julie
Met this girl during day game. Walked with her for a bit. And when getting her number she prefaced she had a bf, she seems pretty interested though.
Me: Ny name
Her: I now know your secret...
Me: Haha, you don't even know the half of it. My past is very dark...
Me: Stole lots of candy from little girls
Me: ...ok, too creepy
Her: Yes slightly but I'm banking on the fact that it's not true...
Me: It was just one twix bar... I was starving
Me: Are you from la also?
Her: Nope. Palo Alto, remember?
Me: Oh yeah...I have terrible short term memory. Heading home for the holidays?
No response
Next day
Me: I am luring girls to my house with candy, which do you prefer skittles or M&Ms?
Her: Neither :l
Me: Do you not eat candy? Is this a palo alto thing? Then. choose "other"
Me: Actually, could use skittles right now, falling asleep while studying
Her:Haha no I'd just rather go of my own accord not be lured. And it depends on my mood but usually M&Ms
Her: What are you studying now?
Something is going on right now, or changed and I can't put my finger on it. Suggestions on moving forward? I think I should just set up the date now.
Her: I now know your secret...
Me: Haha, you don't even know the half of it. My past is very dark...
Me: Stole lots of candy from little girls
Me: ...ok, too creepy
Wtf.
MW, was the part where I talked about stealing candy from girls weird, or the part where I said,"...ok, too creepy" not good. I am starting to see I do have this bad habit of backing off when I make a strong joke/statement.
Here's the entire of the convo., I might have done the same thing again, with backing off in one of texts.
Me: Ny name
Her: I now know your secret...
Me: Haha, you don't even know the half of it. My past is very dark...
Me: Stole lots of candy from little girls
Me: ...ok, too creepy
Her: Yes slightly but I'm banking on the fact that it's not true...
Me: It was just one twix bar... I was starving
Me: Are you from la also?
Her: Nope. Palo Alto, remember?
Me: Oh yeah...I have terrible short term memory. Heading home for the holidays?
No response
Next day
Me: I am luring girls to my house with candy, which do you prefer skittles or M&Ms?
Her: Neither :l
Me: Do you not eat candy? Is this a palo alto thing? Then. choose "other"
Me: Actually, could use skittles right now, falling asleep while studying
Her:Haha no I'd just rather go of my own accord not be lured. And it depends on my mood but usually M&Ms
Her: What are you studying now?
2 Days later
Me: Woke up at 12:30, 10 hrs of sleep. Sometimes life is good. Oh, and just bought PRETZEL m&ms. Good luck not being lured..unless I eat them(Did I puss out in this part?)
No response
Next day
Me: studying while listening to the Batman soundtrack. My feeling of awesome are clearly not matching reality.
No response and it has been about 4/5 days.
I think I'll reengage with something. Or maybe a voicemail, thats something I need to do consistently. Also, she does have a bf, so maybe the text convo was just an ego boost for sometime and then she realized she didn't want to pursue it anymore.
Yes that was definitely a mistake.