IT's Ten O'clock! Lets text some girls
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Hey everyone.. first time posting here. I've been on this site a lot lot but wanted to get more involved.
I've got a lot of rust to shed since I was in a weird semi-depressed haze for a bit but I've been making some changes these past few months and want to start here and get this part of my life handled :)
I'll crack into my first practice text.
Context: met this girl at a club in Vegas this past weekend. I'm asian she's white and some guy thought I was her brother so I made up some story about how we're cousins/adopted. She's visiting my area this week for a few days with a group of friends.
I know the goal is to meet up with her and isolate her but I'm kinda stuck now...any and all comments and suggestions are appreciated.
Thursday 8/9:
Her: Lol too funny
Me: We have the same teeth but I had braces in middle school. Sad times yo
Her: Lmao maybe that's why they thought you were my brother
Me: Hahah you gotta work on your tan hit that famous miami beach girl
Her: Lol I'm a white girl this is tan for me
Me: Hahah I'm jealous. Where are you guys staying btw?
Her: Excalibur
Me: Oh I stayed there last time. I won't tell mom and dad if you watch thunder down under lol
Her: We're actually going Sunday. Pleeeeease don't tell them lol
Saturday 8/11:
Me:Damn...just saw 1 guy smash a beer bottle on another guys head. Now my shirt smells like ass
Her: Oh that sucks. I won't tell mom and dad you're getting in bar fights lol
Me: Haha I can't help it! I was the troublemaker... So which club you going to tonight?
Monday 8/12:
Me: You don't call you don't text should we call the search party mom and dad are worried sick 10:04pm
Her: Lmao! I just got back to LA. How was the rest of your weekend 10:05pm
Me: Oh good you're alive. 10:13pm
Me: It was fun I had the best 2 min of my life :) 10:14pm
Her: Yea lol!! 10:18pm
Her: Good. We had so much fun 10:19pm
Me:You need to continue the streak and hit the bars in Westwood tonight 10:31pm
Her:we're travelling to San Diego tonight 10:35pm
Me:Cool what are your plans like? 10:43
Me: Taco Tuesdays are the shizz 10:44
Her: Yea we're going out for taco Tuesday tomorrow with some friends. We have a few people we have to visit. Then well be back in la on Thursday for a going away party and we leave Friday. 10:46pm
Not sure what to say next...I was thinking: "you gotta go to the beaches and see the nude hipsters."
If she's gonna be available to you, plan out all your logistics from the end to the start. I've learned this from the school of hard knocks. Where are you and her going to finally end up? Prepare that first! She's with friends traveling, so this will need to be thought out carefully. Then backwards plan from there and worry about getting her to meet up.
so just stop gaming her and text her:
You: I need a bodyguard to keep me out of bar fights. lets meet up while ur here
Btw... LOSE THE BROTHER/SISTER FRAME!
You have done good so far she's into it. Mention Black's Beach 'the nude beach in san diego'...You're doing really good with this so you can and should make this your own but if you want I would say:
You should check out Black's Beach...You know what goes on there?
That text~ bodyguard~is really great for the meet up text!! Althought I wouldn't rush the meet up text until shes in town.
Thanks for the tips guys...wish i saw them earlier. i might have gone lame with the last few messages...
Now I'm confused cuz she's staying with family but here with friends.
I'm not sure how to meet up with this girl..should I just send the bodyguard text and see of she's down?
me: you gotta see the nude hipsters, where in SD you staying at
her: in poway
me: that's like old fart town lol
her: lol it's with family lol
me: you're one of those rich white girls aren't you
her: no actually lol
If you need a spontaneous getaway from family time I'm going to x at y. You can tag along
That's why I said IF she's going to be available. Listen to what Fembot said. Don't waste your ammo when it's not even physically possible for her to meet up lol!
That bodyguard text was great. I'm trying to stay away from the family stuff G-money. Seems like she's interested. I'm like 15 minutes from where she's staying.
me: Good I need a bodyguard to keep me out of bar fights. Let's meet up while you're here 3:45pm
her: Lol good thing I'm secretly a ninja. Where are you located? 3:47pm
Ok how do I make this happen?
me:I'm at x which is 15 min from poway. There's a beach and bar closeby that I'm going o you can tag along
her: think we might be going out later with p's cousin if you want to meet up later
BAYAMMM! Nice dude. Go Frosty Go!
Get her to come to your place, pregame, start some escalation, see what happens from there. Do what I told you and plan your logistics out carefully. Her destination is YOUR PLACE. She can take detours or shortcuts. All that matters is she's in a house with a bed in it lol
You: Come by my place to pre-game because X.
Put something interesting and personal in for the last part.... "BECAUSE you have to meet my chihuahua named bubbles. "
That's a great idea the only thing is I live with my family... It's possible but it'd just be weird with everyone asking them questions. I can pull to my house later on in the night. Any other suggestions?
Just say: cool. I'll be in the area. Let me know when you get there and we can party
She already wants to meet up. Don't make her extend yourself and come to you.
Every interaction is not always gonna be about having control. Once myself or the girl extends an invitation, it's on. Don't play mind games.
Wellp. You know the situation better than I do... One way or the other meet up with her. Do what you can with what you have.
I'm just saying that it takes a ton of pressure off you when you have the end planned out already. It's like a big neon goal sign that you can lead her to!
I see what you're both saying if I had my own place I would totally tell her to come pregame and see my twin dogs because that just seems so much easier but I'll look at this as a challenge and go meet her and her friends somewhere and isolate her later on in the night.
Personally, I think this girl is on vacation and just wants it to happen I could say come pregame and it would happen.