I'm getting needy
Wed, 10/31/2012 - 01:58
Fuck man. I know this has happened to a lot of you guys as well. You meet a fucking stunner, and she's fucking into you. Then you can't stop thinking about her.
I know this is bad, every time I catch myself thinking about her, I hit up another chick on my phone, or I tell myself "Cut that shit out you needy fuck."
We haven't even hung out yet, we see each other at parties and stuff. I made out with her on Saturday, and her friends seem to smile and nod in approval for everything I do. (My physical dominance towards their friend, my verbal game, etc.)
Sent her "Hey girl, you know the secret to my heart?? It starts with a pb&j sandwich :p"
No reply
I'm not worried about the no reply, I'm worried about my neediness. I met one girl and BAM, my mind can't get off her. This has happened in the past as well when things are going well with a stunner, however I was 100x more needy back then. Is this something that is curable by meeting MORE stunners? Or is it an inner game issue that needs to be resolved.
I know this is bad, every time I catch myself thinking about her, I hit up another chick on my phone, or I tell myself "Cut that shit out you needy fuck."
We haven't even hung out yet, we see each other at parties and stuff. I made out with her on Saturday, and her friends seem to smile and nod in approval for everything I do. (My physical dominance towards their friend, my verbal game, etc.)
Sent her "Hey girl, you know the secret to my heart?? It starts with a pb&j sandwich :p"
No reply
I'm not worried about the no reply, I'm worried about my neediness. I met one girl and BAM, my mind can't get off her. This has happened in the past as well when things are going well with a stunner, however I was 100x more needy back then. Is this something that is curable by meeting MORE stunners? Or is it an inner game issue that needs to be resolved.
Sun, 12/08/2013 - 04:44
#1
Re: I'm getting needy
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Wed, 10/31/2012 - 04:07
#2
Re: I'm getting needy
@Steve:
I watch Tyler's "how to crawl out of neediness when first seeing a girl" or something like that everytime I start to feel needy once I start fucking a new girl or get a new cherish. It's awesome, the insights in it are amazing and help me get out of lower consciousness. He just breaks it down so well and gives a big fuck you to the Disney story that ingrained in all of us.
But your not even fucking the girl.. Which means if your feeling like that now you never will. Haha. Did that hurt? Good. your being too needy about it because it shouldn't have hit you on an emotional level - it was a joke. It's funny how neediness just throws you in lower consciousness and changes how you see things.
Watch that video anyways cause it'll help. Show you why your being a faggot and how to stop it.
Aside from that meditate a bunch and keep going out. You have to kill your outcome dependence.
I watch Tyler's "how to crawl out of neediness when first seeing a girl" or something like that everytime I start to feel needy once I start fucking a new girl or get a new cherish. It's awesome, the insights in it are amazing and help me get out of lower consciousness. He just breaks it down so well and gives a big fuck you to the Disney story that ingrained in all of us.
But your not even fucking the girl.. Which means if your feeling like that now you never will. Haha. Did that hurt? Good. your being too needy about it because it shouldn't have hit you on an emotional level - it was a joke. It's funny how neediness just throws you in lower consciousness and changes how you see things.
Watch that video anyways cause it'll help. Show you why your being a faggot and how to stop it.
Aside from that meditate a bunch and keep going out. You have to kill your outcome dependence.
Wed, 10/31/2012 - 07:10
#3
Re: I'm getting needy
@xCoM:
You've got to get off the validation kick of her friends "approving" of whatever it is you happen to be doing with her. I mean.. that is some dangerous territory. As soon as they see that you're acknowledging their acknowledgement.. POOF!
You've got to get off the validation kick of her friends "approving" of whatever it is you happen to be doing with her. I mean.. that is some dangerous territory. As soon as they see that you're acknowledging their acknowledgement.. POOF!
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