LMR for the first time in a little while- thoughts?
Fri, 03/29/2013 - 13:50
Learned this the hard way last night.
Went out after free tour and hit it off with a cute lil kiwi and we chilled basically the entire night and I started talking about sex and she seemed really into it- we were talking about the first time we fucked, how it's not a big deal- I even dropped a story about my aunt and how she's a 72 year old virgin and how much that must suck, in an effort to set a solid frame all about how sex isn't a big deal. I actually thought this was good game- basically was trying to use judgmental thinking in my favor by setting the frame that NOT having sex was judgment worthy.
Chilled the entire night- grabbed a couple numbers in front of her (which I tihnk seriously de-valued her) She was like, "We're not having sex and I'm not going back to your place" was like, "Yeah that's cool- but you gotta see my dog"
Blasted through a ton of lmr just to get the pull- brought her back to my place "to see my dog" and we get in and she's like, "Let me see your place" lmfao so I bring her into my room and we lay down on my bed and start hooking up and every time I tried to reach down her pants she was like, "No I have to go I can't do that"
I froze her out like three times and it didn't do much.
I think the main causes of this lmr were:
1. Massive disqualification from getting two other girls' numbers in front of her face
2. Talking so much about sex
Thoughts?
Went out after free tour and hit it off with a cute lil kiwi and we chilled basically the entire night and I started talking about sex and she seemed really into it- we were talking about the first time we fucked, how it's not a big deal- I even dropped a story about my aunt and how she's a 72 year old virgin and how much that must suck, in an effort to set a solid frame all about how sex isn't a big deal. I actually thought this was good game- basically was trying to use judgmental thinking in my favor by setting the frame that NOT having sex was judgment worthy.
Chilled the entire night- grabbed a couple numbers in front of her (which I tihnk seriously de-valued her) She was like, "We're not having sex and I'm not going back to your place" was like, "Yeah that's cool- but you gotta see my dog"
Blasted through a ton of lmr just to get the pull- brought her back to my place "to see my dog" and we get in and she's like, "Let me see your place" lmfao so I bring her into my room and we lay down on my bed and start hooking up and every time I tried to reach down her pants she was like, "No I have to go I can't do that"
I froze her out like three times and it didn't do much.
I think the main causes of this lmr were:
1. Massive disqualification from getting two other girls' numbers in front of her face
2. Talking so much about sex
Thoughts?
Fri, 03/29/2013 - 16:28
#1
Yes and yes. More so the
Yes and yes. More so the second one imo. Less is more with that frame,. As if you're incepting that shit.
Fri, 03/29/2013 - 21:09
#2
What about physical
What about physical escalation throughout the interaction? Proper framing is more the icing not the meat here. And I read nothing of your sexual escalation at the end.
A lot of advanced guys get almost.. snotty with how they "game" girls. I went through this process myself. Kind of like we want them to jump through hoops to get us. But alas, girls have NO game and this is just not the way of things. Always run proper game. No shortcuts
A lot of advanced guys get almost.. snotty with how they "game" girls. I went through this process myself. Kind of like we want them to jump through hoops to get us. But alas, girls have NO game and this is just not the way of things. Always run proper game. No shortcuts
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Fri, 03/29/2013 - 22:04
#3
Thanks for the feedback.
Thanks for the feedback.
Yeah- so my escalation was okay but I started playing coy with her after the first venue change
Escalation primarily consisted of holding hands, picking her up and throwing her in front of a moving taxi, making out a little, grabbin the tits a lil- but nothing ruthless
At the 2nd venue, I started making her chase almost a little TOO much and I think the combination of devalidating her with the # closes with the amount of physical escalation and sex talk just made her feel like a cheap, used up slut
Yeah- so my escalation was okay but I started playing coy with her after the first venue change
Escalation primarily consisted of holding hands, picking her up and throwing her in front of a moving taxi, making out a little, grabbin the tits a lil- but nothing ruthless
At the 2nd venue, I started making her chase almost a little TOO much and I think the combination of devalidating her with the # closes with the amount of physical escalation and sex talk just made her feel like a cheap, used up slut