Inviting yourself up to her place
So I've been pulling girls home quite a bit, but a new dilemma is immerigng. Let's say I'm meeting a girl for a drink that happens to be right by her place. And let's also say that my place is 15 minutes away (drive). Would it be best just to do the usual routine, bring her in your car and drive back to your place to seal the deal there. Or, assuming she lives be herself, how would I go about inviting myself up?
At the end of the night, should I just say, "alright, let's go, take me to your place" and if she plays hard to get.."I told my mom I'd be good, can't put out anyway....."
You want to make plans that involve her house. Like raiding her silverware drawer for "creeper" forks. Or maybe she's got some good liquor. Or you really need to check her place out for spiders. Or you're hungry and she's going to make you a sandwich. I'm sure this is starting to sound familiar..
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I haven't closed a girl in her own place in a long time. When I was in college though, that's pretty much ALL I did. This was before I got into game but if I remember right, I would usually say something like the title of your post... Just invite myself in.
"Why don't I check out your apartment." (as if it was her asking you to lol)
or
"I have some booze/weed/pizza/dick, lets bring it to your place"
BTW oldschool video games are fuckin SICK for getting into a chick's place. Like N64 with mario cart.
I think the trick was to make it about any reason, but never leave it open to interpretation. Otherwise she's gonna fill in the blank and say no.