Just how deep game goes
The deeper I get into this, the more difficult I find it to take a girl seriously.
A lot of guys go their entire lives without ever finding out how amazing women are.
The deeper I get into the game, the more empathy I develop. Whe I first started getting laid I was very Machavellian. I kept emotional distance and didn't really care about any of the girls I was seeing all that much. Now it's getting to the point where I'm more emotionally invested and genuinely like each girl for who they are, personality quirks, life situations, etc. Feminine energy is a beautiful thing and once you start appreciating it, not only will your physicality and emotional intelligence improve, the sex will also be ten times better.
I find that's where I'm usually stuck at. ( emotionally distant )
Why do you think that is?
Fear of being a slave to my emotions and committing to them when I don't want to. . Fear of getting burned. Sometimes I just dont care.
Your fear of those things is completely founded. You will get burnt and it will fucking suck. But it will make you better.
Hm interesting Aquitas. How's this manifested itself before? What'd you get sucked into
Just jaded a bit from the shit I've seen/experienced. Kinda acting like a pussy too lol. Fucking girls with bfs, slampieces trying to hook up with CLOSE friends in order to inflict pain onto me, hypocrisy. Old flings tryna create jealousy by giving her number to my friend on my bday. Seeing girls play my friends. I myself getting played.
This post in particular is just in reference about a chick who I kinda dont give a shit about. She complains about me never seeing her and then tries to sleep with a friend of mine who has a gf. It doesn't bother me that she wants to slam other dudes at all. Bothers me that she isn't tactful. She wants to get wifed up, yet pulls shit like that. Derp. I wouldnt date this girl regardless but it's silly to do that lol. I'm still gonna smash tho
I went through that "jaded phase" lol. I used to get almost every thing you've mentioned when I was about 20-23 ish... If you're under 25, I would say, "YEAH, you're gonna deal with a lotta that bullshit. It's pretty normal." I'm 27 now and in my experience it's only up from there, everything gets SO FUCKEN AWESOME after that age!
Yea every year has gotten better for me. I'm 25 now.