out how to force it on them this whole time. And pay them slave wages.
2) You're sorta seeing the problem wrong, you're seeing it like you just happened to fall on the wrong side of the fence, into a subset of the population on the outside looking in, doomed to watch the festivities and maybe even report but never participate. That is not fucking true.
3) You need to start differentiating better. Let's say you look at one of these companies out there, with women serving as "dating counselors" for men, there are several but there's one called Introverted Alpha that's superbly skilled at emotionally manipulating men, fulfilling their desire for female companionship, concern, attention, female warmth, without actually giving them anything but a mental handjob. These companies will NOT instill change or improvement in these mens' lives, all they're doing is selling them the feeling of female acceptance and warmth. These women serve the role of surrogate mothers and prostitutes, to hold the hands of the men who've never chosen to let childish machinations go and adopt a more seasoned and adultish "male" attitude towards women. Now that's not you, so don't take it that way, but I just want to make a clear distinction so you stop looking at the whole industry as a bunch of glow-hard capitalists. Fuck that. There ARE ways of massively improving your skills and results with women, it just takes some development. And no it does not involve jumping out of moving cars to go run after a girl. But you can if you want to, ;). Lol
4) You need to diagnose the situation better. The problem, is that most men are looking for Acceptance from women, at least first, and then never get to the necessary part of Leading them. That's the Romance! They're not going to go along with your romantic adventure unless you lead them.
Once you can understand and see all this, then you can start actually developing yourself in the right directions.
ya because i don't believe us guys needed this type of training like 50 or 60 years ago, on how to talk to women and interact with them, attracted them, seduce them, etc.
I just explained exactly why "game" wasn't required 50-60 years ago.. because women were slaves and could not express their own standards for men to earn/follow along.
Stop being a self-pitying fucking idiot and start learning.
It seems like you need to boost your confidence a little. Do you work out? Ever consider training in mma? What about your financial goals ?
One of the main things I feel is that you have to feel great without a woman present. There are loads of things you can do to start feeling better emotionally.
The self loathing that you are doing now is just going to keep sending you farther down the rabbit hole