I'm gaming groups of girls better than one on one?
Fri, 05/10/2013 - 22:01
I don't know if this really is a problem or not, I just noticed that my game is far better when its me vs. multiple girls. I just feel so powerful and dominant in these situations, I know it's kinda weird, but it really takes all the pressure off me. There is just something really sexy about looking back and forth between two sets of beautiful nervous eyes.
Sat, 05/11/2013 - 00:12
#1
Counter-strike. Groups have
Counter-strike. Groups have more energy and give you more to comment on and work with. Also they'll feel more at ease and more powerful, so they'll be more likely to give you shit that you can comeback at. Its the comebacks that amp them up. A girl alone might be intimidated or merely quiet and may give you nothing to work with, nothing to respond to.
Sat, 05/11/2013 - 04:41
#2
Archangel
Archangel wrote:
Counter-strike. Groups have more energy and give you more to comment on and work with. Also they'll feel more at ease and more powerful, so they'll be more likely to give you shit that you can comeback at. Its the comebacks that amp them up. A girl alone might be intimidated or merely quiet and may give you nothing to work with, nothing to respond to.
Totally dude, In groups the shit I say is absolutely golden! It is awesome, I have definitely nailed social circle game at this point. At the same time though it really is hindering me where it counts, I find myself constantly engaging other people into my one on ones for the energy boost as you described. Of course this will not get me laid though, only build attraction. How can I bring the energy of a group dynamic to a 1 v. 1?
Sat, 05/11/2013 - 05:17
#3
If you think that bringing
If you think that bringing the energy is the way to go , then its up to you to amp her up by being fun and leading her to follow in the fun with you. After learning how to amuse myself, then it became easy for me to amuse them too. They feel what you feel. Good emotions are contagious and if you are feeling good emotions you can easily project them onto her -- through the tone and sound of your voice, your words, and your body language.
Once I *got it* I kind of sat back amazed watching girls reactions to me (it happens with guys too if you are really flowing in the zone). Its like I start off down one train of thought or "thread" and keep it going and the collective emotional level goes up and up until you and the person you are talking to are high.
Also, it obvi depends on the situation. If you are feeling chill and calm and you can relate this to her on the right level, then you don't need the high energy. She will feel you if you are chill and calm and expressing it through the tone, loudness and quality of your voice as well as your facial expressions, body language, and word choice. In the case of leading her to feel calm and chill with you, you're basically hypnotising her. Yet, its no different than amping her up or pumping up her "state," its simply leading her through projecting calm and chill onto her.
Once I *got it* I kind of sat back amazed watching girls reactions to me (it happens with guys too if you are really flowing in the zone). Its like I start off down one train of thought or "thread" and keep it going and the collective emotional level goes up and up until you and the person you are talking to are high.
Also, it obvi depends on the situation. If you are feeling chill and calm and you can relate this to her on the right level, then you don't need the high energy. She will feel you if you are chill and calm and expressing it through the tone, loudness and quality of your voice as well as your facial expressions, body language, and word choice. In the case of leading her to feel calm and chill with you, you're basically hypnotising her. Yet, its no different than amping her up or pumping up her "state," its simply leading her through projecting calm and chill onto her.
Sat, 05/11/2013 - 13:32
#4
So basically you feel more
So basically you feel more comfortable letting your natural charisma come out in a group atmosphere because there's not as much "intimacy' which riles you up a bit so you go into your head a bit and stifle yourself. This is pretty normal for your typical young guy who's got some social skills. What you want to start figuring out is "mid game", basically how you handle a girl after the "open and hook" / "warm approach". Once you get this down you'll feel a lot more comfortable talking to girls one on one.
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Sat, 05/11/2013 - 14:47
#5
Archangel wrote:If you think
Archangel wrote:
If you think that bringing the energy is the way to go , then its up to you to amp her up by being fun and leading her to follow in the fun with you. After learning how to amuse myself, then it became easy for me to amuse them too. They feel what you feel. Good emotions are contagious and if you are feeling good emotions you can easily project them onto her -- through the tone and sound of your voice, your words, and your body language.
Once I *got it* I kind of sat back amazed watching girls reactions to me (it happens with guys too if you are really flowing in the zone). Its like I start off down one train of thought or "thread" and keep it going and the collective emotional level goes up and up until you and the person you are talking to are high.
Also, it obvi depends on the situation. If you are feeling chill and calm and you can relate this to her on the right level, then you don't need the high energy. She will feel you if you are chill and calm and expressing it through the tone, loudness and quality of your voice as well as your facial expressions, body language, and word choice. In the case of leading her to feel calm and chill with you, you're basically hypnotising her. Yet, its no different than amping her up or pumping up her "state," its simply leading her through projecting calm and chill onto her.
Thanks a ton man! I will work on the self amusement for sure, because that's defintely what's lacking a bit.
Sat, 05/11/2013 - 14:58
#6
Manwhore wrote:So basically
Manwhore wrote:
So basically you feel more comfortable letting your natural charisma come out in a group atmosphere because there's not as much "intimacy' which riles you up a bit so you go into your head a bit and stifle yourself. This is pretty normal for your typical young guy who's got some social skills. What you want to start figuring out is "mid game", basically how you handle a girl after the "open and hook" / "warm approach". Once you get this down you'll feel a lot more comfortable talking to girls one on one.
