I hate doing this shit but I need some help to get to meet these girls
Thu, 04/25/2013 - 22:50
I need some help on what to say next to get to meet up
Me: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKLebXCy3QE&hd=1 12:06 AM
Girl 1: Ew. 12:13 AM
Girl 1: Would you do that? Lol 12:13 AM
Me: Lol that was hilarious. Im not that ballsy though (no pun intended) 12:14 AM
Me: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aLYvZ5sX28&feature=youtube_gdata_player 12:18 AM
Girl 1: Hahahahahaha that trouble one is halarious. 12:22 AM
Girl 1: Hilarious* 12:22 AM
Me: That goat is the ish. Yo come down this weekend 12:30 AM
Me: Or invite me down. Yeap invite me down. You guys have anything cool? Karting, laser tag, arcades? 12:34 AM
Girl 1: Yeah deff! And yeah I live close to the beach there's arcades there and iplay America is like an indoor laser tag/go karting place 12:46 AM
Girl 1: But I might be volunteering this weekend. 12:47 AM
Me: You can volunteer any time but a chance to hang out with me is only once in a lifetime...... 2:35 PM
Me: Lol I kid 2:37 PM
Girl 1: Lol, then oh well. 9:22 PM
Me: Hahaha so let's do this next weekend then 9:34 PM
Me: I got a party to go to on Friday (10th) but I should be good for Saturday (11th) 9:40 PM
Me: http://i.imgur.com/92rtvwe.jpg 1:13 AM
Me: do you know why you suck? 9:00 PM
Girl 2: Why? 9:38 PM
Me: we had a real cool vibe and we still haven't gotten to chill yet 9:46 PM
Girl 2: I knowwwwww we have to plan something and stick to it 9:47 PM
Me: Yo come down this weekend. 9:54 PM
Me: Or invite me down. Yeap invite me down. You guys have anything cool? Karting, laser tag, arcades? 9:54 PM
Me: Plz respond homie 10:39 AM
Girl 2: Oh snap my bad I fell asleep early last night 12:45 PM
Me: Should I delete your number? 4:33 PM
Girl 2: What? 5:41 PM
(ignore the karting/laser tag shit. i havent done that in a long time and i really want to do it lol. besides when I get there we can prob do something else)
Me: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKLebXCy3QE&hd=1 12:06 AM
Girl 1: Ew. 12:13 AM
Girl 1: Would you do that? Lol 12:13 AM
Me: Lol that was hilarious. Im not that ballsy though (no pun intended) 12:14 AM
Me: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aLYvZ5sX28&feature=youtube_gdata_player 12:18 AM
Girl 1: Hahahahahaha that trouble one is halarious. 12:22 AM
Girl 1: Hilarious* 12:22 AM
Me: That goat is the ish. Yo come down this weekend 12:30 AM
Me: Or invite me down. Yeap invite me down. You guys have anything cool? Karting, laser tag, arcades? 12:34 AM
Girl 1: Yeah deff! And yeah I live close to the beach there's arcades there and iplay America is like an indoor laser tag/go karting place 12:46 AM
Girl 1: But I might be volunteering this weekend. 12:47 AM
Me: You can volunteer any time but a chance to hang out with me is only once in a lifetime...... 2:35 PM
Me: Lol I kid 2:37 PM
Girl 1: Lol, then oh well. 9:22 PM
Me: Hahaha so let's do this next weekend then 9:34 PM
Me: I got a party to go to on Friday (10th) but I should be good for Saturday (11th) 9:40 PM
Me: http://i.imgur.com/92rtvwe.jpg 1:13 AM
Me: do you know why you suck? 9:00 PM
Girl 2: Why? 9:38 PM
Me: we had a real cool vibe and we still haven't gotten to chill yet 9:46 PM
Girl 2: I knowwwwww we have to plan something and stick to it 9:47 PM
Me: Yo come down this weekend. 9:54 PM
Me: Or invite me down. Yeap invite me down. You guys have anything cool? Karting, laser tag, arcades? 9:54 PM
Me: Plz respond homie 10:39 AM
Girl 2: Oh snap my bad I fell asleep early last night 12:45 PM
Me: Should I delete your number? 4:33 PM
Girl 2: What? 5:41 PM
(ignore the karting/laser tag shit. i havent done that in a long time and i really want to do it lol. besides when I get there we can prob do something else)
Thu, 04/25/2013 - 22:58
#1
I actually called Girl #2
I actually called Girl #2 before asking her if I should delete her number.
