I was approached by a girl lmfao
Sat, 07/07/2012 - 16:24
Basically yesterday I was waiting at the train station. Suddenly this chick started smiling at me and walking towards me.I thought I knew her but I didn't. She was like
Her: wauww you have really nice glasses and you look very stylish
Me: And you have really nice eyes (actually she does awesome blue eyes...)
Her: Your eyes are very beautiful too
Me: Yeah I am an asshole but my mum told me I am pretty good looking
We both cracked up. Anyway we got on the train and it was packed (FUCKKK) but we still kept the convo. She works for an advertising company and she looks quite stylish as well. I told her "Well your dress is nice but the breast part is very closed. I don't like it lmfao" and she was like "Yeah I know. My work clothes". I was like 'I don't like it, it has to be more open lol". Anyway she even asked my plans for today which I interpret as 'Invite me to somewhere" but as my mum is coming to visit me today I gotta go to the airport (literally I need to leave in 15 min haha) so I was like "Well my mum is coming to visit me so I gotta go to the airport. Family time baby!! However I can invite you to a breakfast". Apparently she needs to go to a conference. Meanwhile I hugged her, she smells nice so I was like " well you are guilty. You smell nice so I don't take any responsibility for my hugs. its your fault" then I we hugged a couple more times during the train journey lol. She leaves one stop before me so after she said she needs to go to the conference I tried to arrange an instant date, invited her for a drink. I was pushy in a playful way but she didn't come. So I took her number. After she saved her number, she rang herself to save mine. İ was like you will be my texting gf and i will be texting you 342 times a day. She was like ahaha ok. And she is gone. Even when she got off she was turning her back and looking at me.
Soo I believe I played well (I never have difficulties to play the game face to face though). And also in any case she approached me so I still have the power. As I was quite pushy for the instant date I am not sure whether I should invite her for a drink or should I chill and wait till next weekend (my mum will be with me on the weekdays so there is nowhere to pull her on the weekdays). What do you think how should I lead?
Her: wauww you have really nice glasses and you look very stylish
Me: And you have really nice eyes (actually she does awesome blue eyes...)
Her: Your eyes are very beautiful too
Me: Yeah I am an asshole but my mum told me I am pretty good looking
We both cracked up. Anyway we got on the train and it was packed (FUCKKK) but we still kept the convo. She works for an advertising company and she looks quite stylish as well. I told her "Well your dress is nice but the breast part is very closed. I don't like it lmfao" and she was like "Yeah I know. My work clothes". I was like 'I don't like it, it has to be more open lol". Anyway she even asked my plans for today which I interpret as 'Invite me to somewhere" but as my mum is coming to visit me today I gotta go to the airport (literally I need to leave in 15 min haha) so I was like "Well my mum is coming to visit me so I gotta go to the airport. Family time baby!! However I can invite you to a breakfast". Apparently she needs to go to a conference. Meanwhile I hugged her, she smells nice so I was like " well you are guilty. You smell nice so I don't take any responsibility for my hugs. its your fault" then I we hugged a couple more times during the train journey lol. She leaves one stop before me so after she said she needs to go to the conference I tried to arrange an instant date, invited her for a drink. I was pushy in a playful way but she didn't come. So I took her number. After she saved her number, she rang herself to save mine. İ was like you will be my texting gf and i will be texting you 342 times a day. She was like ahaha ok. And she is gone. Even when she got off she was turning her back and looking at me.
Soo I believe I played well (I never have difficulties to play the game face to face though). And also in any case she approached me so I still have the power. As I was quite pushy for the instant date I am not sure whether I should invite her for a drink or should I chill and wait till next weekend (my mum will be with me on the weekdays so there is nowhere to pull her on the weekdays). What do you think how should I lead?
Sat, 07/07/2012 - 16:41
#1
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@hkmt:
I'm currently reading The Physical Game book by Ozzie and he claims a lot of time when girls flake with their numbers [don't ever reply to you] it is because
you didn't establish a strong enough connection which can be done when you get physical with the girl. It shows her that you are a potential breeding partner [you will fuck the shit out of her] and then she knows she won't be wasting her time.
Just a thought for you to try out if you haven't been getting physical, but I see with this one you have.
