I think girls don't mind aiming low when it comes to boyfriends, because..
It's a self-protection mechanism. They don't have to risk being hurt if this person breaks up with/rejects them.
But in this game of life, for men as well as women, you're either playing to win, or you're playing to lose. So many of us choose the latter
Absofuckinglutely. I dated a girl like this. Safety nets so to speak. This girl would fuck the cool dudes behind her boyfriends back while he just twiddled his thumbs. She had it down to a system bro. "we can only hang out once a month to avoid raising suspicion with my bf." Is what she told me. Honestly with this chick it was from more of a bargaining chip. Ie he wont cheat because im probably the best thing / close to it that he can get.
Interesting.
Actually I wrote about her. I took it down because my real address was on there. Its the girl you and bg said that me playing it really platonic and chill was rhe best course of action. Lotta shit actually went down with that one. She's a lot of drama. My sister tried to proactively get me to date her and didn't understand that a girl like this cannot be domesticated.
Edit: but ya i mean she cheated on him with her guy friends, who she would bring into their home. ( they live together lol ) Straight ruthless. She gave me a play by play on how she does it. I kinda gave you cliff notes of jt.