Fri, 04/26/2013 - 01:16
#2
Lol that video is an old
Lol that video is an old buddy of mine.
Dude that second one why'd you say delete your number like that? That was so uncalibrated with the rest of the convo. She was invested, be patient.
Dude that second one why'd you say delete your number like that? That was so uncalibrated with the rest of the convo. She was invested, be patient.
Fri, 04/26/2013 - 03:52
#3
Yup.. patience- as long as
Yup.. patience- as long as she's responding, you'll get the date eventually. It can't be stopped.
The first text convo was better than the first
I wouldn't have done the "plz respond homie"- rough
But I like adding "homie" to the text- I actually might do that sometimes. Very nice
First one- just hone in on that saturday and make it happen- casually text her and in between casual texts, keep up the pressure a little. You're good here on that first one.
Second one- play it off like a joke, so you don't seem weird (cause that WAS really weird haha)- or even just admit that it was weird (statement of empathy) and move on.
It goes back to that whole concept of "You're only crazy if you don't recognize you're crazy"- if you do something weird and own up to it and just embrace it... you're not weird anymore- voila ... easy
The first text convo was better than the first
I wouldn't have done the "plz respond homie"- rough
But I like adding "homie" to the text- I actually might do that sometimes. Very nice
First one- just hone in on that saturday and make it happen- casually text her and in between casual texts, keep up the pressure a little. You're good here on that first one.
Second one- play it off like a joke, so you don't seem weird (cause that WAS really weird haha)- or even just admit that it was weird (statement of empathy) and move on.
It goes back to that whole concept of "You're only crazy if you don't recognize you're crazy"- if you do something weird and own up to it and just embrace it... you're not weird anymore- voila ... easy
Fri, 04/26/2013 - 04:49
#4
Manwhore wrote:Dude that
Manwhore wrote:
Dude that second one why'd you say delete your number like that? That was so uncalibrated with the rest of the convo. She was invested, be patient.
I know
buddhagames wrote:
Yup.. patience- as long as she's responding, you'll get the date eventually. It can't be stopped.
The first text convo was better than the first
I wouldn't have done the "plz respond homie"- rough
But I like adding "homie" to the text- I actually might do that sometimes. Very nice
First one- just hone in on that saturday and make it happen- casually text her and in between casual texts, keep up the pressure a little. You're good here on that first one.
Second one- play it off like a joke, so you don't seem weird (cause that WAS really weird haha)- or even just admit that it was weird (statement of empathy) and move on.
It goes back to that whole concept of "You're only crazy if you don't recognize you're crazy"- if you do something weird and own up to it and just embrace it... you're not weird anymore- voila ... easy
First girl is a pain in the rear. She always texts me back at least 6hrs apart. Most often 12hrs. Like girls get a kick out of this shit. Wtf.
She always responds well when I call her though.
By casual you mean something like "Can't wait for Saturday"?
2nd one I'm thinking of just ignoring it ("haha") and keep going. Its been 6 hours now.
God I'm awful at this shit
Fri, 04/26/2013 - 04:55
#5
No- by casual I mean talk
No- by casual I mean talk about random shit and then in between be like , "Oh, btw- 8pm on saturday work?" she responds, then cut threads
You always want to be multithreading in text game... that's basic stuff
You always want to be multithreading in text game... that's basic stuff
Fri, 04/26/2013 - 15:14
#6
Thanks man. I really don't
Thanks man. I really don't have a lot of reference points so I can use all the help I can get.
Sat, 04/27/2013 - 02:05
#7
Just as an update, i haven't
Just as an update, i haven't replied to either. Not sure if I even want to keep sending them shit.
I just changed my number anyways and its the weekend. Time to go out.
I just changed my number anyways and its the weekend. Time to go out.
Sat, 04/27/2013 - 10:23
#8
It's all about investment and
It's all about investment and these girls aren't investing much into you.