I struck out tonight

Hey bros so I went out tonight!!! Omg it's cray. So I have been in hermit mode for the last 3 weeks or so and finally decided that I would join my roomy out tonight with his friends and see what happens. I really wasn't in the mood to be out and it definitely showed, I look like a bored zombie but whatevs I really have no desire to be out socially lately. So everyone leaves and it's just me and my roomy and he's like 'dude c'mon let's do this like old times and take some girls home' so I agree because he offers to buy me drinks all night.

I meet a group of two girls and two guys. I talk to one of the girls, roomy comes back and takesover with the girl, I talk to her friend for a bit, ten minutes later were pulling the two girls from the bar. Their two guy friends are left behind. Sorry fellas.

The girl I was chatting was off and giving off a vibe that I know to not even waste my time with but whatever everything is going great with my roomies girl. They're having a fun time while we're walking back. So while I can tell my shit with my girl isn't going well, I try to go cave man and throw my arm around her. No good.

We hit the next bar at last call, it's too late to get drinks. I caveman again and she likes it! She even gets her arms up on me, it feels good like it should feel when a girl is ready for you to slam her. So naturally we go to leave, my girl goes to the bathroom really fast. My roomy and his girl are outside on the sidewalk flirting hardcore. My girl takes like 5 or more minutes in the bathroom. Wtf. She's comes out, we go outside, she flags a cab down and her friend obviously follows. My roomy is good and tries hard to stop them as he really wanted to fuck. So we fail and they take off. My roomy is like 'well you can't win them all. Let's go eat pizza!' lol he's hilarious.

Long story short we pulled girls from bar, we were walking home, we stopped at another bar, we lost them on the street to a cab at last moment.

Can't win them all.

If there's something to learn from this besides the cant win them all thing, it's the fact that just because a girl appears to be uninterested, you should still try to get physical with them. I'm not trying to make an excuse but it's been 2 months or so since I've even tried to bar pull and it definitely showed. Still, I got damn close to a one nighter with a cute blonde with an attitude. Which I love of course. But girls with attitude usually have an attitude for a reason and it's most likely not worth your time unless you are winging.

Like early on I put my arm around her and she's like 'oh you're a fast mover I see' and pulled my arm off her. So right away the situation felt like a waste of time to me. I mean what kind of girl does that lol, only a dumb bish. But whatevs I kept at it to help my roomy. Later she seems to like my advances but then bolts at the last second so yea, I really think if a girl is rejecting your physicalness early on, she has some other shit going on in her head whether it's another guy she's currently dating, not interested in fucking tonight, whatever.

Looking back on it, my girl was a tough cookie. But as a good wing, you gotta at least try ;) but I would be lying if I didn't say that I was pretty damn disappointed in the end result. But such is life and next time I know not to stop on the street and instead just keep moving them girls. Avoid talking about coming to our place for drinks, avoid bars, just keep walking until you're at your place! And it blows because manwhore has told me multiple times - don't stop to tell her your plans on the street, just say 'were going over here!' and keep going. Jon, I know better. You did not teach me to fail like this.