Little Gen the coffee junkie
Another OKC text convo:
Check out who I picked up on the bus today beb
[ Send a photo of an awesome Barney plushie I found in the bus a week or so ago ]
Happy kid memories man, haha
Haha barney!
THE original awesome purple dinosaur
One and the same
;) How're you coffee fiend?
I'm okay! How are you?
I'm good, chill day at work today- office christmas party
Oh nice!
I haven't had a work Christmas party yet but I have fake Christmas on Sunday with my friends
Exciting
Also sorry for my rubbish replying, i was in Sweden haha
Haha sweet, it the last day you'll all be around before the holidays?
( Me indirectly asking if she's around this week, yea bwoi. Ignored the apology, I honestly hadn't noticed. Lol )
Nope, I'm goin home on Christmas Eve haha
Ahhh, loving london ay hah. In that case let's grab that coffee next week- get you your fix ;)
haha yeah let's! I'm only free on Monday though haha! I'm so busy, no day off till Christmas now :/
Egh- Monday's like the only day I can't do this week. Lol
( Got another day2 that evening. )
Hahah oh dear
Oh I can do an evening in the weekend maybe?
Sunday evening works ;)
Coffee may be hard to find, let's just grab a drink somewhere
...Yadda yadda yadda
Whats your question here brother?
I can tell your making the date more about satisfying her, "Lets get you your coffee fix" translation "I'll do anything to take care of you." Translation "chode"
Coffee is not a bad idea but make it a team effort for instance , "we need to get our coffee fix soon or were gonna melt. IM GETTING XTRA WHIP CREAM!!" See the difference? Win/win in fact more of a win for you.
You mentioned that she suggested doing monday, but you already had a date scheduled then. But you sent her "Egh- Monday's like the only day I can't do this week. Lol" Which said to her, you are SUPER available. You woulda been better off saying you already had a date that night LOL.
Had no particular question bros- but those observations you both made I missed completely, cheers! I'll keep aware of em both
Im thinking your from England. I lived in Leeds for a while and I remember a majority of English girls are very hard to warm up to. Especially if your doing day game. Starting off with a light, polite conversation and slowly making it sexual was the best way, in my opinion, to warm up to them. I also remember when I was in London the women were much more open for random conversation. Just food for thought. Your on the right path
You guess correct man, haha.
Yeah, Londoners defo have this habit of charging through life (and the city) inside their own little bubble with the blinders on. I'm still getting used to bursting that bubble.
Thanks for the words mang.
Your "demeanor" could be a benefit here, I'm not sure the overall vibe. Maybe you're going for the whole "nice guy with a dick" thing. Which IS a thing, I'm not being sarcastic. But you're coming off super nice. You should have some kind of an edge I feel.
After you say that I'm definitely seeing that in the vibe that's coming through in pretty much all ny texts. I'd be lying if I said I'm consciously going for that vibe though lol
This "edge" you're saying I should pepper in is this slightly sexual, ballsy, ball-busting vibe right? I get a slight "don't fuck me around" vibe from your texts
Yes.
You any good?
Haha I'm awful
Where is this bar?
Haha sweet, i'll take you under my wing- we'll be hustling fools in no time.
It's on xx, xx station's closest
Long haha
Ha cool
Cool? I don't know how to get to xx from yy so you can tell me bahaha
Lol get the blue line to xx, it's direct from yy station ;)
Hahahah how stupid was that? I didn't even realise
Embarassing
Lol, you're a little dork ain'tcha- so it's fine
Last night I was a little wierdo and today I'm a little dork. But I'm always a terrible person hahaha
(Callback humour, I said she was a terrible human being for refusing to buy something cute for secret santa)
Haha, for the record
I called you a little freak
Oh that's what I meant
And in my books, that's a positive thing.
Like talking with your entire body.
Hahah
I like it
The freak part
Well you brought in a sexual factor, but you're circumventing the "edge" and could come off as a creeper if you don't handle this right. When you meeting up with her?
If you call a girl weirdo and dork names like that too much they will start to think your actually like a mean guy. Its cool to say those things every once in awhile but call them nice playful names too. Manhoe is good with these. Something like muffin top, ms nutterbutter (if they have those in England) or a tasty snack or something.
Right... jeezus... the balance is key then. I suppose that shit changes chick to chick too, hah!
I meet up with her this evening man.