I'm currently reading The Physical Game book by Ozzie and he claims a lot of time when girls flake with their numbers [don't ever reply to you] it is because
you didn't establish a strong enough connection which can be done when you get physical with the girl. It shows her that you are a potential breeding partner [you will fuck the shit out of her] and then she knows she won't be wasting her time.
Just a thought for you to try out if you haven't been getting physical, but I see with this one you have.
Sat, 07/07/2012 - 17:58
#2
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@Sick-Cunt:
Dude i could have done a lot more making out, kissing the neck etc only if i wasnt standing on the fuckin packed train lol..
But i feel im on the right direction, have met 5 super hot girls in the last two weeks so i believe with a little bit of improvement on my texting and my interactions i can arrange day 2s easily. Once its done sex is imminent!!! İ never meet for the 3rd time. Prefer to go find other chicks...
Anyway what do you think sick-cunt should invite her for tmrrow? Or should i chill and wait for next week
Dude i could have done a lot more making out, kissing the neck etc only if i wasnt standing on the fuckin packed train lol..
But i feel im on the right direction, have met 5 super hot girls in the last two weeks so i believe with a little bit of improvement on my texting and my interactions i can arrange day 2s easily. Once its done sex is imminent!!! İ never meet for the 3rd time. Prefer to go find other chicks...
Anyway what do you think sick-cunt should invite her for tmrrow? Or should i chill and wait for next week
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 16:27
#3
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@hkmt:
Me: starting from today i will try my best to send 342 texts to my texting gf. You should appreciate my effort ;)
Just before she got off the train i made a joke about texting her 342 times a day. She seemed to like it so i wanted to start the interaction from there. İts been an hour, no response yet. We will see how it goes... Please analyse my text so that i can learn the weak points...
Me: starting from today i will try my best to send 342 texts to my texting gf. You should appreciate my effort ;)
Just before she got off the train i made a joke about texting her 342 times a day. She seemed to like it so i wanted to start the interaction from there. İts been an hour, no response yet. We will see how it goes... Please analyse my text so that i can learn the weak points...
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 19:32
#4
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
Sorry duplicated message..
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 19:32
#5
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
Her: 342? Random number...
İm planning to say;
Yeah thats what i said on the train. Dont be demanding and ask for more..
Orr
İt was random, i enjoy being spontaneous. Otherwise life is fuckin boring ;)
Thoughts??
İm planning to say;
Yeah thats what i said on the train. Dont be demanding and ask for more..
Orr
İt was random, i enjoy being spontaneous. Otherwise life is fuckin boring ;)
Thoughts??
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 19:39
#6
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@hkmt:
Fuck her shit. I'd ignore what she said and move to a new conversation. But something cool that you are really passionate about. You shouldn't have to think about it.
Fuck her shit. I'd ignore what she said and move to a new conversation. But something cool that you are really passionate about. You shouldn't have to think about it.
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 19:49
#7
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@hkmt:
Okay- so, for me, part of the reason that some of the reasons you sometimes sound so weird in your texts can be seen in BOTH of the examples you show above.
1. Dude, that's just like really aggressive. You MAY be able to get away with that in person if she's like a super 9 or 10 and is being a bitch... but that's not the case here, idk how hot she is, but she doesn't seem to be being a bitch... so relax. Just relaxxxxx... You don't have to put her on the spot like that. She would get that text and I can tell you right now she'd be thinking, "wtf.. uh okay.. dick"... and NOT dick in the "hahaha you're such a dick" or even the, "I wanna fuck you, but you're such a dick" way... but just the, "Ehh... you're a dick, man"
2. You're alwayssssss EXPLAINING yourself. Chill on that. One thing you're gona notice is that sometimes your jokes don't go down like you want them to, or you're stories don't get the laughter you were expecting... but that's why you gotta be self amusing, cause at the very least- YOU'LL be laughing, and like half the time other people will just start laughing cause you are.. like, "Durr... It HAS to be funny if he's laughing that hard". Also- sometimes shit gets awkward but it's never REALLY awkward if you just are like, "wtvr.. okay" lmao- sometimes the most awkward things are actually really funny in and of themselves.. so just roll with it. (This is more like just general advice) But yeah, so in all of these cases, it's really easy to start explaining yourself... don't do it. Just drop your line and be cool with it... if something, just like genuinley doesn't make sense, ask questions and if you have to, explain yourself... but don't explain yourself as a way of covering up a bad joke or something you feel uncomfortable about.
