I'm not looking for anyone - text message

Posted this from my phone and it hasn't worked. Sorry, will update when home

EDIT: Has now been updated with full text convo

She's just saying that so you don't think she's a whore who bangs a ton of guys. This is a good sign. You could easily nail her next time you guys meet up. I would invite her to my place

Either that, or he lost the male-to-female dynamic and she doesn't consider him as fuckable anymore. But yeah, that meet up would be a great way to flush that out.

I see what you did there. No Patty I think you should invite her to my place instead! 

I'd just go for a standard cocky/funny response to this. "Oh thank gawd cuz I really don't need any more female fans right now lol. Female friends are always cool, especially if they like beer and/or losing at assorted activities such as beer pong, pool, and driving. :p"

That's fun and playful, and seeds a lot of good shit, as well as a competitive "man to woman" vibe. I'd still like to see how Bateh would frame this going forward. 

Hopefully you know where she lives. From the information provided I would text her saying, "thats cool. When are we hanging out." Just completely blow past it. Honestly no need to get uber creative yet. From the information that was given this couldn't be anymore straight forward. She's already been compliant to get coffee with you for half an hour. That means she's also compliant to suck your dick in a parking lot:)

Yes that's completely true, though it's not necessarily always that straightforward. Bateh in your experience is that how it goes? There are plenty of times I'm still playing games with the ladies even post-bangtimes. 

Yeah, your text game is the best on the planet. Honestly, I would need more information about the girl, how the date went, physical escalation etc. According to Patty it seems as though everything went smooth as hell. That being said, the hard work is done. Now its just coordinating the next meeting.

In my experience, there are definitely times where creativity needs to snap her attention on to you, whether it be being a fun guy, being commanding, creating sexual tension, and so on. Also post bang times there are times when she needs to know that your still a worthy fuck friend or you just need to keep her interest. To answer your question yes I am a minimalist. I feel I do most of my good work in person so texting is just kept at a minimum and Ive been burned by just talking too much lol.

I just reread that text and actually I'd streamline it a bit more. Butt fuck it.. it'd still work most of the time. 

Oh good I really don't need any more female fans right now ;). friends are always cool as long they like beer and/or losing at pool!

In hindsight, I probably lost the man-woman dynamic a bit over the course of the insta-date. Which would have helped fuel her text.

But anyway, I ended up sending the first text you wrote Jon. I'll go for the meet-up and see if I can turn this back around.

Thanks Homies!