Yes! Fucking nailed it Manwhore. What you said right there is my game in a nutshell. It's the intimacy that really fucks with me. I've always been excellent at early game, I almost always build attraction when I first meet a chick. When the relationship gains more depth, thats when I start to breakdown.
I guess it is normal, it's very common in highschool. I just feel like it is what seperates me from growing from a boy to a man. Anyone can "Game" a chick, I wanna be a closer! :)
I'll start looking into "mid game" on RSD
Wed, 05/15/2013 - 03:39
#7
You will not find SHIT on
You will not find SHIT on midgame in RSD lol. But actually I'm curious as to what some of the other guys think of midgame as far as being taught by RSD? I mean greated I am RSD so it's a big of a weird area, but yes I don't believe it's something that's generally covered well enough on RSD at all. My long-term coaching program however...
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Wed, 05/15/2013 - 20:37
#8
Manwhore wrote:You will not
Manwhore wrote:
You will not find SHIT on midgame in RSD lol. But actually I'm curious as to what some of the other guys think of midgame as far as being taught by RSD? I mean greated I am RSD so it's a big of a weird area, but yes I don't believe it's something that's generally covered well enough on RSD at all. My long-term coaching program however...
Yeah, haven't really found shit. Midgame seems to be far more personalized, not really something that you conceptually talk about in a video. MW you better be here in a few years, I just don't see coaching fitting into my HS life. I gotta experience and fuck up A LOT more before I can go beast mode.
Thu, 05/16/2013 - 04:48
#9
Just so you know, not
Just so you know, not everyone learns through fucking up. Some people actually learn things correctly the first time and so typically make fewer mistakes or make higher level mistakes. I'm grateful for my past and the experiences I've had because its made me who I am today. That being said, I wish that I had found Manwhore as a coach when I was in highschool or even college.
For some reason people will separate out dating and sex as something different from other things in life that you expect to receive teaching/coaching/instructing in. You go to school ostensibly to learn and are taught by "teachers", if you're in sports you have a sports-specific coach, if you want to learn how to play the piano you or your parents probably pay for piano lessons. Its normal everywhere else in life to exchange the value of your money for the value of someone else's expertise and time. Ideally it creates a win-win so that they get to do what they love and excel at for a living and you get to save yourself from years of frustration and failure.
The point of his customized long-term program is that he quickly identifies the areas in which you need the most help--be it with girls, with a social life, with school, with finding a job/starting a business-and then he tailors the coaching program to your needs and goals.
I don't know what "beast mode" has to do with anything, but your beliefs about coaching fitting into your "HS life" or not are simply beliefs--they have no basis in fact or reality, exist solely in your head, and are no more true than any other set of beliefs. You should at least submit the form for a consult.
For some reason people will separate out dating and sex as something different from other things in life that you expect to receive teaching/coaching/instructing in. You go to school ostensibly to learn and are taught by "teachers", if you're in sports you have a sports-specific coach, if you want to learn how to play the piano you or your parents probably pay for piano lessons. Its normal everywhere else in life to exchange the value of your money for the value of someone else's expertise and time. Ideally it creates a win-win so that they get to do what they love and excel at for a living and you get to save yourself from years of frustration and failure.
The point of his customized long-term program is that he quickly identifies the areas in which you need the most help--be it with girls, with a social life, with school, with finding a job/starting a business-and then he tailors the coaching program to your needs and goals.
I don't know what "beast mode" has to do with anything, but your beliefs about coaching fitting into your "HS life" or not are simply beliefs--they have no basis in fact or reality, exist solely in your head, and are no more true than any other set of beliefs. You should at least submit the form for a consult.
Meow wrote:
Manwhore wrote:You will not find SHIT on midgame in RSD lol. But actually I'm curious as to what some of the other guys think of midgame as far as being taught by RSD? I mean greated I am RSD so it's a big of a weird area, but yes I don't believe it's something that's generally covered well enough on RSD at all. My long-term coaching program however...
Yeah, haven't really found shit. Midgame seems to be far more personalized, not really something that you conceptually talk about in a video. MW you better be here in a few years, I just don't see coaching fitting into my HS life. I gotta experience and fuck up A LOT more before I can go beast mode.
Thu, 05/16/2013 - 20:04
#10
Thank you, you are completely
Thank you, you are completely right. The whole "it doesn't fit into my HS life" argument is simply an ego based thought, keeping me from the success that I could have.
I do have some serious logistical reasons why I can't do it RIGHT NOW. I'm 17 and I don't have a full license until October, this seriously effects me with the chicks, because I can't legally drive anyone except my immediate family. No chicks seem to have their licenses either, because the whole process is so much longer and expensive these days. Also, from August to November I have soccer every week night until at least 6:00, which leaves me just enough time for homework, I would never have time to report back to MW.
I don't see any reason why coaching wouldn't work next winter though, I'm grateful to have this forum right now becuase I'm learning so much information that has helped me in all aspects of my life :)
I do have some serious logistical reasons why I can't do it RIGHT NOW. I'm 17 and I don't have a full license until October, this seriously effects me with the chicks, because I can't legally drive anyone except my immediate family. No chicks seem to have their licenses either, because the whole process is so much longer and expensive these days. Also, from August to November I have soccer every week night until at least 6:00, which leaves me just enough time for homework, I would never have time to report back to MW.
I don't see any reason why coaching wouldn't work next winter though, I'm grateful to have this forum right now becuase I'm learning so much information that has helped me in all aspects of my life :)