I think this girl is STRAIGHT TRIPPING
MAAANNNNN!!! For the past month or 2 i felt my text game drop to the abyss. OOhh the pain!
Can't even get a girl to hang out the few times I try, but then that's an issue I will go over in another thread.
Last weekend I hung out with a bunch of Irish dudes in my college town and went ham.
Irish dudes go hard in the paint, I love 'em. After some pregaming we rushed this outdoors dancing party with our 4locos, talked to a few sets that night.
Towards the end, I snatched this one cutiepie from her friends and we started dancing. Turned out she's a grear dancer, twerker, whatever you want to call it... she knows her shit.
We both got turned on and started kissing on occasion. Cops came to bust the party, abut I didn't try to isolate and pull for some reason. We ended up hanging out in front of the venue teasing her here and there.
I bounced home 5 mins later with my dick in my hand knowing this was a solid set. This is what's been going on between us in the digital world:
8/18/2013
ME: (12:08AM) Ghettoguru_ Amazing dancer
ME: (4:53PM) Psst!
HER: (5:03PM) What's up?
ME: (5:21PM) Shoot not much, all I got to say is you killed my legs.... FUCK!!
ME: (5:21PM) You?
HER: (5:49PM) Ha my bad. I had fun with you tho. I'm at a concert. What are you doing tonight? (I'd think she wants to hang out)
ME: (6:29PM) Good shit. I'm playing snappa tonight! You got any plans tonight?
HER: (6:44PM) Sounds fun! Not really we'll prob just go to *Party Street* after this (Already tripping, NOTHING happens on sundays especially during the summer)
ME: (6:55PM) What's on *street*?
HER: (7:31PM) we're just gonna party ha.
ME: (7:33PM) Fasho, bring your snappa A-game if you don't find anything
HER: (8:07PM) What is snappa? Ha
ME: (8:14PM) Dang girl! :P it's a drinkign game involving catching. Hopefully you're good at either one
HER: (8:21PM) Haha like a football or what?
ME: (8:29PM) This little thing called a die ;) Good shit to play at night
HER: (9:15PM) Sounds fun i'll have to play :) (At this point I figured i'd cut the bullshit and called her at 9:20 to figure logistics, no pick up)
ME: (9:22PM) Hit me up girl (Needy faggot :P)
8/20/2013
HER: (11:45PM) What are you doing tonight?
ME: (11:49PM) Waiting for you. (I actually sent this for the lols, first thing that popped in my head)
HER: (11:55PM) Where at?
ME: (12:00AM) *address* Bring your cute self over (she never texted back or showed up lol)
8/21/2013
HER: (7:52PM) What you doin tonight?
What the fuck does she want from me yo! I threw in 2 offers and she never bothered to try and commit.
I'm reluctant on replying to this one because I bet my bed she's going to repeat the same shit.
I may have to throw the towel on this one unless one of you smartasses got something to say about this :P
I would just say,
You ;)
then if she replied, regardless of what she said, I would call her and pull her into me vibe on the phone qualify her a bit get logistics and get her out. It should not take more than a few minutes. If no response then I would drop it and go get more girls. If she texted me what am I doing again on another night I would ask her how come you always asks me that, but does not hang out? You are like mom number two over here checking up on me, woman
Geez :-x
My whole point is that I would not beat around it and trying to sound cool.
If you are having difficulty interpreting her commo, then ignore it do not get wrapped around the axle and opt for direct communication she'll clearly understand and lead the vibe how you want. She shall play into the more assertive frame every time. How much playfulness you want to add is up to you, but be clear in what you are communicating and own the vibe, brother.
Best.
hmm maybe see if she's looking to invite you somewhere
Thanks for the input Story, I was looking for a way to call her out whilts injecting some humor.
Here's what went on:
8/13/2013
ME:(12:55PM) How come you always ask me that but don't want to hang out lol. You're like mom #2 over here checking up on me, woman. smdh ;P
HER: (1:05PM) Ha my bad dude. I've been wanting to hang out but I've been busy too
ME: (2:21PM) 
Going hard in the paint tonight?
