Iranian Girl
This was a month and a half ago, and this prob fizzled out, but figured I could learn from. Got this girl’s number from a 2 set in the mall. Convo was pretty good.
Me: Hey [her name], Nice meeting the sweetheart of Iran(meeting of her name). Hope you didn’t spend too much.
-WS
Her: Hey Angud, nice meeting you too! How was the resting of your shopping?
Me: No discounts, terrible shopping environment for an Indian.
Me: But I made my grandma proud and bargained my way to certain things
Me: What’d you get up to today?
Her: This semester if killing me, super intense and busy. Classes, presentation and submissions everyday! L
Her: Are you still studying?
Me: Was semi reading but stopped, I’m too leisurely to work all day
Me: What’s your sched this wk/wknd? You’ll need some time to relax and grab a drink.
No response
Next day
Me: Class was amazing to day +[pic of some dog sleeping in a class]
Her: Oh! You had sent me msgs? They were marked as read. Sorry! Wow! Who’s dog is that?
Me: Those Iranian phones…
Me: It’s random internet photo, just how I felt during class. Whatcha up to this wknd?
Her:Sry WS, but I have a really crazy semester, and honestly I can not even plan even on the day, my professor sends emails and ask me to do a lot of work for her. Like today that she completely ruined my day L
Her: I’m gonna kill her [mad face emoji]
Me: Sounds like you work for the devil
Me: Just send her my picture and she’ll give you a free day pass
Her: I wish it could work L oh btw she’s Indian J
Me: I’ll just get a drink w her, she’ll loosen up
Me: Careful, if she’s rich and can cook…arranged marriage time
Her: Haha!
Next day
Me: Ran into your prof last night…
Me: She makes an amazing breakfast J
Her: Haha! Crazy
Me: I told her to give you more work
Me: We needed more free time, for stress reduction
No response
A couple re-enage txts with no response
I really don’t know what I could have done better here. She may have actually been too busy. However, perhaps when getting this initial resistance, and then getting her interest back again, I should push a different, more direct style towards a meetup than before, instead of continuing with my bullshit.
Why did this text convo start out so formal? Where's the sexual threat here. This failed before the texting started
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
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I don't how it's exactly formal. However, I guess by formal you mean not engaging, challenging or creating a spike at all. Yeah, that first text was shit, I sometimes can't think of anything super creative at first and we ended up talking about Iranian and Indian culture and names a lot, so that's what went to my head for the first text. The interaction seemed pretty good, but I might have pigeoned holed myself for taking her and her friend's number to "meetup" on a night out in the city. I didn't really state my true intentions in the close, for some weird reason, maybe I thought in front of her, she might feel some Middle-Eastern shaming pressure.
Also, maybe in my interactions I need to subtlely bring up more provocative topics and be more challenging, instead of just fluff bullshitting with people.
Yeah what the fuck man. That is not how you get laid. If you want to run game like that then you invite them out for a group social activity, but even then you'll still have to actually game her to get laid.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male