Okay- so, for me, part of the reason that some of the reasons you sometimes sound so weird in your texts can be seen in BOTH of the examples you show above.
1. Dude, that's just like really aggressive. You MAY be able to get away with that in person if she's like a super 9 or 10 and is being a bitch... but that's not the case here, idk how hot she is, but she doesn't seem to be being a bitch... so relax. Just relaxxxxx... You don't have to put her on the spot like that. She would get that text and I can tell you right now she'd be thinking, "wtf.. uh okay.. dick"... and NOT dick in the "hahaha you're such a dick" or even the, "I wanna fuck you, but you're such a dick" way... but just the, "Ehh... you're a dick, man"
2. You're alwayssssss EXPLAINING yourself. Chill on that. One thing you're gona notice is that sometimes your jokes don't go down like you want them to, or you're stories don't get the laughter you were expecting... but that's why you gotta be self amusing, cause at the very least- YOU'LL be laughing, and like half the time other people will just start laughing cause you are.. like, "Durr... It HAS to be funny if he's laughing that hard". Also- sometimes shit gets awkward but it's never REALLY awkward if you just are like, "wtvr.. okay" lmao- sometimes the most awkward things are actually really funny in and of themselves.. so just roll with it. (This is more like just general advice) But yeah, so in all of these cases, it's really easy to start explaining yourself... don't do it. Just drop your line and be cool with it... if something, just like genuinley doesn't make sense, ask questions and if you have to, explain yourself... but don't explain yourself as a way of covering up a bad joke or something you feel uncomfortable about.
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 19:52
#8
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@buddhagames:
Haha this!!!
I just realized that. He always is explaining himself in texts. Self amuse, don't try to amuse her, amuse yourself.
Haha this!!!
I just realized that. He always is explaining himself in texts. Self amuse, don't try to amuse her, amuse yourself.
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 20:28
#9
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@buddhagames:
She is interested in signs so maybe;
Apparently scorpion females are cute but not spontaneous??
Or if we are talking about pure expression and authenticity
Just had an awesome home cook food. With this performance i will be an obese guy till our next meeting :)
But if i write this probably you guys will find it awkward and random lol..
She is interested in signs so maybe;
Apparently scorpion females are cute but not spontaneous??
Or if we are talking about pure expression and authenticity
Just had an awesome home cook food. With this performance i will be an obese guy till our next meeting :)
But if i write this probably you guys will find it awkward and random lol..
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 20:27
#10
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@hkmt:
See I think this might be the root of your problems. You are trying to impress her by talking about what SHE likes. You aren't amusing YOURSELF and telling her about what YOU like.
See I think this might be the root of your problems. You are trying to impress her by talking about what SHE likes. You aren't amusing YOURSELF and telling her about what YOU like.
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 20:31
#11
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@hkmt:
UUhhh hold the phone...
That text about being obese was solid- totally on the right track.
UUhhh hold the phone...
That text about being obese was solid- totally on the right track.
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 20:34
#12
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@Sick-Cunt:
Ok but how can i talk about thinks that i like? For instance i love eating healthy food and just had an amazing dinner. Alternatively i love windsurfing. How can i inject these thoughts into this situation without being awkward? Can you give an example??
Ok but how can i talk about thinks that i like? For instance i love eating healthy food and just had an amazing dinner. Alternatively i love windsurfing. How can i inject these thoughts into this situation without being awkward? Can you give an example??
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 20:35
#13
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@hkmt:
You're food text was on the right track.. why do you find it so hard to talk about things you like?
You're food text was on the right track.. why do you find it so hard to talk about things you like?
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 21:02
#14
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@buddhagames:
hmm yh.
"Dunno, i like 342...Urgh just finished another awesome meal. At this rate i'll look like buddha next time you see me. You a fan of lovehandles?"
that could work i 'spose.
Gawd i feel your pain hmkt, i've fucked it up with 10 or more hotties just over text. FUAAAARK
hmm yh.
