A little text game help needed...
Thu, 01/03/2013 - 22:35
Just looking for a little guidance here on how to follow up with this convo. This is a girl I all ready banged last Saturday night from a club pull, but I've known her for over a year. I fully understand that I may not see this girl again, but that never stops me from trying. Haha
I've had this girls number before and she has never responded to anything in the past. In fact, I had her number before and I deleted her for being non responsive. LOL Now that I banged her and I have her number again, the convo below has occurred. This chick loves 420, but has never responded to any text of me inviting her to smoke. She is responding to me asking her out to dinner, and really what I am doing here is getting some face time with her and then pulling to my house.
I've had this girls number before and she has never responded to anything in the past. In fact, I had her number before and I deleted her for being non responsive. LOL Now that I banged her and I have her number again, the convo below has occurred. This chick loves 420, but has never responded to any text of me inviting her to smoke. She is responding to me asking her out to dinner, and really what I am doing here is getting some face time with her and then pulling to my house.
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 02:31
#1
Re: A little text game help needed...
@vacuumbed:
You're responding to her iod's with iois- that's sorta a faux pas...
You have to punish her at least a little when she rejects you or dismisses you like that.
In less gay language: She's telling you nicely to fuck off and you just keep coming back with more persistence
On a positive note: It's really good that you aren't just giving up.
The key though is you gotta have that same persistence but do a couple things different:
1. You should playfully cut her down after she responds negatively like that. Don't be reactive but you gotta dismiss a little- even if it's just not responding for a while
2. Try a different tact- you're shooting out random dates without understanding logistics- always go for logistics first, that way you can start to block the exits
You're responding to her iod's with iois- that's sorta a faux pas...
You have to punish her at least a little when she rejects you or dismisses you like that.
In less gay language: She's telling you nicely to fuck off and you just keep coming back with more persistence
On a positive note: It's really good that you aren't just giving up.
The key though is you gotta have that same persistence but do a couple things different:
1. You should playfully cut her down after she responds negatively like that. Don't be reactive but you gotta dismiss a little- even if it's just not responding for a while
2. Try a different tact- you're shooting out random dates without understanding logistics- always go for logistics first, that way you can start to block the exits
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 03:34
#2
Re: A little text game help needed...
@buddhagames:
Great info, thank you. It might be too late for me to cut her down since I sent the last text, unless of course she does it again. Could I have an example of how I would playfully cut her down?
I was also thinking of sending this text tomorrow...
"Adventure! When's a good night for dinner? Let's make this happen..."
Great info, thank you. It might be too late for me to cut her down since I sent the last text, unless of course she does it again. Could I have an example of how I would playfully cut her down?
I was also thinking of sending this text tomorrow...
"Adventure! When's a good night for dinner? Let's make this happen..."
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 09:26
#3
Re: A little text game help needed...
You're committing exactly the same mistake again. To a T.
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Fri, 01/04/2013 - 09:28
#4
Re: A little text game help needed...
I'd say something like, "Cool all good let's just keep it van status."
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Fri, 01/04/2013 - 11:12
#5
Re: A little text game help needed...
Manwhore;2507.10775;5 wrote:
You're committing exactly the same mistake again. To a T.
hahaha too funny- that's why I didn't even respond to this reply... fucking absurd- like dude how do you not recognize that
It's LITERALLLLLLLY the EXACT mistake I told you to avoid omg...
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 21:34
#6
Re: A little text game help needed...
I'm a slow learner, but I'll get it in my thick head. I never give up on learning.
I like the suggested text that manwhore shows above, but I've all ready screwed myself by sending the last text you see in the transcript I posted in my original post.
I like the suggested text that manwhore shows above, but I've all ready screwed myself by sending the last text you see in the transcript I posted in my original post.
Fri, 01/04/2013 - 23:30
#7
Re: A little text game help needed...
@vacuumbed:
haha yo man- I was being a total dickhead last night.
haha yo man- I was being a total dickhead last night.
Sat, 01/05/2013 - 00:57
#8
Re: A little text game help needed...
Vac I hope you realize how significant it is that someone else told you the EXACT same thing we've been discussing in our sessions. You being too nice and overly accommodating. It's a poison.
Btw you should really post up the lay report on this girl. Fucking superb. I can't wait till Buddhagames reads it, then goes back and reads your texting afterwards. I foresee some head scratching.
Btw you should really post up the lay report on this girl. Fucking superb. I can't wait till Buddhagames reads it, then goes back and reads your texting afterwards. I foresee some head scratching.
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I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Sat, 01/05/2013 - 01:00
#9
Re: A little text game help needed...
Haha no worries, I could use a good beating once in a while.
I'm prob gonna hold off on texting chic for a while, I didn't send her anything else.
I'm prob gonna hold off on texting chic for a while, I didn't send her anything else.
Sat, 01/05/2013 - 12:06
#10
Re: A little text game help needed...
Manwhore;2507.10804;5 wrote:
Vac I hope you realize how significant it is that someone else told you the EXACT same thing we've been discussing in our sessions. You being too nice and overly accommodating. It's a poison.
Btw you should really post up the lay report on this girl. Fucking superb. I can't wait till Buddhagames reads it, then goes back and reads your texting afterwards. I foresee some head scratching.
I didn't see this reply until now. Here is the FR/LR as requested. http://manwhore.org/forum/content/frlr-girl-ive-wanted-bang-long-time