Just had a very interesting date
Wed, 04/17/2013 - 07:15
This girl went crazy on me
She was the most emotionally unstable girl I've ever gone on a date with
Anything/Everything that I did that might even HINT at me not liking her- she took it like SUPER personally- she was crazy insecure
Like my buddy came to grab keys from me and I went outside and gave them to him
At one point she got really sad and was like, "When your friend came why didn't you have him come in to say hi to me- you didn't want him to see me did you"
And I'm just like wtf...
Then at the end of the night she goes, "How are you feeling?" and I go, "Horny" and then I pay the bill and walk outside to wait for her
She comes outside and walks right past me and when I go up to see what's goign on she's like, "YOU LEFT ME INSIDE!" like all pissed as if I was trying to bail on her.
At the end I just didn't want to deal with her shit and left - it just wasn't worth it... she was batshit emotionally insane and insecure....wtf
She was the most emotionally unstable girl I've ever gone on a date with
Anything/Everything that I did that might even HINT at me not liking her- she took it like SUPER personally- she was crazy insecure
Like my buddy came to grab keys from me and I went outside and gave them to him
At one point she got really sad and was like, "When your friend came why didn't you have him come in to say hi to me- you didn't want him to see me did you"
And I'm just like wtf...
Then at the end of the night she goes, "How are you feeling?" and I go, "Horny" and then I pay the bill and walk outside to wait for her
She comes outside and walks right past me and when I go up to see what's goign on she's like, "YOU LEFT ME INSIDE!" like all pissed as if I was trying to bail on her.
At the end I just didn't want to deal with her shit and left - it just wasn't worth it... she was batshit emotionally insane and insecure....wtf
Wed, 04/17/2013 - 07:29
#1
She was really into me but at
She was really into me but at the same time she was just so emotionally up and down that I couldn't handle it. I couldn't get a read on what was going on and I couldn't get into any sort of rhythm because the second things would be going well she would sabotage it and create some random bullshit drama out of nothing
It wasn't attractive, so I just left.
It wasn't attractive, so I just left.
Wed, 04/17/2013 - 10:46
#2
I bet she would have been a
I bet she would have been a beast in the sack
Wed, 04/17/2013 - 13:01
#3
Ahh that's SO weird when you
Ahh that's SO weird when you start being able to handle girls like that, and being able to deeply console them but really quickly while you slow them down and get them to relax. And yeah. They are a fucking beast in the sac. Nigga
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Wed, 04/17/2013 - 13:02
#4
'Course, I got a girl in bed
'Course, I got a girl in bed with me that won't fuc me so, yeah. Carry on
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Wed, 04/17/2013 - 14:24
#5
YESYou know the kind of
YES
You know the kind of girl I'm talking about.
And you know I'm at the point where I was able to do EXACTLY what you described IN MOMENTS- or for periods of time
At one point- I just laid down the fucking law- but in a vERY unique and "non-aggressive" way... I had to be very careful not to use aggression with this girl- I had to remain super unreactive... it was an INCREDIBLE practice in remaining present (instead of using anger- I basically flipped the script and used my OWN pain and reflected back to her what she was projecting on me- I basically converted my anger, in the moment, into pain and stared her right in the eyes and told her that she was hurting me- but in a VERY bossdaddy way- you guys may not believe this is possible or that only a bitch would say something like this to a girl- but actually I did this same thing to one of the founders of my company and he gained a FUCKTON of respect for me) and for about 20 minutes she was the biggest sweetheart I had ever met- wanted to do everything for me and make sure everything was okay and was super apologetic... started rubbing my dick and shit- it was a good moment
I had moments where I was able to sit there and remain VERY centered and just look at her while she went crazy and then I would breathe and continue to look at her without saying anything and then when she was done- I would say something like, "Relax- it's okay, just let go"
haha at one point I felt like I was fucking hypnotizing her- I literally sat there while she freaked out and when she was done, I literally was like, "Relax.. it's going to be okay- just let go of that pain" then I left to go grab a drink, came back and she was a sweetheart
My issue was that I couldn't MANTAIN the situation... it was like I was constantly putting out fires... I couldn't get her to just STAY calm and relaxed- it would be there for 15-20 minutes and in those moments, jesus christ she wanted my dick but then someting would happen and she would FREAK OUT again
You know the kind of girl I'm talking about.