"Dunno, i like 342...Urgh just finished another awesome meal. At this rate i'll look like buddha next time you see me. You a fan of lovehandles?"
that could work i 'spose.
Gawd i feel your pain hmkt, i've fucked it up with 10 or more hotties just over text. FUAAAARK
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 21:20
#15
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@hkmt:
Yea the obese one was better but you are still explaining yourself a bit. If you are set on using that text you can do something like take out the "with this performance" part and stay with only "Just had an amazing homecooked meal! Will be obese in no time! You a fan of lovehandles pumpkinbutt?"
or anything like that. But you don't need stuff that are redundant or understood in it such as "with this performance" because that makes it sound weird. Is English your 1st language?
And eating healthy as a passion would have to be depending on stuff. Like if eating was a passion and you go to lots of cool places to try out different foods that can easily be put into passionate stuff. Like telling her how cool it was and what you liked about it. But expressing yourself, not trying to gain her approval or anything.
But for me I don't like approaches like the ones above. I don't like being serious or logical with girls. I just fuck around and have fun. So I will almost never send girls texts like the ones above. I honestly would send that girl something like "lets get married", just to have fun and see what happens.
Yea the obese one was better but you are still explaining yourself a bit. If you are set on using that text you can do something like take out the "with this performance" part and stay with only "Just had an amazing homecooked meal! Will be obese in no time! You a fan of lovehandles pumpkinbutt?"
or anything like that. But you don't need stuff that are redundant or understood in it such as "with this performance" because that makes it sound weird. Is English your 1st language?
And eating healthy as a passion would have to be depending on stuff. Like if eating was a passion and you go to lots of cool places to try out different foods that can easily be put into passionate stuff. Like telling her how cool it was and what you liked about it. But expressing yourself, not trying to gain her approval or anything.
But for me I don't like approaches like the ones above. I don't like being serious or logical with girls. I just fuck around and have fun. So I will almost never send girls texts like the ones above. I honestly would send that girl something like "lets get married", just to have fun and see what happens.
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 21:46
#16
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@buddhagames:
Obese text sent. Lets see how it goes...
Obese text sent. Lets see how it goes...
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 22:28
#17
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
My phone gets crazy. Again A duplicated message
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 22:24
#18
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@Sick-Cunt:
Nope english is not my first language... İ tried to text girls random stuff that i like but this makes girls like wtf?? İn fact once a girl replied me " why do you always text weird things??". So i think there is a thin difference between being self-amused and being weird. How do you manage to convey the correct vibe? You could crack up while texting but once she reads it she could be like " huh?? Wtf??".
For example there is an american adult humour magazine called mad. İ can only find it in selective newsagents in England. İ just bought it and this actually makes me happy so if i text something like;
Just managed to find my favourite adult humour magazine. Feel like a little kid in the candy shop. Ohh do u like humorous magazines by the way??
We havent talked anything about magazines but i really like it. So if i text it dont you think she would be like wtf?? Cuz its quite random...
Nope english is not my first language... İ tried to text girls random stuff that i like but this makes girls like wtf?? İn fact once a girl replied me " why do you always text weird things??". So i think there is a thin difference between being self-amused and being weird. How do you manage to convey the correct vibe? You could crack up while texting but once she reads it she could be like " huh?? Wtf??".
For example there is an american adult humour magazine called mad. İ can only find it in selective newsagents in England. İ just bought it and this actually makes me happy so if i text something like;
Just managed to find my favourite adult humour magazine. Feel like a little kid in the candy shop. Ohh do u like humorous magazines by the way??
We havent talked anything about magazines but i really like it. So if i text it dont you think she would be like wtf?? Cuz its quite random...
Sun, 07/08/2012 - 23:22
#19
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@hkmt:
I don't really like asking questions much because you can fall into girls being unreactive and answering 'yes / no' and interview mode. I think I am able to do stuff like that because it is congruent to my initial vibe with the girl. I do and say pretty random self amusing shit all the time. And being called 'weird' or anything don't really matter, I've fucked girls that called me weird. Just the other day I was chatting up a girl on facebook and she is like 'wtff ur so weird, bla bla bla' then at the end of the message sent me her number [I didn't even ask for it]. Such is life.
