Living at home
Hey guys, how you doing?
I'm dealing with a little (inner) issue and you guys can may share some bro'ness.
I'm 19yo, good at game and now trying to own the money game.
I worked outside the country (outside the Netherlands) for a while, wich was awesome. But when I came back, I had to choose between school or doing something else. So I decided to become an entrepreneur and I'm running a company now.
My company is running good, but not on a point where I'm to comfortable to get a house yet.. (I think I will in a few months).
Now I feel very fucked up when I meet girls .. In the weekend when I go out, it's okay, than I can pull girls to the house of a friend of mine. But the nightgame is fking me up and I like daygame more in general.
I just feel so horrible about meeting girls while I'm not having me own place. I'm a confident man, but that's just the thing that kills me actually. It's not even a very huge problem, my parents are not religious or something.
I'm thinking about not meeting girls at all till I have a bunch of money aside and move out. But If I could find the peace in living at home still. I could just chill, get a car, get some money, build up my business nicely (invest money that use to live on my own, into my business in stead)
Rent a fucking apartment you momma's boy
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Rent a fucking apartment you momma's boy
It's hard to rent an appartment without year numbers yet. But fair point, I actually am a loser and should make moving out the top priority.
Correct.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
lol your 19, it is socially acceptable to be living at home. Move out if its something you desire.
No it is not. Socially acceptable? Wow
You are not a man if you still live at home.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
What? you can't put everyone in that box. Some people have great family life and are at not at a disadvantage living at home at 19. Out of all things to worry about that ain't shit. If you have personal resistance to it then fine, but I think your projecting something false.
Lol! Look at the momma's boy clinging onto those skirts. What a grip
Still living at home past 18 is one of the most insidious pervasive causes of immaturity and lack of male seasoning there is. I preach on it constantly. It is a huge problem in boys and girls today and as an ex-miltary trainer and now dating coach it's one of the toughest issues to have to deal with in a student.
I've seen your progress from day 0, bud. You are the poster child for what I'm referring to.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I just did some research and it's actually fucking cheap to get something like a studio, jesus christ.
Next question is am I going to pay more to live in the city. I better do right, lol.
Lol! Look at the momma's boy clinging onto those skirts. What a gripStill living at home past 18 is one of the most insidious pervasive causes of immaturity and lack of male seasoning there is. I preach on it constantly. It is a huge problem in boys and girls today and as an ex-miltary trainer and now dating coach it's one of the toughest issues to have to deal with in a student.
I've seen your progress from day 0, bud. You are the poster child for what I'm referring to.
I totally believe you, but not always. Before I lived on my own a year, but I had to in order to start a business. But since I'm back here and back at my mom's basement, I feel like a peace of shit.
It depends mang. I live a couple miles off the strip here in Vegas but I got four bedrooms and a swimming pool in a nice backyard so it's worth it. But yes having super close proximity to the nightlife IS fantastic. Pros and cons
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Where i'm from not a lot of people that age can make it happen, especially while going to school. I know one dude with his own place, and he has it fuckin tough while still getting the military to pay for school. I would never shoot myself in the own foot by rejecting a privlege that is given to me like being able to live at home.
Get what your saying, if its possible then fuck yah do it. Does not mean your automatically a shithead for living at home, which is exactly what it sounds like your saying.
I need to get the fuck out of my house
Naw doesn't make you a shithead. Limits your independence and seasoning massively however
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Yeah living at home does hold one back from growing, but if you need to save up some money first, fine.
I moved out when i was 18, travelled 700 miles to neighbouring country with just my backpack and a 1000$ in my account. Didnt even have an apartment lol! Took me a couple days to get a shott term apartment and i had to move 4 times before actually getting my own place. All worth it. So yeaaaah get your ass out of your house
^ Like a boss.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male