Met this hot blonde on the street, and she was a little creeped out by the approach. Got her number, but sensed she didn’t trust me. The convo is part part through, where I first tried to setup things. Kinda, so close, but yet so far.
Me: What’s your sched this wk?
Her: Pretty busy, with school starting and my bday
Me: protip: chucky cheese, best bdays since the 90s and better w alcohol, lol
Me: I’m goin to beach and a forest on Sunday, it’ll be nice to leave the city
Her: Oh that sounds like a lot of fub
Me: Though, from tanning I’ll be black by Monday
Me: Bar plans for bday? Can’t see you w a fake though
Her: Hah I have one
Me: U have a baby face face, has ever not worked?
Her: Haha no
Me: I’d prob card you for cigs
Me:Back in my bouncer days…
Her: Lmao wow thanks
Me: Np pumpkinbutt ;P
Me: listening to lecturer w HUGE greek accent
Me: Can’t understans a fucking thing…pointless
Her: Damn that sucks
Me: Fuck it, goin to Dillon’s
Me: You getting past any bouncers tnt?
Her: Good bar
Her: I’m already drunk
Me: Damn early bird gets…dat drank
Her: I’m at the omni parker house
Me: Classy, think I’m the last Indian they let in there
Her: Lmao dying
Me: Beb, you solo drinking at omni?
Me: First two shots, ready for the wknd!!!
Me: Hope you took a long ass nap cz you obvi needed it
Her: I’m at taj getting hangover breakfast
Me: At casa de wanderingsoul- eggs, bacon, sushi, & a garbage mango…winning
Her: Picture of her absurd brunch
Me: Uhhh, yeah go fuck yourself lol
Me: Cucumber platter---looks pointless
Her: Lol I eat Turkish breakfast
Me: Passh, you’re a Turkish breakfast
Her: Man, I just took a very Indian nap
Me: You shut your mouth when you laugh at my jokes ;)
Me: Whatcha up to today and tmrw?
Her: I have a pig roast to go to tmrw lol
Me: Ok, my opinion just changed of you
Her: Lmao I know
Her: I’m not going to eat it, I don’t eat pork. But my friend invited me.
Me: Thought you were a boss, eating whole pigs, but…
Me: Yo, let’s grab a drink tnt
Her: I’m Jewish so I can’t eat por
Her: I have to unpack tonight :\
Me: R u that girl who is super OCD about her room
Me: don’t think I could handle that
Me: Umm, don’t take this personally, but… I think we should just be friends, lol
Her: Lol okay. If you’re actually serious that’s totally fine.
Me: Figured my room won’t clean itself and you’re semi-OCD, that’s perfect
Not sure where to take it, I haven't really got her to invest or chase. Maybe I should just call her and setup stuff.
Also, the last part was stupid and I dug myself in a dumb hole.
Ok this is a somewhat old school "Wandering Soul text convo" 'cuz you seem to get slightly frustrated (tho back in the day you'd start off this way lol) and sorta start "going after her" with some of your remarks. But dude.. you're running an excellent text convo here! You're just not EVER setting up a date, but your wittiness and banter and at times arrogant tone are boss. Where's the date setup? You start to get frustrated because nothing's happening, because you are taking it anywhere lol. Start seeding something and go at it
Thanks for pointing out the frustration--->going after her loop. I never realized why I was doing that, and you're right, it is cause I am doing nothing. Funny thing, is that I almost sabotage myself into a situation where I start running worse txt game.
Here's the rest of the convo from last night. I figured I'd attempt to meet up with her that night. Interstingly, in my head I was half-ass about it and didn't really want to do it, but I just try and pull back. Chicks sense this indecisiona and push against hence...
Me: Figured my room won't clean itself and you're semi-OCD, that's perfect
Me: Pic of my room
Her: My room looks like a tornado rn
Me: Prove it
Her: No Way
Me: Ur being worst jewish asian cleaning lady right now
Her: Lol wait what
Me: Refer to above
Me: Damn, this Philly cheese steak is bombbb
Me: Don't just sit there, say something loser ;)
Her: Sorry I didn't see this, I'm cleaning my room
Me: Damn you in the zone
Me: I'm coming over just to ruin it, get the OCD in overdrive
Me: See you soon
Me: Damn you!
Me: What's your address?
Her: You'll never know...
Me: Until tmrw. Thx. Man, these [name of her school] dorms are nice...
Me: In reality, in my bed and nothing could get me out. Night
Her: Haha goodnight
I figure I'll re-engage back in a day or two and quick setup a date. But the setup has to be different that "When are you free... let grab a drink..." cause when I've done that she has come up with some excuse or something she is busy with.
Yeah be a bit nicer and more playful and set up a date. She should NOT feel like hanging out with you is going to be a banter/argument/battle.
So, I re-engaged this girl last night, and again more whishy-washy shit when I went for the meetup. It’s funny, feels this a lot of my interactions. Sometimes, I think that a little bit of teasing/banter is enough, but it turns out not to be at times. This is where I feel I need to amp up things in the interaction in this case the txt convo), to get the girl more excited to come out.
Me: I’m pregnant, it’s yours
Her: We’ll get married
Me:though, can’t do indian wedding
Me: Don’t have a horse
Her: Damn can I still wear red?
Me: If you can match how good I make a tux look…sure
Her: Oh I bet I can
Me: This kid is gonna be great looking and smart as fuck
Me: And an astronaut
Her: Nasa cancelled the space program, not an astronaut
Me: Beb, he’s gonna build our timeshare on the moon
Her: oh good point
Me: Btw, do you like ice cream?
Her: I dooo, but I’m lactose intolerant
Me: Well, shiiit, let’s just grab a beer then. When are you free this week?[not the greatest date setup, should’ve put a line about why it would be good for her to come out]
Her: Not sure yet. Kinda crazy at the moment
Me:Baby Jesus in my stomach is not liking this crazy schedule :/
Me: Yo, oh shit, the kid might be a soccer player
Me: Let’s shoot for Sunday night. I’ll prob just want coffee by then. Thinkin cup, 8? Sound good?
Me: Umm, hope you went for a game of thrones marathon cz you obvi needed it
Her: Whoops sorry my phone died
Me: Np, was watching a tennis match and my boy Federer won, so super happy
I think from this point I’ll txt her back and forth and then Sunday I’ll call her up and try to get her on the phone.
Yeah this girl's not really interested, could be just a temp thing. How's the kickboxing going?