I like her.. but....

What sort of "relationship" do you guys have? Are y'all super chummy? Live together part of the time? Met each other's families? I've got several girls that hit me up for sex here 'n there, we even hang out and do date stuff, but we're not "together". Could you manage something like that? 

She is pushing towards a "serious" relationship, wants me to meet her mom this summer, I stayed over night once but we have a lot of sex. Good sex. She's pretty great but I'm having these ridiculous urges to fuck everything hot. 

I'm not sure if this is normal or if this is a huge red flag on my part. She's very open to things and what not, but she wouldn't go for an open relationship. She's like 27-28 and I'm just a 21 year old guy.

Yeah better to be open about the fact you couldn't be tied down right now. You're too horny. Tell her she'll probably laugh. The better you do it the more she'll support you at it. Lol. You can tell her all sorts of things that'll help her frame it in her mind as an adventure and even appeal to her nurturing side. 

Hahaha I sure hope so, she might have some baggage with that but I'll give it a go. I'll keep you updated. She's away on vacation for a while so it'll have to wait.

I could see her laughing at first, but doing a complete 180 shortly after. I'll plan this one out.

Ha! Yeah there's a "fail rate". But to what degree is it a failure ;) 

My thoughts exactly, one way I keep her around, the other I don't. Either way I walk away with what I want in the end. Hahahaha.

My thoughts exactly, one way I keep her around, the other I don't. Either way I walk away with what I want in the end. Hahahaha.

My thoughts exactly, one way I keep her around, the other I don't. Either way I walk away with what I want in the end. Hahahaha.

I don't know why my computer sent that a million times.... my bad.

Sure I also sorta meant that you might think you failed 'cuz she goes a lil bonkers at first but she'll definitely come around. It's not like she's going to just completely stop associating with you. Sure that could happen but honestly not likely 

I think she might come around. I know she wants a serious relationship but I can't have that right now. I doubt she'd drop off the face of the earth too, we work together.  

You ever heard that multiple relationship speech by Todd? I'm considering that, I've always wanted to use it. Hahaha no idea how successful it is. 

Wanna give a big thanks to all that helped me out with the situation. 

Basically convinced the gf to go back to "dating" each other and not an official relationship. Gonna continue seeing her and banging the others. 

You guys are the shit lol. That was a wicked night last night. Couldn't be fucking happier. 

ha! Awesome