Laid, sexy escort became a fuckbuddy!

I'm posting this because it was a milestone for me and something I think other guys might find insightful. At the same time I need to process what happened. This girl is intense and being with her has to a degree changed the level of excitement I expect from girls. Also it's just a funny ass story.

I met this girl on Tinder and we started chatting about normal stuff. She suggests we move to a messaging app staright away which seems strange that she's so forward. I start to suspect she wants money. We chat on the messaging app and she tells me straight away she's an escort working nights. I carry on the conversation as if this is normal and we talk about other stuff. It's early in the morning and she has to goe to sleep after being up all night presumably.

We chat when she wakes up in the afternoon. I've been practicing manwhores fast & furious texting strategy and this was the perfect situation for it. I go straight for the meet up assuming she want's it. She say's she's working so unless I pay for her time she can't. So I go for the only time she's free and say I'll bring coffee and doughnuts tomorrow afternoon. I don't normally offer to bring stuff, but with this style of relentless texting it seems to create a nice balance between hard and soft. So we agree on tomorrow afternoon.

Next day when she's up in the afternoon I go over with coffee and doughnuts. She texts we're just having coffee and talking right? Of course!, I answer. Her 2 flat mates are asleep in the bedroom, so we sit in on the living room sofa with the tv on. Her flat's in a big tower in the heart of the red light district. I should mention it's not the most homely place, it's a little dirty and screams unhealthy lifestyle. But I’m happy to be there despite all this. She's 26 and from the Philippines, what I notice straight away is it's fun talking to her as she's feisty and flirtatious. We talk about all kinds of stuff and I use manwhores style of varied physical escalation which helps keep things new and interesting. She's quite confrontational telling me I’m such a pervert for thinking about sex all the time, this seems quite ironic to me given her choice of profession. It seems to be a theme with her that she likes to be in total control of the sexual frame. At the same time the more I withheld sexual validation the more she would open up and chase it. Pretty soon we're holding each other and I’m kissing her neck.

As it turns into evening I'm introduced to her ladyboy flatmate and the third one a chubby short escort. There's no privacy as there's only one bedroom, so we stay on the living room sofa. I put a movie on my laptop to stop the endless rubbish from blaring out of the TV. The whole time she's been calling me pervert while wearing tight hotpant underwear and a tight top. She decides to show me what she looks like in heals and we dance a bit. Well she dances and I try and keep up, she can really move. It's damn hot. I'm enjoying this situation because as much as I’m trying to seduce her (which she keeps pointing out), I have a feeling like she's toying with me. I guess you could say it's a challenge and that's what makes it fun. We wrestle for fun and she's got a playful violent side with light bites and slaps, again adding to the feeling of her toying with me. We watch the movie holding each other and one thing leads to another in between constant interruptions from her flatmates, which actually makes it hotter.

Now we're fuck buddies and it's been a great learning experience hangng out with her. She's feisty as hell so I have to be even more quick-witted. I have to intentionally withhold validation most of the time because that's what she loves. You could say it's been an education from a sexually very experienced girl.