And you know I'm at the point where I was able to do EXACTLY what you described IN MOMENTS- or for periods of time
At one point- I just laid down the fucking law- but in a vERY unique and "non-aggressive" way... I had to be very careful not to use aggression with this girl- I had to remain super unreactive... it was an INCREDIBLE practice in remaining present (instead of using anger- I basically flipped the script and used my OWN pain and reflected back to her what she was projecting on me- I basically converted my anger, in the moment, into pain and stared her right in the eyes and told her that she was hurting me- but in a VERY bossdaddy way- you guys may not believe this is possible or that only a bitch would say something like this to a girl- but actually I did this same thing to one of the founders of my company and he gained a FUCKTON of respect for me) and for about 20 minutes she was the biggest sweetheart I had ever met- wanted to do everything for me and make sure everything was okay and was super apologetic... started rubbing my dick and shit- it was a good moment
I had moments where I was able to sit there and remain VERY centered and just look at her while she went crazy and then I would breathe and continue to look at her without saying anything and then when she was done- I would say something like, "Relax- it's okay, just let go"
haha at one point I felt like I was fucking hypnotizing her- I literally sat there while she freaked out and when she was done, I literally was like, "Relax.. it's going to be okay- just let go of that pain" then I left to go grab a drink, came back and she was a sweetheart
My issue was that I couldn't MANTAIN the situation... it was like I was constantly putting out fires... I couldn't get her to just STAY calm and relaxed- it would be there for 15-20 minutes and in those moments, jesus christ she wanted my dick but then someting would happen and she would FREAK OUT again
Wed, 04/17/2013 - 14:30
#6
How do you handle this kind
How do you handle this kind of girl, Manwhore- I'm assuming you do it differently than me, heh.
And you prob fuck them so let's hear it.
And you prob fuck them so let's hear it.
Wed, 04/17/2013 - 15:14
#7
She was just a very insecure
She was just a very insecure girl
At one point, the band was playing, "Swing" music and I started to dance and I grabbed her to come dance and she looks at me and goes, "Do you know how to dance?" and I just kinda smile and she's like, "Seriously- do you know how to dance swing??!" and I'm like, "No... but it can't be too hard" with a smile and then we start dancing and she's like, "Woh- you're actually pretty good at this" and for like 10 minutes we were the only two people in the entire place dancing- everyone else was just like sitting down watching us
But here's the thing- I completely forget that other people aren't as confident as me and at one point I slipped up and didn't catch her properly and she FREAKED OUT... but I could tell it wasn't at me- she freaked out because she was so embarrassed and not confident enough to not care what everyone watching thought- so she got mad at me because she was in pain due to the embarrassment of thinking that everyone was watching her (super big ego, this girl)
With this girl I felt like I was walking this weird tightrope where she simultaneously, desperately wanted me to come back to her place with her AND desperately wanted me not to come back- she was deeply confliced
At one point she got really sad/mad and was like, "You don't have any insecurities do you- you don't get it"
And I"m just like, "ugh, not this again"- it's like I can remain present and deal with this ridiculousness for a little while but it just KEPT COMING
Like yeah girl- I have ZERO insecurities... wtf- it's not that... I just have accepted them and now they don't have power over me. I still feel pain and I still feel anger in moments- but with anger, it's quickly converted to it's root of pain and with pain it's quickly converted to presence... of course I still have insecurities, I just relate to them differently.
But she didn't get this- she thought I was this like "100% perfect" man and it made her SUPER SUPER uncomfortable to be around someone she saw in this light.
At one point, the band was playing, "Swing" music and I started to dance and I grabbed her to come dance and she looks at me and goes, "Do you know how to dance?" and I just kinda smile and she's like, "Seriously- do you know how to dance swing??!" and I'm like, "No... but it can't be too hard" with a smile and then we start dancing and she's like, "Woh- you're actually pretty good at this" and for like 10 minutes we were the only two people in the entire place dancing- everyone else was just like sitting down watching us
But here's the thing- I completely forget that other people aren't as confident as me and at one point I slipped up and didn't catch her properly and she FREAKED OUT... but I could tell it wasn't at me- she freaked out because she was so embarrassed and not confident enough to not care what everyone watching thought- so she got mad at me because she was in pain due to the embarrassment of thinking that everyone was watching her (super big ego, this girl)
With this girl I felt like I was walking this weird tightrope where she simultaneously, desperately wanted me to come back to her place with her AND desperately wanted me not to come back- she was deeply confliced
At one point she got really sad/mad and was like, "You don't have any insecurities do you- you don't get it"
And I"m just like, "ugh, not this again"- it's like I can remain present and deal with this ridiculousness for a little while but it just KEPT COMING
Like yeah girl- I have ZERO insecurities... wtf- it's not that... I just have accepted them and now they don't have power over me. I still feel pain and I still feel anger in moments- but with anger, it's quickly converted to it's root of pain and with pain it's quickly converted to presence... of course I still have insecurities, I just relate to them differently.
But she didn't get this- she thought I was this like "100% perfect" man and it made her SUPER SUPER uncomfortable to be around someone she saw in this light.