But yea your idea above could work. You gotta lower the bar, talk about anything you like. Here are a few examples from Buddha's threads on his first message to a girl [after the initial get home safe, etc. stuff]. Look at the vibe of it compared to yours
These are from Buddha's threads:
Me - 9 hrs 47 mins later: Hey beb, just finished up my green smoothhie WITHOUT algea... I feel like your a fish in disguise!
Her - 35 mins later: Haha Niiice!! Get the spirulina- life changing!!! Its really good as in yummy in addition to the ridiculous nutrition!!! How was xxxclub?
Me: So you DO realize that between us, we are like completely incapable of owning pets
Her - 3 hrs 35 mins later: Haha it would appear as such
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And here are some recent ones I have:
Me: yo nice tits
Her: hahahahaha lol
Her: thanks
--- another:
Me: yo girl u like wildlife?
Her: LoL...
Her: what?
Her: I have a name!
-- another: [classic manwhore text]
Me: Lets rob a bank
Her: lets go o.o
-- Last example:
Me: Girlsss nameeeeeeee [spelt wrong and with shit load of extra letters for lols]
Her: yesss?? :p
Her: oh and its GIRL'SNAME , no extra h :)
See how different it is from your style of texting
I don't really like asking questions much because you can fall into girls being unreactive and answering 'yes / no' and interview mode. I think I am able to do stuff like that because it is congruent to my initial vibe with the girl. I do and say pretty random self amusing shit all the time. And being called 'weird' or anything don't really matter, I've fucked girls that called me weird. Just the other day I was chatting up a girl on facebook and she is like 'wtff ur so weird, bla bla bla' then at the end of the message sent me her number [I didn't even ask for it]. Such is life.
But yea your idea above could work. You gotta lower the bar, talk about anything you like. Here are a few examples from Buddha's threads on his first message to a girl [after the initial get home safe, etc. stuff]. Look at the vibe of it compared to yours
These are from Buddha's threads:
Me - 9 hrs 47 mins later: Hey beb, just finished up my green smoothhie WITHOUT algea... I feel like your a fish in disguise!
Her - 35 mins later: Haha Niiice!! Get the spirulina- life changing!!! Its really good as in yummy in addition to the ridiculous nutrition!!! How was xxxclub?
Me: So you DO realize that between us, we are like completely incapable of owning pets
Her - 3 hrs 35 mins later: Haha it would appear as such
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And here are some recent ones I have:
Me: yo nice tits
Her: hahahahaha lol
Her: thanks
--- another:
Me: yo girl u like wildlife?
Her: LoL...
Her: what?
Her: I have a name!
-- another: [classic manwhore text]
Me: Lets rob a bank
Her: lets go o.o
-- Last example:
Me: Girlsss nameeeeeeee [spelt wrong and with shit load of extra letters for lols]
Her: yesss?? :p
Her: oh and its GIRL'SNAME , no extra h :)
See how different it is from your style of texting
Mon, 07/09/2012 - 09:43
#20
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@Sick-Cunt:
Me: just had an awesome home cooked food. With this performance i will be obese till our next meeting
Her: hope you enjoyed the food? İve heard biggest loser runs a good programme for obesity ;) -- (biggest loser is a tv programme in England. Basically obese people join it and the one who looses the most fat is the winner)
İ am planning to say;
Yes babe i will join this programme, become famous and we can get married afterwards..
Thoughts??
Me: just had an awesome home cooked food. With this performance i will be obese till our next meeting
Her: hope you enjoyed the food? İve heard biggest loser runs a good programme for obesity ;) -- (biggest loser is a tv programme in England. Basically obese people join it and the one who looses the most fat is the winner)
İ am planning to say;
Yes babe i will join this programme, become famous and we can get married afterwards..
Thoughts??
Mon, 07/09/2012 - 18:07
#21
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@hkmt:
Strap on the big boy pants. With the information given send what you think will work instead of waiting for approval.
"You gotta lose girls to get girls" - Ozzie
Strap on the big boy pants. With the information given send what you think will work instead of waiting for approval.
"You gotta lose girls to get girls" - Ozzie
Mon, 07/09/2012 - 18:48
#22
Re: I was approached by a girl lmfao
@Sick-Cunt:
İ have already sent it. No response so far. We will see how it goes
İ have already sent it. No response so far. We will see how it goes