HER: (2:24PM) Ha hopefully. Anything big going down on *Party Street* tonight?
ME:(2:34PM) I wouldn't be surprised. Going to pregame then head out around 10:30
HER: (2:40PM) Yeah I think that's what we're trying to do too.
ME: (2:53PM) Good shit, i'll hit you up when I get off work. We can meet up at some point
HER: (2:54PM) Sounds like a plan
*Called her later that evening to let her know I was going to be late. She didn't pick up but returned my call mins later. It was too loud on her end so she hung up lol*
ME: (10:25PM) You already out there?
HER: (10:26PM) Where ya at? I can't here nothin?
HER: (10:28PM) Yeah at the house with blue lights
ME: (10:29PM) Helping out a stranded friend real quick, i'll let you know when i'm on my way
HER: (10:30PM) K cool.
HER: (10:34PM) Cops are here already
ME: (10:35PM) WHat did you do! Baddie ;P
HER: (10:36PM) Hah jk I guess it's all good now
ME: (11:12PM) Sorry chocolate chip, won't be back in time! >:( Let's postpone for tomorrow?
HER: (11:17PM) Oh boo :( Sounds good can i pregame with you tho?
ME: (11:26PM) Uhm fuck yeah, if you can throw a die ;)
HER: (11:27PM) You gotta teach me that game ha
ME: (11:39PM) Lmfao fine whatever, deal!
HER: (11:39PM) See you tomorrow ;)
You did well with how you handled her wanting to meet up.. she threw out bait to gauge how you responded.. you answered her with a challenge lol. Good stuff, she'll definitely have more .incentive to show up. I'm not saying you have to do this with every girl, tho it is consistently a good idea if you can make it happen without sounding forced.
Girls have a lot of "spinning plates", e.g. they've always got a plethora of guys on the backburner that they can hit up over text and see which has the best plans/party going on. You seem to her to be the most exciting. When she shows up tomorrow, make sure to not throw her easy validation, make her earn a place in your heart by sucking your dick. This is not abusing anyone, this is simply being a high value guy.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
8/24/2013
ME: (7:16PM) What kind of beer do you drink
HER: (7:17PM) Any kind
ME: (7:22PM) Cool, we get all kinds of beer... Except budlight
HER: (7:25PM) Man that's my fav! Ha jk.
ME: (7:30PM) Lmfao, i'd kick you out with your budlight so fast ;)
HER: (7:33PM) Haha k ill make sure to keep it at home!
HER: (7:57PM) When do you guys start playing?
ME: (8:07PM) In like 30-40 mins
HER: (8:58PM) Did you forget abut me? (WTF is this question??)
ME: (9:02PM) Kind of lol. You have the address or are you as lost as little red riding hood in the forest
HER: (10:07PM) Oh that's harsh hun. No I don't remember I'm new and all ha
So I called her about 5 mins after she sent that last message, she didn't pick up nor returned my call.
Needless to say she didn't show up, I said fuck it and did me.
I honestly cannot tell if somewhere here I fucked up, or she had me on one of her spinning plates the whole time
this is her issue
Ask her to marry you so she can say yes,
and not show up at the reception.
Send out a logistics heavy text next time.
Me: in like 30-40 mins. Wear something hawt so we match
Me: Apt 113, text me when you're headed this way
you didn't really screw up but you made it really easy for her to blow you off by not following up. You need a SOLID yes or no before its considered a real flake.
Yeah you were one of a couple options but that's ok it's normal. G-money had good advice, and next time I would ask her what her plans are already.. see what she says and tweak it from there. You can do that with all these girls you're talking to
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
She didn't have the address, that's why you didn't meet up. Derp!
Lol I did give her the address the 2nd time I tried to get her out.
She obviously didn't bother scrolling, like i've never had to put this much effort.
And the fact that I called her and she didn't return my call meant she had other plans. so FAWK IT!
Throw her in the back burner mass text pile. She'll eventually show up / you'll eventually run into her again.